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RE: self milking? - 1/23/2009 1:19:10 PM

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I'm a little unclear on one point. My understanding of the point of milking subs for female dominants is to deny them the pleasure of orgasm while draining them of semen , in other words, an aspect of orgasm control . Yet, the info on the Aneros touts it's effectiveness in enhancing the power and pleasure of the orgasm. My own experience has been that stimulation of the prostrate, whether internally or externally, i.e. perineal pressure, enhances my orgasm. So, my question is, if the point is to deny the sub the pleasure of orgasm while having him self-milk, why would you ( all ) suggest the use of such a device ?

Yes, My subs are on denial, and their prostate
should be emptied every 6 weeks, and that doesn't
mean an orgasm, but by milking their prostate dry.
That's not the same as an orgasm, but the cum
will dribble out, while the frustration remains.

Isn't that evil but good
*EG*

are you gonna try it?

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RE: self milking? - 1/23/2009 1:22:17 PM

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Hmm, I didn't look too heavily into it... I have a toy that works wonders for me so I don't need it...

I would assume it's misleading at most. I'll double check to make sure.

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RE: self milking? - 1/23/2009 1:23:36 PM

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GoddessTease, I'm afraid you haven't answered my question. As I said, it seems, from your posts and others, that one point of milking is to deny the sub the pleasure of orgasm while draining his semen for whatever reason. However, the Aneros is being marketed with the claim of being for enhanced, not minimized orgasm and pleasure. As I also said, I know fro experience that stimulation of the prostate or perinium enhances my owm orgasms. Hence my "confusion".

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RE: self milking? - 1/23/2009 1:25:19 PM

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Yup, just misleading.

to quote them from their first page:

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the Aneros provides incredible sexual pleasure by directly stimulating the prostate,

it just says 'incredible sexual pleasure' not orgasm. *shrug* There is a (minor) difference

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RE: self milking? - 1/23/2009 1:28:12 PM

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Btw, a li'l off topic, but I hope nobody minds. I saw this product on the Aneros site and for the life of me, can't imagine how it is used. I a no stranger to monkey spanking but...

http://www.aneros.com/detail.php?id=87

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RE: self milking? - 1/23/2009 1:34:22 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: cjan

GoddessTease, I'm afraid you haven't answered my question. As I said, it seems, from your posts and others, that one point of milking is to deny the sub the pleasure of orgasm while draining his semen for whatever reason. However, the Aneros is being marketed with the claim of being for enhanced, not minimized orgasm and pleasure. As I also said, I know fro experience that stimulation of the prostate or perinium enhances my owm orgasms. Hence my "confusion".

Hello cjan,

There is no clit stimulation!!!

when one is milking, when you use this tool

when you're masturbating, yes it can make

you cum very hard, because in your anus

is your male gspot.

but when you don't rub the clit as I've said before,

and yes I call it a clit, then it will dribble out

while using the aneros properly.

It takes some practice, but believe Me

it works!

goodluck with it, and I do hope

that your question is answered now.

Warm Greetingz

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RE: self milking? - 1/23/2009 1:45:06 PM

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that's just what I was about to ask, cjan XD I looked at the alternate picture and was kinda terrified...

may make a good *regular* spanking instrument though...

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RE: self milking? - 1/23/2009 2:30:41 PM

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Ok, I'm clear now. My confusion seems to have stemmed from the fact that I've never had my prostate or perineum stimulated without my cock being stimulated, in one way or another. I'm not into orgasm denial ( I prefer orgasm enhancement ) , for myself or my partner, so that's that. Thanks to the both of you for clearing that up.

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RE: self milking? - 1/23/2009 5:46:29 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: cjan

I'm a little unclear on one point. My understanding of the point of milking subs for female dominants is to deny them the pleasure of orgasm while draining them of semen , in other words, an aspect of orgasm control . Yet, the info on the Aneros touts it's effectiveness in enhancing the power and pleasure of the orgasm. My own experience has been that stimulation of the prostrate, whether internally or externally, i.e. perineal pressure, enhances my orgasm. So, my question is, if the point is to deny the sub the pleasure of orgasm while having him self-milk, why would you ( all ) suggest the use of such a device ?

"Milking" (prostate massage) causes release of fluids produced by prostate and seminal vesicles located next to it. Those fluids are 30-40% of semen ejaculated during orgasm, so it is not "real" ejaculation. Even though procedure is sexually stimulating in same time, when performed in D/s play, is quite degrading.

Male's orgasm is associated with penis stimulation, erection and ejaculation. None of it happens or is needed while "milking".

As well when performed for prolonged time turns into torture...

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RE: self milking? - 1/31/2009 4:07:20 AM

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As i was directed to deny orgasm and self pleasure, my Lady had me milked bi-weekly to keep the prostate healthy and drained and horniness minimized. i tried the Aneros with minimal success and found a prostate massaging plug that worked better for my purposes. Using plenty of lube and the curved plug/ dildo i could pretty much empty the prostate. i never did achieve a prostate orgasm as some of the notes on the Aneros site indicates but it did take the edge off of the horniness and erections. The seminal fluid simply oozes out as if orgasming but without an erection.
For those that are on orgasm denial, prostate milking will go a long ways in keeping your prostate healthier and functioning. JMHO..
subron

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