cltcdrd
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ORIGINAL: ginawithaB I'm gonna respond to this in kind of a round-about way. I had a chance to review your profile, and besides the point that I really think you should set up another profile using a different name - I mean, you really are not offering "your snatch" to everyone, are you? Your screenname suggests that you are. Just a thought. But to respond to your original post, I think you are aware that the problem is not that you have nothing to offer your "Master" (I'll explain later why I put that in quotes), the problem seems to have been that you did not fully understand the question posed at the time and were unprepared to answer. He caught you off-guard, so to speak. Now, why I put "Master" in quotes before. From reading your journal, it seemed that you took him on as your Master, or he took you as his slave, whatever, only the latter part of last month. I don't know how long you've been in the life, but you did say you were new to all this. I don't know the full nature of your involvment with him and it's none of my business anyway, but I get a little concerned when I hear about newbie subs/slaves rushing into M/s relationships and "Masters" who encourage such rushing, in my eyes, are not so much Masters as they are predators. I hope that doesn't sound too harsh, because I don't mean it to be. I know nothing about you or this man and I do not wish to judge harshly, I'm just voicing a concern. So, back to your original question. The main reason I checked your profile was to find out your age. You and I are about the same age so I'm gonna talk to you like I would talk to any peer of mine, any sister-girl of mine, and as slave to slave-- I know that some Maters/Owners use cutting off communication, limiting access to themselves as a means of punishment -- as a training method. Perhaps he is doing this...if so, seems to me he's not very adept at using this method...b/c if he is using this as punishment, he needs to have clearly stated that and he should have put a definite time limit on it. Also, if this were the case, I fail to understand what you could've done to deserve a punishment. Which leads me to believe he may just be being a non-communicative jerk. Or a coward, if what he wanted to do was end the involvment and just didn't have the "nerve" to tell you directly. The point is, there are so many possibilities and by him not talking to you, it only gives your mind plenty of time and space to imagine all sorts of things. I ask you, is that the behavior of a mature "Master?" Is that the kind of behavior you want to get on a regular from your Master? Just food for thought, girl. Take it easy. gina Perfectly stated.
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