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BeachBear -> RFI: Of Collars and Colors (11/11/2005 7:19:13 AM)
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Good Morning all, hope everyone is well today,
My new Domina and I have made tremendous progress in both my training, as
well as our relationship, and we wish to make a public expression that the
aforementioned relationship has gone to a new level of commitment at our
next BDSM group meeting. For reasons that are too long to go into, we cannot
enter into a formal collar at this time. Where I came from, some people in
the lifestyle recognized two submissive collars (they did not count the
utilitarian collar used for training, which carried no significance...
except that one was being trained). The collar of consideration, which was a
shade of blue (for males) or red (females). The Collar of Consideration
covered all aspects of a serious relationship up until it was superseded by
the (formal) Collar (usually black, silver, or gold).
A smaller group held that the Collar of Consideration was blue, which was
then replaced by a collar representing a higher level of commitment, that of
the training stage (here "Training" was held to be a symbolic stage, as well
as a practical one, the color used was red), finally being replaced by the
Formal Collar (see colors above).
I was hoping that some members of this fine group might be able to advise as
to what is considered appropriate for a submissive, at different stages of
the relationship, based on your understanding.
respectfully,
bear
Pet to the Domina Selaene
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