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Oaths and Professions: Gorean Men Only, Please - 12/14/2008 8:25:22 PM   
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This thread was borne out of discussions I've had with several Free over the last several days.  There are two areas regarding oaths and professions that I'd like to hear the thoughts of Gorean Men on.  While I realize that others will also have opinions on the subject, please refrain from sharing them here.
 
Every elected office I'm aware of carries with it an "oath of office".  Several professions or vocations also have oaths.  A few examples are pasted below.
 
My first question is whether you, as a Gorean, feel that any of these various oaths would be in conflict with living the Gorean philosophies.
 
Secondly, what about the slave of a Gorean Man?  In your opinion, would an individual have to leave their profession, and divorce from its particular oath, in order to be slave?  Is there an inherent conflict and incompatablility between, say, adhering to the Hippocratic oath and being slave to a Gorean?  Would upholding oaths such as those provided for examples place the community Home Stone in a position of greater authority than the slave's Master and his Home Stone, within the scope of the slaves employment?  Do you see a practial problem with that, or is it more of an abstract philosophical issue that you view as a non-issue for you in your day to day Mastery?
 
Grace 

There is more than one modern version of the Hippocratic Oath.  One of those, and the original version, may be viewed here: http://members.tripod.com/nktiuro/hippocra.htm
 
A modified Hippocratic oath for nurses http://www.bmj.com/cgi/content/full/323/7307/264/a

We learn from the Boston Medical and Surgical Journal that the graduating exercises of the training school for nurses at the City Hospital, Blackwell's Island, were held on June 1st. There were fifty-two graduates. A novel feature in the ceremony was the administration of a modified Hippocratic oath to the class. Among the clauses of the oath are the following: "That you will be loyal to the physicians under whom you serve, as a good soldier is loyal to his officers. That whatsoever you shall see or hear of the lives of men and women, whether they be your patients or members of their households, you will keep inviolably secret, whether you are in other households or among your own friends." We are of the opinion of the sensible person in Punch who replied to the fair temperance proselytiser that "people should keep sober without taking hoaths about it." But granting the need of an oath for nurses, the one from which we have quoted seems to be good enough for its purpose. (BMJ 1901;ii:40)


Lawyers Oath (state of Michigan) http://www.michbar.org/generalinfo/lawyersoath.cfm




I do solemnly swear (or affirm):

I will support the Constitution of the United States and the Constitution of the State of Michigan;

I will maintain the respect due to courts of justice and judicial officers;

I will not counsel or maintain any suit or proceeding which shall appear to me to be unjust, nor any defense except such as I believe to be honestly debatable under the law of the land;

I will employ for the purpose of maintaining the causes confided to me such means only as are consistent with truth and honor, and will never seek to mislead the judge or jury by any artifice or false statement of fact or law;

I will maintain the confidence and preserve inviolate the secrets of my client, and will accept no compensation in connection with my client’s business except with my client’s knowledge and approval;

I will abstain from all offensive personality, and advance no fact prejudicial to the honor or reputation of a party or witness, unless required by the justice of the cause with which I am charged;

I will never reject, from any consideration personal to myself, the cause of the defenseless or oppressed, or delay any cause for lucre or malice;

I will in all other respects conduct myself personally and professionally in conformity with the high standards of conduct imposed upon members of the bar as conditions for the privilege to practice law in this State.







 Law Enforcement Oath of Honor   http://www.ci.mil.wi.us/LawEnforcementOathof9155.htm







On my honor, I will never betray
  my badge, my integrity, my
  character or the public trust.  I
  will always have the courage to
 hold myself and others
 accountable for our actions.  I will
 always uphold the Constitution,
 my community, and the agency I
 serve.



