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RE: Spoiled rotten? - 1/4/2006 10:21:24 PM   
Petruchio


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to have my feelings hurt? no... not generally. i am one of those giggly, bouncy, cry when i dont get fed chocolate kind of slaves...


(chuckling) I love it.

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And, well, I enjoy the spoiling more then the punishing.


It's worth re-reading Wolff's explication at the top of the page, and I identify similarly.

Several thoughts occur to me, one being that I love holding a full breast at night or rolling over and having someone wrap their arms around me. The ancient advice about not going to bed angry still holds: If I were to punish someone by not allowing her to sleep with me, I would be punishing myself as well.

At the foot of my bed has slept a mutt or two, a lynx-like cat with the intelligence of a table leg, a couple of ferrets, a lost hamster, even a silver fox, and yes, the occasional sub from time to time. The sub was there as part of 'playtime', and I have sex with HER , not pups, cats, ferrets, foxes, or hamsters.

Finally, it's up to us as couples to make our own rules. I LIKE reading fiction and I LIKE Gor, but I LOVE sleeping with a warm woman.

Ultimately, I am my own master.

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RE: Spoiled rotten? - 1/4/2006 10:35:43 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Petruchio

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And, well, I enjoy the spoiling more then the punishing.


It's worth re-reading Wolff's explication at the top of the page, and I identify similarly.



Well, thank you.

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If I were to punish someone by not allowing her to sleep with me, I would be punishing myself as well.


Agreed.

However, I find that those are the type of punishments that keep my slave from being spoiled rotten.

As, at that point, she knows that she is no longer pleasing me.

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RE: Spoiled rotten? - 1/5/2006 8:58:47 PM   
SirDarkside357


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Status: offline 		I spoil My slave, after all, she is Mine to spoil, as well as she is Mine to do with what ever i want WEG My slave sleeps with me also, as she has from the day I collard her, but she also has furs that have been given her that are near the foot of My bed, she sleeps there at times, for punishment? at times..... as a reminder that while she is very precious to me, she is, after all, slave? oh yes......because there are times she enjoys sleeping on them? sure

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RE: Spoiled rotten? - 1/7/2006 4:25:27 PM   
nephandi


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Status: offline 		Sounds werry sensible. Spoiling a slave, or a child or a pet, is not the problem, that is love and wanting them to be happy, but to spoil somone to the point where they run wild, that is not good, but that is not spoiling, that is diservice, a rich ovner could bedeck his slave is expensive gifts, a cuddly one let her sleep whit him and a kind one let her enyoy her hobbies and she would still be slave, and t would be a good thing, if it pleesed him to do so, but if he let her do as she pleese when he says no, that is not spoiling as it dont do her any good, it is a from of noncaring and noncaring is worce than cruelty.

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RE: Spoiled rotten? - 1/7/2006 4:41:31 PM   
taliaTW


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Status: offline 		Greetings Masters, Mistresses, slaves

i have spoken to my Master about similar topics - ie: did He feel that by allowing me something i wanted, He was spoiling or indulging me, or did His feelings for me cause Him to "give-in" to me or not treat me as or expect from me what He would normally from a slave girl.

He has consistently reminded me that He owns me, not the other way round, and just because He allows me certain liberties on occasion, it is because He chooses to, not because my wiles have hoodwinked Him.

Just my thoughts,
talia

tali thanks her Master for His guidance but mostly for His collar.

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RE: Spoiled rotten? - 1/7/2006 8:17:23 PM   
SirDarkside357


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Status: offline 		I agree with you neph, and I seldom agree with many LOL

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RE: Spoiled rotten? - 1/7/2006 8:18:01 PM   
nephandi


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Status: offline 		Most Masters i tink would want a happy slave girl, all gruel and sleeping on the floor is all good in a fantasy setting, but slaves are pepole to, and by making them happy by given them indugences, one is not making her less a slave, simply a happy slave and a happy slave must be better than an unhappy one.

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RE: Spoiled rotten? - 2/6/2006 10:32:15 AM   
unownedredhead


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I think it is totally wonderful that you still sleep in each others arms, but then I am a cuddler myself.
All the best girl.

Dina

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RE: Spoiled rotten? - 2/6/2006 11:18:34 AM   
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Upon occasion he will order me to the foot of the bed, when he does I am beyond hysterical. And never fail to sob myself to sleep. I hate that I feel that way, but I am sooooo sad! I feel as if I am less that desirable. I feel that he does not love me anymore. I lay there feeling terribly sorry for myself.


