YoursMistress
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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven So what kind of relationship are you contemplating? OK, I suppose what I desire includes some shared "vanilla" interests (I don't like that term personally), shared kinks, a willingness on her part to push me to explore new areas outside of my comfort zone in and out of D/s, mental stimulation, physical attraction, sex, optimism. The hard question for me is what am I willing to settle for? And in doing so, am I then discounting her by deciding that she is less than what I desire? Since I am very much a realist, the pushing part is an important aspect, I think. (hmm, I seem to have completely forgotten about "my friend" ) yours
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May your service of love a beautiful thing; want nothing else, fear nothing else and let love be free to become what love truly is. -- Hadewijch of Antwerp As a rule, I don't like to make general statements.
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