Dental Hygienist Oath  http://www.adha.org/aboutadha/dhoath.htm








Whereas, ages ago in their quest for supernatural aid, the Greeks swore by Aesculapius, son of Apollo, god of health, and by Hygeia, goddess of health; and whereas, the Romans in the Christian era placed themselves under the protection of Apollonia, whose help as Dentistry’s patron saint, they besought, so now, do I ~ humbly acknowledge my human limitations ~ in accepting this parchment of my Alma Mater, solemnly swear to render health service to those who seek my ministrations, hereby enjoining upon myself the sacred duty of teaching the public, particularly children and young people, by precept, lecture, and every other available mode of instruction, the value of dental health as a priceless possession; and further, bind myself by future study to broaden my knowledge that I may share with others such information in my special field as will tend toward the ideal of dental health sought by Dr. Alfred C. Fones, the founder of the profession of Dental Hygiene.
With this pledge inviolate, may it be granted me to enrich my life in the practice of my art, thus to worship God in the service of mankind.

Oath of office, U.S. Senate  http://www.senate.gov/artandhistory/history/common/briefing/Oath_Office.htm

I do solemnly swear (or affirm) that I will support and defend the Constitution of the United States against all enemies, foreign and domestic; that I will bear true faith and allegiance to the same; that I take this obligation freely, without any mental reservation or purpose of evasion; and that I will well and faithfully discharge the duties of the office on which I am about to enter: So help me God.
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RE: Oaths and Professions: Gorean Men Only, Please - 12/16/2008 6:24:28 PM   
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Greetings Grace,

With regards to your first question, I don't see any conflict between the examples of oaths provided and the Gorean philosophy.  The way I interpret them, they are promises to practice ones profession to the highest standards one is capable of, which, to me seems to be the essence of Gorean professional codes.

However, when considering the same oaths and slavery, I see problems.  All of the oaths that you have provided as examples include "self determination" as a prerequisite to the performance of the oath.  Self determination that a slave, whether it be consensual or non-consensual, has forfeited in the first case, or had taken from them in the second case.  If ya substitute "this girl/boy will (if my master permits)" for all of the "I will" 's in the oaths, it don't sound the same. Nor does the message come across the same.  I'm sure that there will be those that say "but, I want my slave to continue doing what they do, keeping their oaths, practicing their profession.  They do it now, because *I* will it."  The self determination factor remains, or is absent depending on where you choose to stand on the issue. 

I wish you well,
Un

P.S. When my daughters were young, and I was somewhat younger, I often worked when there was work, and sometimes didn't see much of them during the week. It became a tradition that if Dad was home on Sunday morning, that he would make pancakes for breakfast.  Not being one that does a lot of measuring when I cook, there were several occasions when I didn't have enough milk in the house to make pancake batter out of the other ingredients that were already in the bowl.  I confess, I added a little bit of water to the milk that I did have on hand.  I spose that the question with regards to slavery is: at what point does it stop being milk, and instead become cloudy water?

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RE: Oaths and Professions: Gorean Men Only, Please - 12/16/2008 6:51:01 PM   
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Tal Unbuilder,
 
It seems to me quite common for slaves to be expected to be capable of self-determination. Taking the example of breakfast, a slave knows the various dishes that her Master enjoys, but absent a specific determination provided by him is free to determine for herself what she feels like making, or can best make for him, given the materials at hand and time available. If slavery required a self-determinationectomy, we would need a remote control to operate them. To my thinking, what makes them slaves is the fact that how much self-determination they are permitted to exercise is not decided by them.
 
IWYW,
 
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RE: Oaths and Professions: Gorean Men Only, Please - 12/16/2008 8:03:43 PM   
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Tal, Kirata,

Perhaps you can define for me, when it stops being watered down milk, and starts being cloudy water.

I wish you well
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RE: Oaths and Professions: Gorean Men Only, Please - 12/16/2008 8:47:59 PM   
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Tal Unbuilder,

That would be based upon circumstance, wouldn't it?

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Tal, Kirata,

Perhaps you can define for me, when it stops being watered down milk, and starts being cloudy water.

I wish you well
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RE: Oaths and Professions: Gorean Men Only, Please - 12/16/2008 9:13:26 PM   
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Perhaps you can define for me, when it stops being watered down milk, and starts being cloudy water.

