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RE: Carmen - 11/4/2008 8:33:06 PM   
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There may well be a few qualities in Carmen that may coincide with some qualities we see in the Gor series, but that is far from saying Carmen is Gorean. I believe that is the point Tim is putting forth.

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I thought that was pretty much what I said.
 
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RE: Carmen - 11/5/2008 6:55:40 AM   
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It is a well established that part of the process of determining what something IS, is to determine what it is NOT. Likewise, measuring the similarities of things will serve to underscore and clarify the differences........

 
It never ceases to amaze me, how very resistant folks are to examining what is Gorean , what is mutual between Gorean and non, and what is completely incompatible with Gorean, in that manner. The difference between comparing things, examining the similarities and differences, is a far cry from saying they are the same, mutually exclusive, or anything else. Grace

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RE: Carmen - 11/5/2008 1:20:21 PM   
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Tal, all!

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ORIGINAL: Cherylmazana

All types of women are covered in the books however in the end it is not are the women Gorean because under the right circumstances they all have the potential to be Gorean slaves, it is rather do the men have the potential to be a Gorean man? And in that Don Jose failed.


I agree with Cheryl.

Carmen is a tragedy. It is a tragedy because Carmen is presented as a beautiful, sensual free spirit, who engages in a love affair with Don Jose. Don Jose, enraged and frustrated that he in unable to inspire Carmen to bend to his will, and therefore cannot have her all to himself, instead kills her in a fit of jealous rage, effectively ending both their lives.

That's tragic, all right. Jealously is perhaps the most destructive of human emotions.

Carmen would have done all right on Gor, I suspect. There she might have found the sort of man to whom she could devote herself, and her passion-- either as a Free Companion or as a kajira. She most probably would have made a fantastic pleasure slave. All the requisite qualities are there. Had she found herself with the right man, her fierce stubbornness might well have given way to an equally fierce devotion.

Don Jose was not that type of man, sadly. Unable to inspire her love and devotion, his pathological neediness and unsatisfied desire to own her was ultimately translated into a savage act of childish selfishness. With tragic results.

Carmen is a tragedy because Don Jose was weak. Carmen enslaved him, then rejected him-- and he couldn't handle that rejection.

It is often relatively easy for a man to destroy what he cannot own. But though such things might happen even on Gor (people are people, after all-- both strong and weak) such a thing is not really part of the ideal Gorean way.

In a modern setting, Don Jose might equally have shot Carmen to death, gunned down the inhabitants of his local MacDonalds, then turned the gun on himself. Which again is not how your typical Gorean-- or even your average Earth inhabitant-- would deal with the situation.

The flaw which gives rise to the tragic ending of Carmen is Don Jose's weakness, and his resulting inability to control Carmen and, ultimately, even to control himself.

It's not a Gorean story per se-- but it could be. There's definitely a Gorean lesson to be learned from it.

That's just my opinion-- your mileage might vary.

I wish you well,

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RE: Carmen - 11/6/2008 7:04:32 PM   
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I am not saying we should consider Carmen as a Gorean but rather think about the fact that there are women like her.Women that are very independent and free in nature but that use their sexuality for their own pleasure and benefit. If like some Goreans say that Gor is a universally applicable philosophy, where would women like Carmen fit?


This is the most interesting thing that I've seen on this board all month.

Is Gor a philosophy? Is it a worldview that would encompass most if not all possibilities?

Or would it be better described as a moral code applicable only to those who choose to pursue it?

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RE: Carmen - 11/6/2008 8:28:27 PM   
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Greetings Ars,

My personal opinion is, Carmen is not Gorean in any sense of the meaning. Just because she is willing to die in order to keep herself from having to be held accountable to men and one man inparticular in this case, does not a GFW make.
If I were to lable her anything for a lifestyle purpose, for me a FemNazi comes first to my mind.
It is at least to me, clear that she used men for her own agenda's, such as, money gain, sexual gain (on her standards) and only for her pleasure when she wanted it.
Now, in a vanilla lifestyle, I would agree with Tim and label her a prostitue. IMO, the woman was nothing special just because she died not wanting to change how she lived her life.

I wish you well,
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RE: Carmen - 11/6/2008 8:36:59 PM   
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Gor the philosophy is not a one size fits all, I don’t know of any philosophy that is, I don’t think apart from Gor I have know anyone claim to follow a particular philosophy without a clear understanding of what it is and the choices/decisions/sacrifices in their lives it will entail.

