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"Blackmail" as a kink? - 11/12/2008 3:28:06 PM

reydragk

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I've noticed a growing number of profiles of folks, mostly younger Dominant females, who mention that they want to "blackmail" people they meet on collarme. To me, that seems like a big danger sign...I suppose they could just mean it as a threat to be used for mindfucking within the context of a scene, but the way it's phrased kind of bothers me in some of the profiles I've seen.

If you're one of the people who has this interest in your profile, would you mind sharing a bit of clarification?
Everyone else, I'd appreciate hearing your thoughts on the matter.

--Reydragk

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RE: "Blackmail" as a kink? - 11/12/2008 3:32:17 PM

Phoenixpower

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I agree on that one in regards to "dangersign" and trying to get my attention with that way is one of the fastest ways to get blocked. I was stalked once badly which is to me on the same inappropriate level as blackmail and have not sympathy for that, neither as kink nor as threat.

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RE: "Blackmail" as a kink? - 11/12/2008 3:33:08 PM

Rover

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Like any other aspect of B/D or S/M play, there is an element of risk inherent to a blackmail fetish. That risk being the other party may not actually view it as play, but as a fund raising enterprise. Surprise, surprise.

Everyone decides for themselves what level of risk they find acceptable.

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RE: "Blackmail" as a kink? - 11/12/2008 5:25:31 PM

NessunDorma

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Agreed, Rover.

I'd see if they'd be interesting in meeting and knowing you a little first...if they're looking just to blackmail, there's plenty of guys on here that will fall for the right pic. Sure you might lose some people who are seriously interested....but it might be worth the security.

Or, you could make something up.

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RE: "Blackmail" as a kink? - 11/12/2008 5:43:41 PM

candystripper

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quote:

ORIGINAL: reydragk

I've noticed a growing number of profiles of folks, mostly younger Dominant females, who mention that they want to "blackmail" people they meet on collarme. To me, that seems like a big danger sign...I suppose they could just mean it as a threat to be used for mindfucking within the context of a scene, but the way it's phrased kind of bothers me in some of the profiles I've seen.

If you're one of the people who has this interest in your profile, would you mind sharing a bit of clarification?
Everyone else, I'd appreciate hearing your thoughts on the matter.

--Reydragk

Hey Reydragk. I don't know what to tell you. I have several 'kinks' about this sort of thing -- The Interogation Scene, The Bad Cop, etc. etc. etc. However, there's a big difference between a role playing game, like The RedLightCenter and a actual extortionist.

All I can say is that back when CM had a moderated chat room called TheLobby, I used to get PM'd quite a bit by folks who claimed they had fallen victim to a crime of one sort or another. I don't think they were all wankers.

Take care.

candystripper

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