Tal Unbuilder,

Well, I think the problem is that the analogy is flawed. When I said that if slavery required a self-determinectomy, we would need a remote control to operate them, that is the point I was trying to make. All slaveries fall somewhere on a continuum with respect to how much and what kind of self-determination an owner permits. A girl whose loyalty and good judgment have earned her owner's trust is a better and more valuable slave, not less of one.

IWYW,

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RE: Oaths and Professions: Gorean Men Only, Please - 12/16/2008 9:31:21 PM   
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Tal, Orion

My knee jerk reaction is no.  Freedom of choice in the best way to please an owner... isn't the same as *self determination*.  A slave may be allowed a certain amount of leeway in how they are permitted to attempt to be pleasing, but if I tell a slave that *I*  want a half pound of bacon fried crisp, 4 eggs over medium (cooked in the bacon grease), fried potatos with sausage gravy, homemade biscuits with *more* sausage gravy, and a beer for breakfast, and she brings me... oatmeal with skim milk and a couple of pieces of dry toast.... I am not going to be pleased.  *I* am a free person, what I choose to eat, and how much I choose to eat, is NOT HER FUCKING JOB to decide.  Slavery isn't the same as co-dependency. In my opinion, it stops being milk when ya skim the cream off.

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RE: Oaths and Professions: Gorean Men Only, Please - 12/16/2008 10:05:23 PM   
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Tal Kirata.

I don't think the analogy is flawed. When a slave surrenders everything to a prospective owner, that means *everything*.  In the context of the books, once branded and collared, the slave ceased to exist as a human being.  In this western society, on this side of the sun, that societal sanction of a self proclaimed slave, doesn't exist.  Is that really slavery?  Is a man who claims to own a self enslaved female, really a master?

How much water can you add to milk, before it stops being milk?

I wish you well,

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RE: Oaths and Professions: Gorean Men Only, Please - 12/17/2008 4:13:02 AM   
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Tal, Unbuilder!

Watered-down milk ceases being watered-down milk and becomes milky-water when the total volume of water exceeds the total volume of milk. Of course.

Here's another interesting question, however:

Does the Gorean slave, upon Gor, cease being a Gorean slave the instant she is beyond the direct control of Gorean Masters?

For instance-- let us say I send my slave down to the market to purchase some verr cheese (since my household is, for whatever reason, seriously in need of a round of verr cheese).

Let us also say that there is no one else out and about on the streets of my city. So the Ihn she leaves the house, until she arrives at the cheese merchant's shop, she doesn't encounter or interact with any other free Gorean at all.

During that time, she is under her own cognizance, fully.

Is she not a slave during that time?

It is my belief that there are two separate forces at work in the Mastery of any slave-- the external (collars and siriks) and the internal (the slave's own acceptance of, and adherence to, her state of slavery).

Ideally, the two states are constantly in effect, reinforcing one another, all the time. That would be total slavery.

But rarely would that be the case. At any given time, either the external or the internal would take precedence over the other, due to circumstantial modifiers. But the internal wouldn't have much validity without at least some existence of the external-- meaning a slave in a closet without any master in her life might internalize her slavery all she wanted, in private, but unless it were held up to some external controlling factor or mastery, she would be surrendering, in effect... to the control of nothing.

In the opposite extreme, a slave might be subject to all manners of discipline, etc., while in the public presence of others-- but once the door closes and she is alone, she could laugh the whole thing off as a meaningless sham. In such a case, there would be no internal adherence to her status as a slave, so that, too, would be an incomplete and incorrect manifestation of supposed slavery.

As is often the case among Goreans, sometimes it's not what someone does that matters most-- but why one actually does it.

So continuing your milk analogy-- a partial slave ceases being a partial slave and becomes a partial free woman when she is more free than slave by volume-- or in this case, through her own direct control over her existence.

As to your question about Mastery-- well, since we don't live on a planet on the other side of the sun where slavery is an established institution, I suggest that here in Earth-bound Gorean interaction, "Master" ISN'T what one IS-- rather, it is a reflection of what one DOES.