If however you wish to play at master and slave in the way John Norman suggests in his book Imaginative sex, and the way most tend to do the “Gorean thing” then it is. That is nothing but sexual fantasy and a way to enhance your sex life.

If Gor to you is a go into a chat room/second life and play at being Gorean then it is as well.

In the end it all comes down to how you personally define being Gorean, and how the people you associate with understand what being Gorean is. If you associate with a group of people who believe that Gor is purely about positions and protocol then nothing anyone says who disagrees will convince you otherwise until you have your own epiphany.  

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RE: Carmen - 11/6/2008 8:50:18 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Elisabella

Is Gor a philosophy? Is it a worldview that would encompass most if not all possibilities?

Or would it be better described as a moral code applicable only to those who choose to pursue it?


It is all three.

It is a philosophy, the acceptance of which generates a worldview that encompasses most, if not all, possibilities.

In accepting Gorean philosophy, those who choose to pursue it adopt an alternative morality (and whatever applicable moral codes are pursuant to it) which is is some ways different from that most commonly associated with modern Western society.

So the answer to your questions is: Yes.

In relation to the OP, I fail to see where the character of Carmen is supposedly such a large departure from women as described in the Gor novels. Her independent spirit is represented in characters like Verna, Talena, and Telima. Her passion seems equal to that of Doreen (Tuka). Her pride and resistance to control is seen in characters like, again, Verna, and Vella. Her arrogance is equalled by that of Tarna.

All things considered, she's just a strong, passionate woman who is determined to wield her sexuality on her own terms, and who doesn't care what her repressive society happens to think about it.

In THAT sense, she's Gorean all the way. Except she's not on Gor-- she's on Earth, and is surrounded by people who react negatively to her unbridled sexuality. Her problem is that she can't find her match in the males around her. That doesn't stop her from trying.

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Carmen is a woman prepared to give herself completely, aware of the magnitude in human terms of this decision but in turn she will demand the same from the one to whom she surrenders herself. Portrayed as "free, independent and mistress of all her decisions", Carmen’s strength and capacity of expression, her calm acceptance of her fate, and especially of her death show her "interior security, strength of temperament, personality and beauty...".

-- Berganza T. The real Carmen in Programme for Carmen. Royal Opera House Covent Garden, 1984.


She wants to give herself completely to love. She just can't find the right man, one to whom she feels is worthy of her utter devotion. Nor will she settle for less.

In pursuit of her goal, she wields seduction as a weapon, using it to get what she wants. Naturally. It is obviously in her nature to do so.

Finding Don Jose to be weak and therefore unworthy of her passion, she sets her sights on what she believes is the strength of the famous matador, Escamillo. Don Jose, unable to deal with this turn of events and unable to inspire Carmen to abandon her life of sexual freedom for one of repressive morality as his wife, kills her in a fit of rage.

Carmen is not Un-Gorean, per se. Rather, she is sexually liberated in a way that Gorean philosophy fully supports, and she seeks magnificent strength in the men to whom she is attracted-- again, a completely Gorean frame of mind. She will only respect pure strength in a potential life mate-- the man who allows her to control and essentially enslave him must therefore be unworthy of her surrender.

Her tragedy is that she seeks a Gorean man, and cannot find one. So she searches through unworthy candidates, and ultimately grows to despise weakness in men when she encounters it. Nor will she bend to any man too weak to inspire her.

Don Jose is NOT a Gorean man-- or at least, he is unwilling or unable to react to his love for her with anything but simpering weakness. He begs for her to marry him-- and in so begging, he confirms his weakness. For this, she despises him. She must. Again-- it is in her nature to do so.

In Verna, we see the same situation. Proud, noble, arrogant in the extreme, Verna despises men until she faces Marlenus, who is finally strong enough to conquer her and inspire her love. If, say, Tarl was a weakling and hopelessly in love with Verna, and slew her when she spurned him in favor of Marlenus, the story would end no differently than in the opera. But Tarl isn't Don Jose, nor is he in love with Verna. There is no Don Jose in the Gorean version, so it ends differently.

Marlenus could keep Verna as a slave, but he chooses to allow her to be free, since that is part of what he admires about her. He senses she would rather die than live in slavery-- which is the ultimate manifestation of Gorean freedom, as is revealed in the warrior codes, and which willingness is considered sacrosanct in Gorean philosophy.

But Verna won't be free in the repressed manner of a Gorean Free Woman in Gorean society-- even as a Ubara. Instead she chooses the freedom of the forest, and she and Marlenus part ways. Still loving one another, but separated by their respective pride. And by Marlenus's own codes.