Yes edana Your Master has spoiled you rottin an in fact has treated you like a Free Woman in His bed and you like that feeling and why not? Maybe you DONT have the slaves belly you thought you did. read the bottom of your siggie edana. What does it say?
At the point when what the Master commands of you is no longer serving Him BUT serving your desires and needs thats where the act is not that of a slave.{ you now have become the one being served {Visions Leon... as a slave}} you should be ashamed to be hysterical or sob for that matter. you should be honored to have a presance at the foot of His bed. Would you prefer He give this place to another who would honor it?

I never visioned your Master as being a Free Man who would spoil a slave but I see now He is not as strong a Free Man as He lets on if He lets a slave carry on as you say you have been edana. shame on you bringing negitive actions within your Masters colar and abusing your slaves belly so! you should be whipped and chained in the kitchen for a month.




Looks at My watch and sees how long it takes for Leonidas to answer this one...........


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RE: Spoiled rotten? - 2/6/2006 2:01:17 PM   
Leonidas


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Status: offline 		Don't know what reply you were expecting Dread, but I think you're right. What she posted makes her sound like a petulant little brat who thinks she's entitled to the dignity of her master's bed and throws a fit when it isn't given to her. I guess even you and I can agree on something once in a while. The conclusions that you draw about how well mastered she is are similar to what I would probably draw if I were a disinterested party reading along.

< Message edited by Leonidas -- 2/6/2006 2:13:58 PM >

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RE: Spoiled rotten? - 2/6/2006 5:32:52 PM   
mons


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why do you compare her spoiled ways anf if she is spoiled of that of a dog? i understand the gorean view onslaves but a dog, a dog is eaten in china and many parts of the world is she not worth more then a dog ?i mean no insult but it is a question i hope you answer

well wishes

mons

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RE: Spoiled rotten? - 2/6/2006 6:08:13 PM   
unownedredhead


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I am sorry but my sense of humour is getting the better of me. Lets put it this way, on Gor a slave girl can be fed to a tarn if her master so chooses. But, a good hunting dog takes generations of breeding and would never wasted as food for a tarn. lol.

Respectfully (but still giggling)

Dina

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RE: Spoiled rotten? - 2/8/2006 4:56:55 AM   
soive2000


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Status: offline 		Greetings Masters,
Greetings Mistresses,
greetings slaves,

hello edena,

I always think about my Master when I am getting punished and try not only to see the reason why I was punished, but how to improve my behavior so it does not happen again.
Another point I always seek to see is my Master's perspective. After all, if our Master is our center, then ourselves as slaves is to better ourselves for him no?
Also I imagine that for him punishing you is not pleasure. After all he deprives himself of your soft warm body to teach you a lesson.
He too is suffering for the sake of your punishement. Just because he does not say so, does not mean he does not feel it.
I believe if we keep our focus on our Masters we are less likely to get punished or to react w/o sensibility. If we fully focus on Master we serve fully.
Afterall, is that not what it is about?

humbly and respectfully,
anita

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RE: Spoiled rotten? - 2/8/2006 6:04:40 AM   
IronBear


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Status: offline 		Greetings edena,
Sounds like you are lucky to have a Master who understands you and how to deal with you. Yet I'm thinking that he is also a lucky bugger to have a kajira such as you.

I love spoiling a slave as long as I deem that it is deserved. I confess I take pleasure in having her crawl up my body and take a piece of chocolate from between my teeth.



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ORIGINAL: unownedredhead

Tal

I am sorry but my sense of humour is getting the better of me. Lets put it this way, on Gor a slave girl can be fed to a tarn if her master so chooses. But, a good hunting dog takes generations of breeding and would never wasted as food for a tarn. lol.

Respectfully (but still giggling)

Dina


Ermmm, are you suggesting that some of us should start a kajira breadig program for future generations of Gorean Free????????

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RE: Spoiled rotten? - 2/9/2006 2:16:49 AM   
unownedredhead


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Never would I suggest such a thing.

Dina



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RE: Spoiled rotten? - 2/10/2006 1:27:50 AM   
mons


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Status: offline 		no wonder you laugh that is horrblie oh my word but then the dog is speical ok i changed my mind no way will i ever be in the futrue a slave girl oh they would beat me i would not listen at all lol
i would run away so fast yep follow yes i have humor too i would "follow the north star"
greetings

mons

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