If you don't practice it, in the form of active "Mastery," then you're not one... except in the context that it is a polite, nominal honorific whereby slaves address the free.

Addressing the OP:

All of the oaths presented say essentially the same thing. They all attest that the swearer will perform a particular duty or series of duties, honestly and to their best abilities, and that they will not allow themselves to be lax in those duties or to betray the trust inherent in those duties.

That's pretty much the common definition of any such oath. It is a formal declaration that one will do (or not do) something, presented in the format of "everyone who witnesses this oath is invited to watch what I actually do, and to judge me should I violate it." It is a formal expression of one's "word of honor."

But unless one makes a point never to take more than one such oath in one's life, then such oaths automatically fall into a natural hierarchy. One must take precedence over the other, should two of them ever come into direct conflict.

One should be careful how one takes such oaths, and why. As an old adage says "If one never gives one's word rashly, one will never be forced to keep it poorly."

Personally, I don't see any of the oaths, presented above, as being particularly antithetical to Gorean philosophy or interaction. A Gorean might take an oath to his city and Home Stone, another to his caste, and so forth. Circumstances will determine which has precedence over the other at any given moment. Hopefully, the two will never conflict, and the Gorean in question will be spared having to make a difficult decision-- to uphold one oath while foreswearing another.

But not always. This very situation is dealt with in some detail in Witness of Gor.

Slaves may take oaths, surely (though legally on Gor, they would have little consequence, and since slaves are excused from the formal demands of personal honor, they might not be considered externally binding). But they swear such with the caveat that their actions are not always their own, and therefore difficult decisions may arise from swearing such.

If the sworn slave holds her oath as inviolable and gives it precedence over the direction of her owner, well-- that is inarguably the action of one who is free.

I wish you well!

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RE: Oaths and Professions: Gorean Men Only, Please - 12/17/2008 8:40:57 AM   
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quote:

My first question is whether you, as a Gorean, feel that any of these various oaths would be in conflict


Grace,

Since the answer to your second question is obvious given the context, I'll address the first.

I took a job once at a local college that, on the face, was perfect. They were partnering with large local industries to address specific difficulties with employees, and I had not only education experience, but also a long business resume and a consulting business. In short order, I was the team leader, and outlined the entire program for scratch, sold it to the businesses, and laid out the strategy for implementation for our team.

Then, and only then, weeks later, the Dean of Whateverthefuckshewas in charge of this operation decided to tell us that she had forgotten we all needed to sign two year non-compete contracts. Now, I've no problem with that per se, but it was never part of our original agreement, and two years in my own backyard was an excessive constraint. I raised my concerns. She promptly turned cold and told me I"d be fired if I didn't. I didn't. Everyone else did. She then decided that she also could no longer use me for all the continuing education courses I had taught for years, even though one had nothing to do with the other, just a petty swipe. She made sure she had all my plans, and I left them to do the best they could, unfortunately knowing they wouldn't be able to help these companies on their own, and losing a significant chunk of my income.

I brought all this to the attention of the Academic Dean, who was concerned, but typically had no solution. At the same time, the AD shared that this was not the only problem with Dean of WTF. Indeed, she was fired the next month. Did me no good, though.

So I put together my vita and started teaching at a better colleges at better pay, although it did increase my commute. But if I sign something, if I take an oath, if I promise something, I mean it, and if I can't agree to it, we can't move forward.

I've worked in business, government, not-for-profit organizations, education, and free lance. Never in politics (although the local committee has asked a few times), but if I did, if I could not stand behind the oath, I would not take the office.

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RE: Oaths and Professions: Gorean Men Only, Please - 12/17/2008 7:26:21 PM   
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Thank you, Gentlemen.  Any additional comments and discussion are also welcome and appreciated.
 
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RE: Oaths and Professions: Gorean Men Only, Please - 12/19/2008 6:51:00 PM   
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Tal Unbuilder,

I have to firmly agree with you on both the validity of the analogy, and the implications.

