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RE: Women and Children First - 1/12/2009 3:31:31 PM   
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Tal,

If I think this scenario through to it's conclusion, it's basically simple. Women who were rescued from such a situation would become the slaves of their rescuers. Also, since all women on Gor have the slave within them, I see no difference in the FW and chattel as far as getting them to the lifeboats. Sure, free women of my homestone would get preference in seats. But, after that, they all figure in as potential new slaves to whomever claims them after rescue. So, if it was at all possible, I'd save the most desirable of the women (and thereby keep the contribution to the slave population of peak quality).

Unless a FW has a protector on the lifeboat who is willing (and able) to prevent her falling to slavery, her fate in this scenario is pretty certain.

Wishing well
LL

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RE: Women and Children First - 1/12/2009 3:40:56 PM   
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OMG....Just laughs and laughs at this totaly asurdty

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RE: Women and Children First - 1/12/2009 3:53:53 PM   
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It also appears some (Earthly) FW believe they might talk their male rescuers on the tarnship or rounship that rescues them that they are not slaves, but free. LOL. It's a dialog that takes place in multiple books and I can give titles and chapters.

I am just as certain the response will be along the lines of, "Ok then. I hope you can swim."  In these situations the books all have numerous examples of such. If a man saves the life of  FW she is his slave, if he wishes it. PERIOD. Swim and die or be rescued and serve your new Master.

This scenario does not take place on Earth. As the OP has said it is a Gorean Titanic on Gor (probably gleaming Thassa). So your (FW's) meager proclamations of being free carry no weight at all. If you still don't like this idea, then don't reply to the thread - stick to Earth-Gor.

LL

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RE: Women and Children First - 1/12/2009 4:11:24 PM   
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Actually I am laughing too.

It's not about the slaves or slavery at all.  It's about a bunch of people facing certain death on a sinking ship!

No matter how we dance around it there are certain aspects of being human that will always rise to the top.  Human instinct and emotion. 99.9% of those on said ship will fight to live.  The more dire the situation the more unpredictible the end result will be.  There will be heroes and there will be cowards.  Gender and or social status has no bearing on who will be what.


Bull honestly if you have to lower yourself down to being so nit picky then there is nothing to discuss.  Location, be it Atlantic or where ever doesn't change the senerio at all.  A sinking ship in the middle of a large body of water generally spells doom for those without a life boat.  Even with a life boat, survival is not always fool proof.  The further notion that slaves cause no emotional attachement towards free is laughable, hell even pets people give their lives for.  It is not a badge of honor to shut down all emotions nor is it something that is concidered Gorean.  People are not nor ever will be black and white, cut and dry.  Gorean or not.  To sit on a high horse and state it is impossible and wrong is bound to find you wrong, very wrong in fact.  What happens with faced with life and death is not something you can predict and then write a text book on.  People are strange creatures with unpridicable natures.  How don't care how "Gorean" someone is, it doesn't make them anything but human in the end.

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RE: Women and Children First - 1/12/2009 4:50:13 PM   
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some people are their own worst enemy....lol


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RE: Women and Children First - 1/12/2009 5:00:41 PM   
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Jahnaca B. Anthony, you are proof that you can lead a horse to water....

The ocean does matter because as you so ably prove there mindset of men/women will be relative to their location in time and space.

Even with all your years experience at ............something. It is my opinion that you still attempt to simply manipulate the Gorean philosophy into something that fits you. No matter the abomination you want to make it, changing something just for the sake of change does not equal a greater understanding of what that something is.

Like I said to Anarrus in the other thread its an issue of morality; and for you dear woman I am beginning to think it is a morality that will always escape the web you weave, whether intentional or not. 

I would also like to point out that you are quick to tell someone what they can't predict life and death situations and then make a prediction yourself, with satistics and all. The fact is good lady that men like me receive a good deal of training to do just that, predict as best I can what men will do (no absolutes mind you) in the face of death and then form plans for just such occasions. I know this concept might allude the Liberal North, but with all the harshness(life and death) American Warriors have faced since the early eighties perhaps you should limit your assumptions as to the life experience of others.

edited because I made a statement based on second hand information. 

< Message edited by xBullx -- 1/12/2009 5:21:57 PM >


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RE: Women and Children First - 1/12/2009 5:15:22 PM   
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Good evening Leonidas...

While I can't really contribute to the thread.............it has given me much thought. Thank you!

enjoy your evening...

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RE: Women and Children First - 1/12/2009 5:54:29 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Leonidas

Ok, here's a question that I think will challenge us a bit.  One that puts a light on a (seemingly, anyway) stark contradiction between traditional (where we live) definitions of being a "good man" and a Gorean definition.

