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RE: How do Men decide? - 2/24/2006 3:01:15 PM

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On a different tangent and one Ron may well jump in on <<<RWL and places an iced Fosters handy>>> Men as different to males, when regarding females for collering probably start the thought process in their little heads which if sufficiently aroused moves (the thought not the head) into their big head and after locating one or two brain cells deliberates ober a BBQ , numerous Fosters and a lengthy discussio with their Mates gets the body moving and Bing Bang Bling the female is collared........... When they wake up in the morning feeling totally shagged out and hung over (I.E. both heads and in a semi stupor) they discover a new slave, well ravished, is chained to their bed post. At this time they offer up many thanks to the Priest Kings for delivering mystically such a gift. Smart slaves says nothing of course (perhaps she has it filled massaging one of the heads........................)

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RE: How do Men decide? - 2/24/2006 3:06:56 PM

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to all of the men and women greetings''

my question is this what if you fall in love with a fw love as we all know has no borders we can not stop who we loive no matter what anyone of you may say, would love over rule all things or does you mind make you say i love her but she is not for me so i will leave her just becase she is a fw woman, no one can stop love and i think even if it would almost kill the men here by their own way of thinking they would or would not give up on that woman?

can anyone of you not love the wrong person and then you must turn them away for whatever reason? i need to know this

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RE: How do Men decide? - 2/24/2006 3:10:56 PM

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to all of the men and women greetings''

my question is this what if you fall in love with a fw love as we all know has no borders we can not stop who we loive no matter what anyone of you may say, would love over rule all things or does you mind make you say i love her but she is not for me so i will leave her just becase she is a fw woman, no one can stop love and i think even if it would almost kill the men here by their own way of thinking they would or would not give up on that woman?

can anyone of you not love the wrong person and then you must turn them away for whatever reason? i need to know this

mons

Stop loveing her? No. Walk away from her ? Yes She may be wrong for me for a number of reasons and the answer is still the same. It hurts but you deal with it and move on. That too is part of being Man.

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RE: How do Men decide? - 2/24/2006 3:20:36 PM

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RE: How do Men decide? - 2/24/2006 3:20:57 PM

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girl giggles at the visual....

thank you Master IB

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ORIGINAL: IronBear

On a different tangent and one Ron may well jump in on <<<RWL and places an iced Fosters handy>>> Men as different to males, when regarding females for collering probably start the thought process in their little heads which if sufficiently aroused moves (the thought not the head) into their big head and after locating one or two brain cells deliberates ober a BBQ , numerous Fosters and a lengthy discussio with their Mates gets the body moving and Bing Bang Bling the female is collared........... When they wake up in the morning feeling totally shagged out and hung over (I.E. both heads and in a semi stupor) they discover a new slave, well ravished, is chained to their bed post. At this time they offer up many thanks to the Priest Kings for delivering mystically such a gift. Smart slaves says nothing of course (perhaps she has it filled massaging one of the heads........................)

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RE: How do Men decide? - 2/24/2006 3:32:42 PM

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Stop loveing her? No. Walk away from her ? Yes She may be wrong for me for a number of reasons and the answer is still the same. It hurts but you deal with it and move on. That too is part of being Man.

Been there, done that. Not once but several times. When you know the right path then you must walk it.

IB we definatly have VERY similar ideas as to what it means to be a man!

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RE: How do Men decide? - 2/25/2006 7:47:11 AM

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my word

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RE: How do Men decide? - 2/25/2006 1:20:39 PM

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iron bear greeting to you and all

i read you post, i find that it sounds different then i would think many men would act if the love of there life was about to leave or youleave her i know what many men do, i have a son who is in his twenties he is what i call a true man everyone who know my son knows he is true to he word and true to how is behave to others he is strong i am astrong what you would call a free woman i am adomme i rsie this child alone with no one but a sister to help me wiith her childern they all have degree from different colleges are well read and honor the women but still hold to being the man. now the point of my story is this my son woman i call her was about and did leave him for a short time i will tell you in this house the hamory was gone i never seen him so shock in his life to think she would dare leave him he yes he cried in my arms can anyone of you ever say you never felt this type of love for you wife your slave and not had pain that was so deep it made you ill alll answer this please, i do believe you all are strong and have honor and stay true to your word but have you not felt this love and this pain before

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RE: How do Men decide? - 2/25/2006 2:02:01 PM

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Years ago, there was a girl with whom I fell deeply in love with. We never spoke of love and in due course she in turn fell in love with my best friend.. I have the pleasure of being his best man when they married. Neither of them ever knew of my love for her and never will….

