PeonForHer
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ORIGINAL: ShaktiSama quote:
ORIGINAL: PeonForHer I think a hard limit for me, re rules imposed by 'my domina' (god it feels silly using that phrase now, so hypothetical is it!), would involve my interactions with others. Just as an aside...like LP, my eyebrows raise at this use of the phrase "Hard Limit", which here seems to be a synonym for "wrestling for control in the relationship". Just an observation, but you seem to insist on being the "One and Only" for any potential domme, which implies a right to control HER "interactions with others"--and yet you want to set "hard limits" that forbid her from exercising any control over YOUR interactions with others? Exactly who is the "dominant" in this envisaged relationship, I wonder? 'Cause from where I'm sitting--it isn't Hypothetical Domina. I can see by reading the rest of the thread that you must have been envisioning "interaction with others" solely in terms of being ordered to use of Protocol Speak in all walks of life, which of course would be regarded as silly by most people...but the way it was initially phrased certainly does seem odd and not terribly...err...submissive. Yes, I did think LP was talking about Protocal Speak in all walks of life. A silly assumption on my part, looking back on it. I actually did start picturing an academic editor emailing me with a comment like "can't you buy a new keyboard with a shift key that works properly?" (I was probably posting too late last night, as usual. Hence my assuming that Akasha was talking about kiddies' toys in relation to sponsorship for her bachelorette shindig idea - an even sillier assumption.) As for being not terribly submissive - well, I'm not, and wouldn't be, outside of my relationship with a partner. I'm assuming she wouldn't expect to have control outside of that (or much of it) anyway. But, all this notwithstanding, there'll be a grey area - perhaps bigger than I can imagine now. I'm prepared to be surprised at myself.
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