You're the Captain of the Titanic (the Gorean version).  She's going down.  There are enough lifeboats for all of the free men, and women, but if all of the free men and women are seated, the slaves will be left behind.  Who makes it to safety, and who goes down with the ship?

No rhetorical waffling and side-stepping if you please.  Confront the question head-on.

 This really is a no brainer for me. I'm using every sexual wile at my finger tips to gain a spot. I 'know' that property is left behind. I hear it every time I get on an airplane.. "In the event of a crash landing, leave all personal belongings behind." Even knowing it probably won't work, I'm still trying because there's nothing to lose and my life to gain. I'm batting my eyelashes, pouting my lips, spreading my legs, stripping bare.. doesn't matter. If my life didn't mean everything to me, I'd be free, not a slave anyway. Being a slave means you've already made a choice for life over death so of course I'm fighting for it in the only way I know how.   

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RE: Women and Children First - 1/12/2009 5:57:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LarabysLair

Wow! Just wow!

What an opinion to be had of other people unlike onesself. Blanket statements such as this display so much prejudice and ignorance.

LL


Coming from a fellow of your level of enlightenment, who can't even grasp that there are differences in core values and worldview, between FW and slave (whithout even getting into Master Morality vs slave morality), that was a compliment.  Thanks.
 
Grace

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RE: Women and Children First - 1/12/2009 6:21:21 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: amelliagrace

quote:

ORIGINAL: LarabysLair

Wow! Just wow!

What an opinion to be had of other people unlike onesself. Blanket statements such as this display so much prejudice and ignorance.

LL


Coming from a fellow of your level of enlightenment, who can't even grasp that there are differences in core values and worldview, between FW and slave (whithout even getting into Master Morality vs slave morality), that was a compliment.  Thanks.
 
Grace


Well Grace,

Please do me the honor of enlightening me on this world view of how every adult slave is a simpering child that needs strong male guidance to function in our so very harsh world. The fact that many of these are holding down jobs with pay and responsibilities that you and so many free women could only dream of handling, has not enetered you small world view, perhaps?  And the core values that all are the same, all are weak, all are stupid, clumsy, foolish, and ignorant just doesn't jibe with my experience. I imagine it must be that I have met and become well acquainted with more subs and slaves than you imagine existed out in the real world. They really do cross the entire spectrum of everything human.  Many - dare I say most - submit themselves not because they have no other way to live, but because they wish to. This is Earth. It's all consentual here. The female senses a desire, she finds a Man worthy of her submission, he collars and trains her. She does not lose all her marbles in the transition to owned. She remains the same in intellect, wit, style, class, flair, creativity, and so forth. She gains perhaps in beauty and obedience. Nothing more is important.

Oh, and I would appreciate reading your full thoughts on Master morality vs slave morality.

Warmest regards,

LL

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RE: Women and Children First - 1/12/2009 6:25:01 PM   
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Try Nietzsche, since that is where Norman got it and displays it throughout the series. Has nothing to do with holding down jobs, or what have you.


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ORIGINAL: LarabysLair

Oh, and I would appreciate reading your full thoughts on Master morality vs slave morality.

Warmest regards,

LL


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RE: Women and Children First - 1/12/2009 6:37:36 PM   
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In a nutshell, much of what passes for "slave" simply isn't.  Plenty of men refer to their females as "slaves", when what they have in reality are submissive companions.  Feel free to disagree.
 
There are some highly intelligent slaves out there.  I've know a couple with IQs well above the 140 mark.  When it came to life, love, relationships, they simply were not capable of living life alone without mucking it up.  I know several who's careers didn't amount to squat until the Master started picking their jobs for them.  For others, once they were claimed they lost the ability to be self dertermining enough to maintane their career.
 
On the one hand are women who can function well either alone or as partners.  ONthe other are women who don't function nearly so well alone or as partners, as they do when owned.
 
I'll not derail this thread further by continuing this conversation.  Feel free to have the last word, or to leave mad, or whatever floats your boat.  What surprises me is that a man who thinks so narrowly as to see every female on the planet as slave fodder would give a shit.
 
Edited to add:  No, I won't discuss the other stuff with you hear, in this thread.

 
Grace


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RE: Women and Children First - 1/12/2009 6:51:15 PM   
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ORIGINAL: amelliagrace

In a nutshell, much of what passes for "slave" simply isn't.  Plenty of men refer to their females as "slaves", when what they have in reality are submissive companions.  Feel free to disagree.
 
 


agrees muchly..........

