Lordandmaster
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That's interesting, and something I've noticed also, but I tend to avoid psychiatric explanations of the things we do, because they're often based on outrageous assumptions. I think every cuckold and cuckold-lover will have his or her own explanation of why it excites them, how it makes them feel, and why they do it, but one constant I've noticed is the cuckold's need to relate to other men. Sometimes it's a need to be humiliated by another man (fuck my wife, I'm not man enough to do it); sometimes it's a need to be admired by another man (fuck my wife, she's really hot, so that means I must be a great guy); sometimes it's other things, or a combination of things. But I honestly have never met a cuckold who says he does it ONLY to make his partner happy. That obviously has to play a role too, but in my experience there is always some kind of primal association that the cuckold feels with the bull (and one that is not always reciprocated by the bull). That's why the act of cleaning the wife after the bull is finished with her--whether by eating her out, licking her, whatever--seems to be so common. I was once in a complicated relationship that, in retrospect, was clearly bull-wife-cuckold, but at the time I thought it was master-slave-slave's vanilla husband. The slave's vanilla husband became a cuckold when she came home one day and forced him to eat my come out of her vagina. At that point, I became a bull, and didn't realize it. (The cuckold eventually killed himself, but that's a different matter.) Lam quote:
ORIGINAL: Petruchio A psychiatrist I know says there's a lot of reasons, but an often overlooked cause is having unrecognized homosexual tendencies. A man may get to watch and possibly touch up close and personal.
< Message edited by Lordandmaster -- 1/26/2006 4:41:05 PM >
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