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RE: your role as an owned girl (or boy) - 2/28/2009 11:02:38 PM

NuevaVida

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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

you noticed that mmmmmm makes me wonder what other things you notice.

I notice everything. Mwaahahaha....

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It's not neccessarily the speed or lack of speed that one goes... it's more a question of taking the right path to get one there.

I agree. However, in my case, it's best to take my time to enter into complete submission, to be sure I'm not repeating past errors.

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RE: your role as an owned girl (or boy) - 2/28/2009 11:04:35 PM

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ORIGINAL: slaveluci

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ORIGINAL: NuevaVida
We only get one chance at this life, and I have spent far too much of mine being unhappy due to allowing myself to be in unhealthy situations.

I know what you mean, NuevaVida. Congrats and hugs to you for realizing that and changing it. You deserve the best!

luci

Heartfelt thanks to you, luci.

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RE: your role as an owned girl (or boy) - 3/2/2009 10:09:39 AM

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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

so, my question is... when and where does your role end after you have submitted to the Dominant?

tazzy

I ditto to peppermint's first response.
I don't "role."

Since I don't "role" (occasionally roll) I don't even know what the above question is all about.

I'd like a Gor trained girl to answer all her own questions.

But I'd also like to know how many roles she plays and when is she ever just herself?

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RE: your role as an owned girl (or boy) - 3/2/2009 11:26:31 AM

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when and where does your role end after you have submitted to the Dominant?

this slave has worn many hats for Him in the last 6 years...

decorator, tailor, household "foreperson", lover, toilet, "partner in crime", confidante, slut, model, personal assistant, entertainer, massuese with happy finish, best friend, hostess, cherished posession, dance partner, artist, party planner/organizer, wife, canvas, etc.

what are the roles/activities that this slave will not do for Him? roles/activities that He does not desire.

what are the roles/activities He doesn't desire this slave to do?
here are a few examples:

bear and/or raise His offspring.
serve another Master...which includes employment.
attempt to dominate Him/our relationship.
die first.

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RE: your role as an owned girl (or boy) - 3/3/2009 10:09:44 AM

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Within a structure of bottoms, submissives and slaves, I agree that the former two have every right to say no, and to stop what is going on.   A slave does give up that right, however, with that being said, if a slave's owner is doing or causing something to be done that is harming the slave, the slave has a responsibility to say so.

If the master is worth anything, which many are not, they will stop and tend to their slave and insure they understand what the dynamic was that was harmful. No master woud deliberately cause harm.   That is however part of the internet fallacy of the master; that they never make mistakes.   They are human too, and they do make mistakes.

When they do, I as a slave am responsible to myself and to my owner to see that they are aware that I am being harmed.   I can say no, and stop. If my owner wants to really press that irresponsibly, I can tell you where that collar will be in short order...

Around my neck was not one of the options.

s.

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RE: your role as an owned girl (or boy) - 3/5/2009 8:40:24 AM

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I like this thread. It is sort of like "what would happen if a free and democratic society held an election and the majority voted to become a Totalitarian State. The answer is that such things are certainly conceivable, but I don't stay up nights worrying about them. I suppose my gut reaction is that a dominant (man OR woman) is not playing a role and neither is a submissive (at least neither is playing a role as to their overall needs). Neither is ultimately going to be happy as a "vanilla" (God I hate that term) for very long. As to the scenario regarding a release, well, such concerns exist in any and every relationship, it is always possible that one person or the other will become dissatisfied with the relationship, it just happens sometimes.

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