sub4hire
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ORIGINAL: Perempt No doubt the problem is real, and the pain is real, and I am not at all making light of it. The usual instinct for us all is to suggest some ways you might patch it up, and your respondents have suggested several that might work. Please consider, though, that most relationships in life do not last, just as a matter of fact, whether vanilla or bdsm, married or live-in. And yet the two of you have much more thhan a superficial relationship after five years. If patch-up, cunseling or therapy do not work, I would suggest a period of separation, where you move apart, do not communicate, and see how separation feels. If you cannot get together after that, I'd move on. Perempt, I just have to ask. Do you have any idea what I was even referring to? Hehehhee...that guy I was referring to I dated...well lets see...21 years ago. I was using it as a reference point when dishing out some advice to someone else. Since then..of course she deleted the thread. Basically it went something like this. Blueiii please correct me if I get any of it wrong. Ok...it went...What should I do? I was with my Dom...I threw a temper tantrum. Instead of lavishing me with all the attention in the world he said goodbye to me. See, I like to throw tantrums. His world should revolve around me. Oh..also by the way he was cheating on me talking to others on the pc. Oh..and also I don't like it that he has his friends he likes to hang out with. I should be getting all of the attention. So...I forgot myself with god for a while. Losing myself. Now, I guess its time for me to get to know me again. But what would you do if you caught your Dom cheating on the computer on you? I left him. He did'nt react the right way to my temper tantrum...damn...why won't he behave the way I order him to? Well that last sentence hey I embellished on. But, that is the jist of what I read and was replying to. Though the question was deleted as fast as it showed up. To me that is someone who seriously needs to do some growing up. But hey thats just my opinion.
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