“You gotta play the game. It’s all in the game and how you play it!”

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RE: How do Men decide? - 2/25/2006 7:43:43 PM

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HEY.. how do I keep my little "Deviant" thingy up there.. I like that one..
Heh heh.. ya I have to stop posting hmm?
Some of ya would like that one..

angel, I was going to mail you off line but your profile is closed.
and no, I don't have a clue as to why I said that.

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RE: How do Men decide? - 2/26/2006 2:13:22 AM

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Years ago, there was a girl with whom I fell deeply in love with. We never spoke of love and in due course she in turn fell in love with my best friend.. I have the pleasure of being his best man when they married. Neither of them ever knew of my love for her and never will….

One of the most uncomfortable for me was realising one young lady had fallen for me in a big way and that my own feelings for her had been growing for a while to but that I had been ignoring them in the hope that the situation would never arise. She was married to a good friend, he was monogomous so there was no chance anything would happen..... Till she tried acting on the feelings.

No way I could recipricate and still consider myself in any way honourable, she couldn't control her feelings but I had to. I broke off the friendship and haven't seen either from that day to this. In some ways it was harder to loose his friendship because I had known him longer and I could not explain my actions without probably damaging his marriage any more than she had maybe already done.

But as you have said about yourself in another post... At least I can look myself in the eye at the mirror and still hold my head high.

You can't control emotions, but a man MUST control his actions and take responcibility for them, it is what makes him a man.

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RE: How do Men decide? - 2/26/2006 2:42:00 AM

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Thumbs up mate thumbs up ~~~~ Passes an iced can of Fosters ~~~~

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RE: How do Men decide? - 2/26/2006 2:47:47 AM

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Thumbs up mate thumbs up ~~~~ Passes an iced can of Fosters ~~~~

I'll pass on the fosters mate, I preffer beer rather than what looks and tastes like a beer that I've already finished with

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RE: How do Men decide? - 2/26/2006 11:50:58 AM

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On a different tangent and one Ron may well jump in on <<<RWL and places an iced Fosters handy>>> Men as different to males, when regarding females for collering probably start the thought process in their little heads which if sufficiently aroused moves (the thought not the head) into their big head and after locating one or two brain cells deliberates ober a BBQ , numerous Fosters and a lengthy discussio with their Mates gets the body moving and Bing Bang Bling the female is collared........... When they wake up in the morning feeling totally shagged out and hung over (I.E. both heads and in a semi stupor) they discover a new slave, well ravished, is chained to their bed post. At this time they offer up many thanks to the Priest Kings for delivering mystically such a gift. Smart slaves says nothing of course (perhaps she has it filled massaging one of the heads........................)

Sensing what you are actually saying here, IB; yes; I believe that Foster's are in order. While I am wont to agree with the underlying postulates of your post, and will further cause consternation to some in this forum by stating unequivocally that in the main, I believe a greater incidence of Gorean identified males would find this situation anathema than the genereal population, or even the preponderance of the identified BDSM population, in truth it happens in this haphazard fashion when seeking holdings or mates (in the carnal sense for austrailians not familiar with my speech (IB has this understood out of hand)). The divorce rate and musical chairs routine of consensual living should hold us hostage to that fact.....

Sorry that I did not couch this fundamental precept in impudent and ne'er do well tone, as you expected me to, IronBear; but today I am in a mood.

I owe you a Foster's and a considerably indecent time, in recompense........

Sincerely (don't worry this too will soon pass),
Ron (Non-Gorean, Non-BDSM)

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