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sub that likes to switch in bed has-?'s - 8/11/2004 12:44:30 AM

sterlingsweet

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i am what i call myself a sumissive who likes to swith with my Mistress in bed, she also enjoys this.
But in our relationship i am a total submissive, and have absolutely NO desire to dominate.
Do any of you other subs out there enjoy switching in bed but never would in the relationship?

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RE: sub that likes to switch in bed has-?'s - 8/11/2004 12:46:33 AM

sterlingsweet

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and why does it say i am Vanilla under my name? i am not vanilla!

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RE: sub that likes to switch in bed has-?'s - 8/11/2004 7:30:07 AM

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If you look at everyone else, they'll have different amounts of posts listed, and different names. The more you post, the more the name changes. It's not necessarily a personal description (though some of the indecent, twisted ones might not agree)

If your Mistress wants you to top her in bed, then you're submitting to her by fulfilling her wishes, and getting a topping thrill as well. All good, from what I can see.

I like to top occasionally, but would prefer to have my male partner holding the authority in the relationship. I'd prefer to be dominant to another woman, if I was involved with one, though. I think I'm just greedy.

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RE: sub that likes to switch in bed has-?'s - 8/12/2004 1:45:39 AM

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Hello kiki blue,

Thank You for explaining it that way, yes that makes sense to me, and feel glad i won't be topping from the bottom, as long as that is what my Mistress desires me to do.
Thats wonderful because there are sometimes i just got to have her!

And thanks for explaining the Vanilla thing...geeze i wish they would think of something else, i mean i would rather be called a newbie, lol, although that is not true either.

Well it is nice to meet you and hope to see you around the boards again! Nice pic BTW.

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RE: sub that likes to switch in bed has-?'s - 8/12/2004 9:20:12 AM

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ORIGINAL: sterlingsweet
Thank You for explaining it that way, yes that makes sense to me, and feel glad i won't be topping from the bottom, as long as that is what my Mistress desires me to do.
Thats wonderful because there are sometimes i just got to have her!

I'm glad it made sense

If you and your Mistress talk it over, then I'm sure you'll be able to come to some mutually beneficial arrangements about it

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And thanks for explaining the Vanilla thing...geeze i wish they would think of something else, i mean i would rather be called a newbie, lol, although that is not true either.

That's ok - I'm sure you won't be vanilla for long!

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Well it is nice to meet you and hope to see you around the boards again! Nice pic BTW.

Thanks, I'm quite fond of it!

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RE: sub that likes to switch in bed has-?'s - 8/18/2004 12:40:10 PM

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Wow! I had no idea that this was happening. Lately, say over the past 3 or 4 months I've really had the desire to give a sensual spanking to my dom. He has even agreed to this , it doesn't hurt that he started out as a submissive!
Now, how do I get past the fear of freaking out about toping my dom while this occurs?

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RE: sub that likes to switch in bed has-?'s - 8/18/2004 12:54:19 PM

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Now, how do I get past the fear of freaking out about toping my dom while this occurs?

Just tell yourself you're doing what he wants and therefore submitting.

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