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RE: Isolation of sub/slave from family and friends - 3/31/2004 8:19:14 AM

mysteryUS

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Well said, Leonidas. But even the 'slave' relationship should start with clear discussions and expectations outlined, as much as is possible. Dominants who are vague, or who are not willing to discuss a general outline of what can be expected should be avoided. New slaves often feel uncomfortable with the idea of 'interviewing' the dominant, or questioning him. This is critical, as is extended interaction, before formalizing a M/s relationship. I strongly urge any new slave seeking a full-time master to have either an experienced and respected mentor to guide her/him, or to make clear to the potential master that the slave relationship/role cannot begin until a suitable period as submissive has been experienced. If he has a problem with this, or accuses you of not being a 'true slave' - run.

(in reply to Leonidas)