This all plays out, in both versions, according to common factors in human nature.

It's too bad Carmen wasn't transported to Gor. She might have met her own Marlenus, or Rask, or Drusus, and she might have finally met a man strong enough to inspire her absolute devotion, and ultimately her ecstatic surrender.

So... yes, it all makes sense from a Gorean viewpoint. On Gor, Carmen might not have despised and used men as she did upon Earth, because there, the men might have been strong enough to resist her wiles and inspire her love.

The tale of Carmen is no exception to Gorean philosophy. Not in the least.

I wish you well,

_Marcus_



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RE: Carmen - 11/6/2008 9:04:07 PM   
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Tal Marcus,

Except---Carmen is a gypsy, living entirely and happily within the constraints of her culture. Nor is she unsuccessfully seeking her true man--she's quite happy going from man to man. She neither escapes nor grows.

She just has an murderously jealous ex-lay. The conflicts are all Don Jose's.

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RE: Carmen - 11/6/2008 9:12:59 PM   
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Tal, Tim!

Yes, Carmen is a gypsy, so the scandal her behavior causes among non-gypsy culture is to be expected.

Yet she is also a woman in search of love. The text of the original novel puts particular emphasis on this.

Also, her willingness to die to remain free is the ultimate expression of freedom in Gorean philosophy. That is the very test which Tarl fails in the Delta, that which costs him the social aspect of his honor. It is also the reason why the warrior codes make provision for such a choice among captured Gorean Free Women, and why they demand that Gorean Warriors accept honorable death rather than submit to ignominious slavery.

I'm not saying that Carmen is all that special, nor that she is the ideal paragon of Gorean womanhood. She does, however, win her freedom at the cost of her life. She knows Don Jose will kill her for rejecting him-- she makes that clear before she makes her choice. That's quite an act of defiance.

Her tale, though fictional, is a remarkable one.

It is easy to dismiss her as a manipulative whore. But upon closer examination, I feel there are other factors to be considered.

I wish you well,

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RE: Carmen - 11/6/2008 9:15:11 PM   
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And yes, Don Jose is a complete douche.

IWYW,

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RE: Carmen - 11/6/2008 9:30:05 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MarcusofAr

And yes, Don Jose is a complete douche.

IWYW,

_Marcus_




A film about his life might well be titled, "How to not be a man".  Or perhaps it could be better written as a book titled, "How to be an earth man - a cautionary tale for Goreans."
 
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RE: Carmen - 11/6/2008 9:47:14 PM   
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Or a series of recruitment books for bullfighting:

Tarnsman or Toreador?
Outlaw or Toreador?
Priest-King or Toreador?
Nomad or Toreador?
Assassin or Toreador?
Raider or Toreador?
Captive or Toreador?
Hunter or Toreador?
Marauder or Toreador?

Well, you get the idea....

Dragoon Corporal or Toreador?



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RE: Carmen - 11/6/2008 10:44:59 PM   
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She knows Don Jose will kill her for rejecting him-- she makes that clear before she makes her choice. That's quite an act of defiance.


Greetings Marcus,
While, for me, in my personal opinion, which is only as important as I make it to be for myself, Im sure...lol..I feel Carmen was more..cutting her nose off, despite her face.I really did not see her choice as being a noble one, in order to stand up for her rights as being a FW nor an attempt or expression to help further the good fight, so to speak for her sisterhood of other FW. I feel, you are absolutely correct when you state it was a very clear act of defiance, but more so in a way that seems more selfish and childish to me. and that is why I can not honestly feel she is any sort of representative of a GFW.
Again, these are just my opinions. I do however see your point but moreso on a romantisizing aspect.
Hope I made a bit of sense....*chuckles*

I wish you well,
Maahsatti

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RE: Carmen - 11/7/2008 12:42:57 AM   
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Tal, Maahsatti!

In the literal sense, Carmen wasn't "Gorean" anything. The concept of "Gorean Free Woman" doesn't really apply.

You kind of have to take a step back and look at her, as her character was described, simply from the vantage point that she was "a woman," and like any other woman was subject to the pressures of her society. Her gypsy culture taught her how to relate to men in a certain way which didn't mix very well with the greater culture. She played by the Romany rules, as she had been taught, in accordance with their traditions.