To allow a slave to undertake an oath of the sort required by these professions is deception, to my mind. Granted, I may have a simple, gut-reaction (knee-jerk?) response to the whole idea, but I find it moderately offensive. Perhaps this is one of those times where my gut is wrong ... or perhaps my usual, analytical approach would take an eternity of dancing around with words to convey something I already know on a nonverbal level: the oaths of a slave mean nothing, and are an affront to the concept of a solemn oath.

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RE: Oaths and Professions: Gorean Men Only, Please - 12/20/2008 9:09:29 AM   
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Tal, Aswad!

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ORIGINAL: Aswad

Perhaps this is one of those times where my gut is wrong ... or perhaps my usual, analytical approach would take an eternity of dancing around with words to convey something I already know on a nonverbal level: the oaths of a slave mean nothing, and are an affront to the concept of a solemn oath.


I agree with that. My above comment to the fact that "slaves can take oaths" was in reference to the fact that they can literally do so-- they can swear such things internally, to whatever extent they want. I mean-- if they did so secretly, and revealed their self-decided proclamation to no one, how could it be prevented?

How binding such an oath might be, or how it is perceived by others (notably the Free) is another matter entirely, as I also stated.

Now how that translates in the situational sense, when a "slave" holds a job outside of the home where such an oath is actively required, is another can of worms entirely.

Too, the oaths one swears during many matrimonial ceremonies can also be viewed both as sacred and eternally binding. When later matters of divorce and such rear their ugly heads, well, what happens to one's sworn oath then?

An oath is a formal resolution of commitment to some course of action. The seriousness of such is indicated by the fact that oaths are often sworn in the name of something sacred and inviolable, giving them far greater weight. They should therefore be taken seriously, always. They should not be violated once made.

It would be a simple matter to simply leave it at that, perhaps. But as one who was once compelled to forswear just such an oath in abeyance to another far greater and weightier oath, I can personally attest that sometimes, in extremis, even the most sacred of oaths may conflict and difficult choices must be made. Choices which touch on one's honor, and with which one must forever live, after the fact.

I wish you well,

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RE: Oaths and Professions: Gorean Men Only, Please - 12/20/2008 11:26:54 AM   
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Tal Marcus,
 
I think there may be apples and oranges afoot here. In the Gorean sense, at least, a slave is a slave is a slave. She may be a disobedient slave, a disrespectful slave, or a good and trusted slave. She is nevertheless still a slave.

And, I might add, slaves are human beings. A slave girl is a human female. Only her legal status as property denies her recognition under Gorean law as a "person". But there are other psychological and emotional differences, of course, and I think that is where the milk and water business seems to come in.

How slave-like is she? And more to the point, what do we mean by that? Would the perfect slave be an animal with no feelings, no thoughts, no will, responding only to, and perfectly to, the desires and will of her Master? I do not think that is the Gorean view. The intelligence and personality of a slave girl is a delight to her Master, and a creative girl will find ways to please him that he never thought of.
 
I think you would agree, we have to accept that there is a continuum here. And it is not between a zombie at one end, and total free will at the other. Gorean slave girls are not zombies, and even the freedom of the Free is not total and absolute. We are not gods, and slaves are not robots. That is why, in my view, there is no such thing as the pure milk and pure water of the analogy. When dealing with human beings, there are no absolutes. Some slaves are more slave-like than others, that is all.
 
As for how un-slave like a slave girl can be before she is unrecognizable as a slave, it seems to me that the answer to that is as much as the Free let her get away with.
 
IWYW,
 
Kirata
 

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RE: Oaths and Professions: Gorean Men Only, Please - 12/20/2008 11:56:35 AM   
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Once again, my thanks to you Men for making this a very interesting read, indeed.
 
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RE: Oaths and Professions: Gorean Men Only, Please - 12/20/2008 4:42:09 PM   
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Evening Grace,

It appears that yer trying to put this one to bed, but... I don't think I'm done yet.

