Mizziness
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I am seeking a few folks to interview, discretely, for an upcoming book on formal D/s (which is D/s based on a core of power exchange and not sexual relations or BDSM.) I would prefer interviews to be held over chat, email or another electronic medium. I have a slew of topics that I would like comments, insight, and opinions on, so please take a look at the list below and if you have anything you'd like to say on any of these topics, or on anything else specifically, please let me know! I can't offer any compensation for the help, but I am going to list everyone who allows it in the thank-you section of the book as either their first name, last initial or their preferred pen-name or monicker.
If you would like to participate, send me a PM, please! I am conducting interviews of Dom/mes, submissives, switches, and anyone else who would like to.
- The definition(s) of D/s
- The normalcy of D/s
- Common misconceptions and stereotypes
- The difference between D/s and “normal” relationships
- What every Dominant should know before starting out
- What every submissive should know before starting out
- Common pitfalls and how to avoid them
- Communication: how to do it and how not to do it
- Should Dominants and submissives learn both sides of the D/s coin?
- The different types of tops or Dominants
- The different types of bottoms or subs
- What a Dominant is and/or could be, including responsibilities
- Traits of a good Dominant
- What a submissive is and/or could be, including responsibilities
- Traits of a good submissive
- Is respect just for submissives?
- Identifying needs vs. wants
- Polyamory and monogamy in D/s
- Punishments: What is too much and what is not enough
- Rewards: To spoil or not to spoil?
- Fixing problems in a D/s relationship from the perspective of both a submissive and a Dominant
- What training should a submissive receive?
- What training should a Dominant receive?
- Courting a submissive or Dominant: do's and don'ts
- How open about your lifestyle are you?
- How to find like-minded people
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"So go and lay back down tonight
Because you won't know who you are
Until you're down on your knees
And you're begging, 'Please...'"
~Evans Blue "A Cross And A Girl Named Blessed"
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