In the novella there are several references to this-- her acceptance of the gorgio Don Jose as her temporary gypsy husband, for instance, and her strict adherence to honesty when she speaks to him of her feelings for him. She speaks only the truth of how she feels at the time, and doesn't view her actions as wrong.

Don Jose forsakes his military career and tries to assimilate himself into the Rom, but never quite manages to do so. His inability to fully accept what he feels are the immoralities of her gypsy culture, and its sexual freedom, ultimately drives him to try to "reform" her by forcing her to leave the Rom and settle down with only him.

That's not who she is. She has had a premonition of her own death at the hands of Don Jose, and even tells him so. But she won't cave in to his threats-- as if she refuses to lie to him about her true feelings and nature, even to save her own life. He responds, as she has predicted, by murdering her.

A huge part of the original novella is dedicated to sensationalizing the immorality of the gypsy lifestyle. It is intended to be a morality tale-- "bad gypsy drives a good man to murder," etc.

But from a Gorean viewpoint, Don Jose comes across as a weakling who is so desperate to possess her that he ruins his life and ultimately destroys her out of sheer desperation.

But she is absolutely standing up for her rights when she defies Don Jose and says:

"Jamais Carmen ne cédera! Libre elle est née et libre elle mourra!"

(Translation: Never will Carmen give in! Free she was born and free she will die!)

Beyond the Gorean context, she is declaring her right to live and love according to the gypsy way, promiscuous though it may be.

Selfish? Sure it is. But would it be more noble for her to cave in to a man she feels is a weakling, marry a man she doesn't love, and abandon her cultural heritage, just because he is threatening her with a knife?

You have to remove her from Gorean culture in order to view her in relation to the juxtaposition between her gypsy culture versus the confining religious-based social morality of Europe during that historical period.

The ideal Gorean Free Woman isn't a doormat, or a simpering weakling who relies upon Gorean law to earn for her her rights and position-- she is the counterpart to the Gorean Free Man: strong, proud, and defiant to the end.

So is the ideal Gorean kajira, for that matter. Strong, proud, and defiant in the face of weakness.

Both only ever really bow before strength. Because that is a basic tenet of the Gorean way.

As I said earlier, I suspect Carmen would have made an excellent kajira, provided her Master was strong enough to subdue and inspire her. But she reserved the right to make that choice herself, rather than serve the will of a weakling whom she did not truly love. There is perhaps some measure of nobility in that.

The novella implies that Carmen was capable of great devotion to men strong enough to inspire that in her. Even to Don Jose, when she and he are still within the bonds of gypsy free companionship (as good a term as any).

In the world of Opera, Carmen is one example of female nature, whereas Cio-Cio San (Madam Butterfly) is another. Both archtypes have relevance from a Gorean viewpoint-- one as an example of fierce passion and defiance, the other as one of selfless devotion.

These things have Gorean relevance because everything has Gorean relevance, when studied by Goreans.

I wish you well,

_Marcus_


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RE: Carmen - 11/7/2008 11:38:23 AM   
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You have to remove her from Gorean culture in order to view her in relation to the juxtaposition between her gypsy culture versus the confining religious-based social morality of Europe during that historical period.

The ideal Gorean Free Woman isn't a doormat, or a simpering weakling who relies upon Gorean law to earn for her her rights and position-- she is the counterpart to the Gorean Free Man: strong, proud, and defiant to the end.

So is the ideal Gorean kajira, for that matter. Strong, proud, and defiant in the face of weakness.

Both only ever really bow before strength. Because that is a basic tenet of the Gorean way.


Greetings Marcus,
Alright, I understand much more clearly now Carmen's choices and why and how they were made.
Thank you very much for clarifying this to me in a way I was better able to relate to the whole of this story.

I wish you well,
Maahsatti


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RE: Carmen - 11/7/2008 1:40:20 PM   
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Tal, Maahsatti!

You're correct, by the way, that when looked at from Don Jose's viewpoint (and from the contemporary viewpoint of non-gypsy society), Carmen was a selfish, messed-up bitch. No doubt about it. The things she did to Don Jose often bordered on pure, unrelenting cruelty.

My point is simply that there are many factors to be considered. One of the methods supplied by Gorean philosophy is to completely leave prevailing cultural rules and popular social dictates (like Don Jose's) out of it to look at a situation in a different context-- perhaps one based more in an alternate culture or cultures, or in instinctive human nature and biology.

That's all. Your first assessment was absolutely right, from a particular point of view. I was simply suggesting an alternate way of looking at it.

I wish you well,

_Marcus_



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