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RE: Women and Children First - 1/12/2009 7:17:37 PM   
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Well I know you have all been waiting for the Olafian answer to this, so I will make you wait no longer....

The solution is both obvious and might I say some what elegant. 

Take the Free women, stuff them in the hole in the hull of the ship to stop the leak and thus save a valuable asset to any maurader. then have sex with all the slaves. 

It's a win win situation....

Hmm, now where did I put my mead.....


Olaf

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RE: Women and Children First - 1/12/2009 7:21:49 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LarabysLair

Well Grace,

Please do me the honor of enlightening me on this world view of how every adult slave is a simpering child that needs strong male guidance to function in our so very harsh world. The fact that many of these are holding down jobs with pay and responsibilities that you and so many free women could only dream of handling, has not enetered you small world view, perhaps?  And the core values that all are the same, all are weak, all are stupid, clumsy, foolish, and ignorant just doesn't jibe with my experience. I imagine it must be that I have met and become well acquainted with more subs and slaves than you imagine existed out in the real world. They really do cross the entire spectrum of everything human.  Many - dare I say most - submit themselves not because they have no other way to live, but because they wish to. This is Earth. It's all consentual here. The female senses a desire, she finds a Man worthy of her submission, he collars and trains her. She does not lose all her marbles in the transition to owned. She remains the same in intellect, wit, style, class, flair, creativity, and so forth. She gains perhaps in beauty and obedience. Nothing more is important.

Oh, and I would appreciate reading your full thoughts on Master morality vs slave morality.

Warmest regards,

LL


A submissive is not a slave, for one thing, LL. The terms are not interchangable.

In the context that Grace (and others here) have spoken of, a woman did not choose to be a slave. She simply is. Its part of her makeup, her morality. Hence the part about how slaves are not self-determining. You cannot determine to be a slave. I don't think she ever said that slaves were children. Her point was that women who are slaves cannot thrive without the influence of a master. They can survive, sure. The survival instinct is pretty strong. Lots of slaves have commented that while they did not expect a place on the boats, they would do whatever it took to survive.

Here's my take on it: a woman who is submissive but not a slave can thrive without the influence of a master in her life. She won't just do whatever it takes to survive. She'll do whatever it takes to thrive. A woman who is a slave might try to do those things but for whatever reason she will come up against opposition again and again and again until she is fortunate enough to find a master to take the reigns and put things into place for her. That doesn't make her a simpering, ignorant child. It just makes her a slave.

This is kind of a thread jack though so if you'd like to discuss it further, I would suggest either starting your own thread or taking it to private discussion.



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RE: Women and Children First - 1/12/2009 7:23:34 PM   
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ORIGINAL: JarlOlaf

Well I know you have all been waiting for the Olafian answer to this, so I will make you wait no longer....

The solution is both obvious and might I say some what elegant. 

Take the Free women, stuff them in the hole in the hull of the ship to stop the leak and thus save a valuable asset to any maurader. then have sex with all the slaves. 

It's a win win situation....

Hmm, now where did I put my mead.....


Olaf


that made me giggle

good solution!

everybody wins .... (cause all those robes will act like Bounty papertowels ... FW are much more absorbent than slaves ... good thinking!)


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RE: Women and Children First - 1/12/2009 7:27:30 PM   
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ORIGINAL: opposingtwilight


that made me giggle

good solution!

everybody wins .... (cause all those robes will act like Bounty papertowels ... FW are much more absorbent than slaves ... good thinking!)



Yes I am a genius, and it has been said, probably by me, that the only excuse a Free Man has for kissing a Free Woman is the lack of a handy napkin....

I know that drink is around here some damned place...

Olaf

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RE: Women and Children First - 1/12/2009 7:45:31 PM   
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Take the Free women, stuff them in the hole in the hull of the ship to stop the leak and thus save a valuable asset to any maurader. then have sex with all the slaves. 


Do you have any idea what beer feels like coming out your nose? I DO!!! omg!

-smilezz-

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RE: Women and Children First - 1/12/2009 8:05:35 PM   
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quote:

I know that drink is around here some damned place...

Olaf


Slave! Get that man a fresh barrel of mead from my private stock. Hurry! Now!

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RE: Women and Children First - 1/12/2009 8:14:25 PM   
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quote:

Yes I am a genius, and it has been said, probably by me, that the only excuse a Free Man has for kissing a Free Woman is the lack of a handy napkin....


It has been a long while since ya got one of these from me Northman,but here it is.

*Gives you the cold FW stare down*.....(snikaz)

Love,
Maah,The Quicker Picker Upper


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