Tal, Kirata

I think it's much more subtle than apples and oranges.  Yes, in the books the demarcation was stark... and yes, on earth we don't have the "legally defined" status of slave.  The law says "ain't no way" and... well there are quite a few who say it's already happened.  So... where are we going to draw the line?  If woman A surrenders herself to be a slave and woman B keeps her freedom what is the difference going to be??  They both keep their day jobs, perhaps even in the same company as employees with equal status, they both get to go shopping, but the "slave" gets to run around the house nekid and the Free Woman gets a capped nick??  I think there is a bit more of an essential difference than that.  Shit... next thing ya know... they'll be saying that a kajirus is essentially the same thing as a Free Man.

I believe that there is an essential difference between a slave and a free person.  And the sooner we get around to defining it... the better.

Perhaps... someone who has sworn a professional oath, has professional ethics to uphold, who wants to continue working in that profession... should give some serious consideration to begging a collar. 

I wish you well
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RE: Oaths and Professions: Gorean Men Only, Please - 12/20/2008 5:27:43 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Unbuilder

I believe that there is an essential difference between a slave and a free person.  And the sooner we get around to defining it... the better.

Tal Unbuilder,
 
Go for it. The notion that there is some fundamental difference between a female who is free and a female who is a slave is a conceit dear to the narcissism of certain Free Women. But I believe the Gorean view is that all women are slaves, at least to some degree in their deepest feminine nature. Start there.
 
IWYW,
 
Kirata
 
 

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RE: Oaths and Professions: Gorean Men Only, Please - 12/20/2008 8:36:28 PM   
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Evening Grace,

It appears that yer trying to put this one to bed, but... I don't think I'm done yet.


Hiya, Unbuilder -
 
Actually, no, that was not my intention.  I simply wanted to express my thanks for what has been offered thusfar.  I'm certainly not tired of reading this discussion yet - not by any means.
 
Regards-
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RE: Oaths and Professions: Gorean Men Only, Please - 12/21/2008 12:09:11 PM   
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While I wouldn't normally respond to something that was labeled "men only". However, since a female posted the whole topic and a man I know asked me to reply.....

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Watered-down milk ceases being watered-down milk and becomes milky-water when the total volume of water exceeds the total volume of milk. Of course.

Here's another interesting question, however:

Does the Gorean slave, upon Gor, cease being a Gorean slave the instant she is beyond the direct control of Gorean Masters?



No. Other people may treat this person differently yet the condition of this person's slavery, since it is within that person, is not changed. On Gor, a slave caught in the street was raped.. because she was only a slave. In reality? If you send a slave to her family's house for dinner and she is treated as an equal by her family she is no less a slave for it. It's not another's perceptions that matter in a situation like that. It's the internal perception.

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For instance-- let us say I send my slave down to the market to purchase some verr cheese (since my household is, for whatever reason, seriously in need of a round of verr cheese).

Let us also say that there is no one else out and about on the streets of my city. So the Ihn she leaves the house, until she arrives at the cheese merchant's shop, she doesn't encounter or interact with any other free Gorean at all.

During that time, she is under her own cognizance, fully.

Is she not a slave during that time?

It is my belief that there are two separate forces at work in the Mastery of any slave-- the external (collars and siriks) and the internal (the slave's own acceptance of, and adherence to, her state of slavery).

Ideally, the two states are constantly in effect, reinforcing one another, all the time. That would be total slavery.



The external is not necessary. Ownership, when accepted and recognized, is an internal dynamic. To get sappy for a moment it really is a matter of the heart, at least where women are concerned. The collar itself is just a piece of metal... or leather.. or whatever other material strikes your fancy. It's as necessary as a wedding ring for a married man. Is he still married if he doesn't wear the ring? Is his wife?

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But rarely would that be the case. At any given time, either the external or the internal would take precedence over the other, due to circumstantial modifiers. But the internal wouldn't have much validity without at least some existence of the external-- meaning a slave in a closet without any master in her life might internalize her slavery all she wanted, in private, but unless it were held up to some external controlling factor or mastery, she would be surrendering, in effect... to the control of nothing.



