Phoenixpower
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ORIGINAL: VirginPotty Mine too, Phoenix................always ruined events by getting BOMBED/nasty! Yep When I worked in childrens village we had each summer a festival over 3 days where we sold stuff to get some extra money for activities for the kids we worked with...they visited me twice for that and he ruined it twice....the first time my parents and my dads cousin with his wife and daughter and 2 grand kids and whofuckelse was with them visited me and when I did show my mother and the wife from his cousin the house I was working in they decided to drive home to my dads cousin...and that is not a coincidence that he "forgot" them...I know him well enough that he did this on purpose because as usual he felt being left out... But well, I can't go with too many people through our house as after all it is not a zoo...apart from that I doubted anyway that it would interest him...once my mum and this other woman realised that they were gone they had to ask another house to use a phone (as at that time the mobile was still not as common as it is now, kind of, whilst it was common it was still very common not to have one) because once they realised it nobody was at our house anymore as a politician had visited our house and we had to accompany him...I just felt awkward for my mum that she had to ask a different house to be able to use the phone just because he played a little bit up again... A year later it was even worse, as on that occassion he wanted a coffee and I dared to suggest to have one a few further houses up instead of right now here as after all it is normal that you have your preferences whom you want to support more then others...what a mistake again...it was too much for him to wait 2 minutes and then he did not want anything at all anymore that day...refused to eat and drink something when we went for lunch, just sulking like a 2 year old boy...I was wind up big time when I went to our stalls and needed my boss to calm me down as his behaviour was just plain ugly...and at home he seriously did not talk to my mum for 7 or 9 days...I simply interpreted his behaviour with kind of "I did not want to be here in the first place, I would prefer much more to be at home, I am only here to do my wife a favour..." thats my interpretation of it...therefore I did not invite my parents in my final year there anymore...I informed them once it was over... Recently when I went home my brothers godfather made the comment "at the next wedding" (meaning, once your daughter is getting married you can do this or that which did not take place now at your sons wedding). I said bluntly there won't be another wedding as I would not do that family fuss!" My brothers godfather turned it down, a la I would change my mind as after all his daughter always said she does not want children and then changed her mind at the end... Hello??? There are no inconsistencies in my views!!! When my mind is made up it is made up!!! I have 1001 reasons why I would not have my parents with me if I would ever get married...and just as many reasons why I am to 99.9% sure that I would not attend my dads funeral one day...I do know why I have my views and am not having any mood swings in that respect And mom is just not any better either as I finally realised in the last 5 years...last time I went home she made the smart comment a la I could have studied straight away, if I would not have been as lazy at school as I used to be...right...hello? Apart from the fact that my parents did not do their job to bother if we ever did our school work or not, whilst I did not do A-levels I did now 3 different qualifications in 9 years...the last time from it are my studies...yes, my holy brother did study straight away...but quite frankly he wasted plenty years with spending 9 or 10 years studying in his subject which was meant to take just 3 years...he took his time big time (we had no student fees in Germany at that time)...so I dared to mention that on the same day right after that wedding comment...but then again...this time the wife from my brothers godfather turned me down for daring to defend myself in that respect...a la that of course I would react like that as a "sister". So right...it is ok to be picked up on for working hard since I am 17 to keep on moving up the career ladder but of course am not supposed to say anything when my holy brother gets praised despite the lazyness he did show when he did his studies...right... I seriously am much happier to have my distance to home...whilst I am not overly keen on the UK....as some might have realised a little bit...it is still better then to live close to home Don't approve of talking down on others for now fucking reason Funnily if unexpectedly my C-Dom and I would move on together my mom would have the next shock for her life When he and I were dating a bit in 2005 she was not too pleased due to our age difference of approx. 22 years...at that time he was not single...gosh that would be fun to shock her if we would make it work this time Though...I doubt...I think he is interested but it would involve a lot of things we would have to discuss *sigh* as after all I am not really keen of staying in the UK However, enough now with my rant, sorry folks...just not in xmas mood this year. Time to go off to work...my 6th night shift in a row tonight, yeah   
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