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RE: aligned lifestyle... vs. 'curiousity is not becoming' - 4/15/2009 11:02:02 AM

barelynangel

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Hey chewsie,

I know what you mean. Its one of the hardest things to overcome with regard to the possibility of my becoming a slave again. grins, its that i do want to have control but knowing i won't have that control having gotten use to such control while free lol.

It is a very comforting concept once you find that mindset and understanding, but it takes a lot of trust to get to that point. It doesn't mean it is a constant never wonder thing doesn't rear its ugly head, but the concept once planted helps alleviate some of the strain and results that comes with not being in control.

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RE: aligned lifestyle... vs. 'curiousity is not becoming' - 4/16/2009 5:13:32 AM

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quote:

You keep running around in circles with all these 'what if's', but what you are failing to understand is that no man worth his salt would ever place his property in such a situation.. He wants her to suceed, not fail; so for that reason alone, he would not place her in a situation that was GUARANTEED to fail.

To this Irish I am walking away with a very limited idea due to how this is written. What I know and understand to be different is that: yes, the Master of starshine wants her to succeed in things she's involved in doing, However, this success is to benefit him in the primary sense, and can not ..nor will not ever interfere or compromise slavery. So if Master chose to remove his slave from a "worldy high paying, stressful, negative impacting, etc." type of involvement because it compromised slavery..then He is worth All the salt. My purpose is to be taught and kept in slavery as Master see's fit to enhance his life...which yes, is where and what I needed and begged for.

I just think the emphysis of the words you chose puts a wrong light on things of just what is actually important.

starshine

< Message edited by starshineowned -- 4/16/2009 5:16:07 AM >

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RE: aligned lifestyle... vs. 'curiousity is not becoming' - 4/16/2009 5:52:00 AM

IrishMist

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No issues. I probably could have worded it alot better.
I know that men will put their girls in certain situations, at certain times ( situations that are unpleasant to the girl that is ); I am not arguing or even 'putting down' someone who would do that. I have been there, I know what it's like, and it's always done with a specific purpose in mind.
However, I do not believe for one moment that any man, worth his salt, would place his property in a situation that could be potentionally dangerous physically, emotionally, and mentally; consistantly, and without a very good reason.

You also have to understand that my original answer was to the question that SGS raised

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What if a girl is not aggressive at all by nature, and is definitely a submissive girl 'in general', and her Master puts her in a hard-core sales position? And wants her to sell, sell, sell? What if she were punished harshly for failing to sell, sell, sell?

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RE: aligned lifestyle... vs. 'curiousity is not becoming' - 4/16/2009 7:02:10 AM

starshineowned

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I do not believe for one moment that any man, worth his salt, would place his property in a situation that could be potentionally dangerous physically, emotionally, and mentally; consistantly, and without a very good reason.

I do agree with this Irish..just so you know. The reason though that I agree with it is and can only be "personally" based and not blanketed because what I perceive or define as abuse is not applicable to others..nor are their perceptions or definitions of such applicable to my life. Further complicate that with what society has set up as accepted parameters of potentially dangerous, physical, emotional, mental abuse, and I can only walk away saying..ya just gotta know the people, and hear things from their own lips. Also good for removing alot of these "what ifs"..heh.

To Sweetgirlseeks: Ask that same "what if" but remove any involvement of Master or slave from it. Where does that put your answer in regards to a girl being punished harshly for not selling selling selling in a hardcore sales position? Just curious to your answer.

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RE: aligned lifestyle... vs. 'curiousity is not becoming' - 4/16/2009 7:46:10 AM

Leonidas

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Slaves are property. They happen to be human property, and like all humans they come with their own set of interests, talents, abilities, and liabilities. Understanding and accounting for those is part of managing a human that you own, just like understanding that a car requires oil, and will stop working for you if you neglect that fact.

You aren't going to manage a Yugo into being a Ferrari, or visa-versa. The question is how much of the potential of the girl you own will you put to work for your benefit and the benefit of your household. Her personal fulfilllment in life will be a by-product of your talent at this too. Hopefully you are better at it than she would have been, or she was a fool to beg to be yours in the first place.

Some people shouldn't own slaves, just like some people shouldn't own dogs. You'll know if you fall into this category if the aggrevation of owning your slave outweighs her contribution to the household. Do the math.

Maybe these things are more complex and mysterious than I think they are, but I doubt it.

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RE: aligned lifestyle... vs. 'curiousity is not becoming' - 4/16/2009 11:46:26 AM

IrishMist

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quote:

I do agree with this Irish..just so you know. The reason though that I agree with it is and can only be "personally" based and not blanketed because what I perceive or define as abuse is not applicable to others..nor are their perceptions or definitions of such applicable to my life. Further complicate that with what society has set up as accepted parameters of potentially dangerous, physical, emotional, mental abuse, and I can only walk away saying..ya just gotta know the people, and hear things from their own lips. Also good for removing alot of these "what ifs"..heh.

Howdy Miss Star
As I said, no issues

Sometimes I don't fully think out my answer before posting; it often leads to me having to explain further lol. My fault, I know lol.
Have yourself a wonderful day

quote:

Slaves are property. They happen to be human property, and like all humans they come with their own set of interests, talents, abilities, and liabilities. Understanding and accounting for those is part of managing a human that you own, just like understanding that a car requires oil, and will stop working for you if you neglect that fact.

Said so much better than what I said

Ya'll have a wonderful day

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