No, not to nothing. She would surrender herself to what was naturally intended and would be in her natural state. It is outside forces that more times than not place a slave in denial not the other way around. Upon encountering an actual Man that denial is then swept away. Granted, that itself can be rare in this day and age. One factor our mythical 'she' could be surrendering to is the expectations of the community itself. We do come with our own rules and methods of enforcement. A slave is upheld, it's hoped, to certain standards no matter who she is.

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In the opposite extreme, a slave might be subject to all manners of discipline, etc., while in the public presence of others-- but once the door closes and she is alone, she could laugh the whole thing off as a meaningless sham. In such a case, there would be no internal adherence to her status as a slave, so that, too, would be an incomplete and incorrect manifestation of supposed slavery.



Or the slave is arrogant and self-righteous due to a lack of effective discipline.

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As is often the case among Goreans, sometimes it's not what someone does that matters most-- but why one actually does it.



This denotes to having the ability ascertain what will be effective and what will not be effective with a slave. This is connected to my previous comments.

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So continuing your milk analogy-- a partial slave ceases being a partial slave and becomes a partial free woman when she is more free than slave by volume-- or in this case, through her own direct control over her existence.



Everyone has some kind of self direction, slaves are not robots, nor are Free, yet one, the slave, is subservient to the other.  In Renegades the books really do address this.

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As to your question about Mastery-- well, since we don't live on a planet on the other side of the sun where slavery is an established institution, I suggest that here in Earth-bound Gorean interaction, "Master" ISN'T what one IS-- rather, it is a reflection of what one DOES.



Slavery does exist both on this earth and in the United States to who practice it, and who not only practice but are not in denial about it. There are many groups in the United States that do so and still do not get jailed.

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If you don't practice it, in the form of active "Mastery," then you're not one... except in the context that it is a polite, nominal honorific whereby slaves address the free.

Addressing the OP:

All of the oaths presented say essentially the same thing. They all attest that the swearer will perform a particular duty or series of duties, honestly and to their best abilities, and that they will not allow themselves to be lax in those duties or to betray the trust inherent in those duties.

That's pretty much the common definition of any such oath. It is a formal declaration that one will do (or not do) something, presented in the format of "everyone who witnesses this oath is invited to watch what I actually do, and to judge me should I violate it." It is a formal expression of one's "word of honor."

But unless one makes a point never to take more than one such oath in one's life, then such oaths automatically fall into a natural hierarchy. One must take precedence over the other, should two of them ever come into direct conflict.

One should be careful how one takes such oaths, and why. As an old adage says "If one never gives one's word rashly, one will never be forced to keep it poorly."



True.

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Personally, I don't see any of the oaths, presented above, as being particularly antithetical to Gorean philosophy or interaction. A Gorean might take an oath to his city and Home Stone, another to his caste, and so forth. Circumstances will determine which has precedence over the other at any given moment. Hopefully, the two will never conflict, and the Gorean in question will be spared having to make a difficult decision-- to uphold one oath while foreswearing another.

But not always. This very situation is dealt with in some detail in Witness of Gor.

Slaves may take oaths, surely (though legally on Gor, they would have little consequence, and since slaves are excused from the formal demands of personal honor, they might not be considered externally binding). But they swear such with the caveat that their actions are not always their own, and therefore difficult decisions may arise from swearing such.

If the sworn slave holds her oath as inviolable and gives it precedence over the direction of her owner, well-- that is inarguably the action of one who is free.

I wish you well!

_Marcus_




I equate this to taking an oath for example regarding the U.S. Constitution for the Gorean state of inequality contradicts the equality aspects of the constitution. Or are we really all equal?

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RE: Oaths and Professions: Gorean Men Only, Please - 12/21/2008 12:38:00 PM   
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While I wouldn't normally respond to something that was labeled "men only". However, since a female posted the whole topic and a man I know asked me to reply.....


Honor among women. Or at least women with anonymous men.

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