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RE: Why does Gor raise so many hackles? - 2/3/2006 11:22:46 AM   
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Why does Gor raise so many hackles
I address this very question usually in the first day that someone comes to Me and asks Me about Gor.

There are usually two perspectives that I hear, One is from the vanilla person who is agast that there is a current culture with in Our world that accepts slavery. Of course they have no understanding nor differing views not knowing there is a differance in nonconcensual and concensual slavery. The other vanilla view is from the very persons who come online to roleplay the books of Gor and yet do not accept nor appreciate nor respect that there are people who would actually live in real life that which they can only imagine to roleplay in a fantasy setting. These two groups of vanilla people generate opinions that goes against Our particular lifestyle and its ways and its people who choose to live such.

The second perspective is the alternate lifestylers who go by a set of rules regulations and proticals based off of the S.S.C and R.A.C.K concepts of today which say basically that there should be no act no action or reaction thats taken with out concent and vountary action. The books of Gor blantantly go against such rules with things like nonconcensual slavery, slave rape, raiding citys and waring as well as being a One sided Dominated Society with no rights to any other then the One with the strongest Arm and weilding sword and sheild and cock between His legs. (unless your a 12 foot cockroach ..... makes a soul wonder why a cock roach is called COCK roach?? Its gotta do with that damn thing being stronger then any living thing on the planet and lving thru every damn thing and the concept that this is what Men and Goreans are suppose to be as well. { puts My face in My hand and starts thinking about what bugs names start with pussy.})
These acts that are read in the books by those whom live in BDSM or D/s find this very scarry because not only does it go against the common laws of the BDSM Worlds Proticals but Societies in todays industrialzed world as well. The point here is that those who choose to live as Goreans do not break laws to live under the extreams of Gor. They simply beleive in the concepts that FREE Dom is above all other things along with HONOR regardless if it is the FREE DOM to rule complete as Free Persons or the freedom to subjudicate complete as slaves. This thought and concept does scare not only those in a BDSM world but the Vanilla World as well especially in the morally politically correct climate We are living in today. Hell look at this site alone, It was suppose to be a site of nonconformity however when anyone gets to grosteque, to perverse, to alternate, to outspoken, to weird or phycotic in nature their simple words just words down to the stories and poetry of all of US is pulled from the public and the world wide webs eye in the worry that such words might get Us a stint or in the least the owners of this place of comming a stint in the pokkie. But I as a Gorean for One have fought for My Rights to be Different from just about all around Me My Whole life and I have no issue doing it for the right reasons against the Moral majority at all times and all costs because that is how My Honor is shown My Integrity and love for My Lifestyle is. Many are followers, You get one hackler and the rest sing in in unison but the Few are Leaders and its not easy to get folks out of the croud of singers whilst walking thru them in a burst to defy and defend on heading for the leader of the pack to jump on and hush. I know, Im one of those Goreans thats always hackled and bashed not just from those outside but by those inside Our places as well and its most always because they do not understand, do not comprehend, do not take the time to see that yes this to can work and be a viable way in life for any. Its easy to judge the lifestyle and not the person and lump it all in the bad basket. JMO


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RE: Why does Gor raise so many hackles? - 2/3/2006 11:54:59 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MasterABD

However I think the fact of it is that there are an unusal ammount of roleplayers that come with gor. If you goto chatrooms as opposed to forums like these, you will see what I mean. The vast majority of chatroom gor has slaves typing out things that wouldn't be possable to do offline, and frankly it makes most people think of gorean lifestyle as a roleplaying joke.


greetings Masters, Mistresses and slaves..

with respect to the roleplayers Master, i can agree with you on that. some see it mostly as an online fantasy life because of what is typed and said in chat rooms. but then again i've been to many bdsm chat rooms and i'm willing to bet the same 90% of goreans who've never practiced it offline is equal to the same 90% of BDSMers who have never played offline either. it's just easier for them to fake because the words are more "real" then discussing tarns or paga or blue flame death. but all in all..it's the same roleplayers just in different skin. so it just comes down to the vocabulary being made up that people find it hard to believe what we do is very real to us. just another way of looking at it Master!

with an allowed voice..

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RE: Why does Gor raise so many hackles? - 2/3/2006 12:30:15 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: GingerleeDREAD


quote:

Why does Gor raise so many hackles
I address this very question usually in the first day that someone comes to Me and asks Me about Gor.

There are usually two perspectives that I hear, One is from the vanilla person who is agast that there is a current culture with in Our world that accepts slavery. Of course they have no understanding nor differing views not knowing there is a differance in nonconcensual and concensual slavery. The other vanilla view is from the very persons who come online to roleplay the books of Gor and yet do not accept nor appreciate nor respect that there are people who would actually live in real life that which they can only imagine to roleplay in a fantasy setting. These two groups of vanilla people generate opinions that goes against Our particular lifestyle and its ways and its people who choose to live such.

The second perspective is the alternate lifestylers who go by a set of rules regulations and proticals based off of the S.S.C and R.A.C.K concepts of today which say basically that there should be no act no action or reaction thats taken with out concent and vountary action. The books of Gor blantantly go against such rules with things like nonconcensual slavery, slave rape, raiding citys and waring as well as being a One sided Dominated Society with no rights to any other then the One with the strongest Arm and weilding sword and sheild and cock between His legs. (unless your a 12 foot cockroach ..... makes a soul wonder why a cock roach is called COCK roach?? Its gotta do with that damn thing being stronger then any living thing on the planet and lving thru every damn thing and the concept that this is what Men and Goreans are suppose to be as well. { puts My face in My hand and starts thinking about what bugs names start with pussy.})
These acts that are read in the books by those whom live in BDSM or D/s find this very scarry because not only does it go against the common laws of the BDSM Worlds Proticals but Societies in todays industrialzed world as well. The point here is that those who choose to live as Goreans do not break laws to live under the extreams of Gor. They simply beleive in the concepts that FREE Dom is above all other things along with HONOR regardless if it is the FREE DOM to rule complete as Free Persons or the freedom to subjudicate complete as slaves. This thought and concept does scare not only those in a BDSM world but the Vanilla World as well especially in the morally politically correct climate We are living in today. Hell look at this site alone, It was suppose to be a site of nonconformity however when anyone gets to grosteque, to perverse, to alternate, to outspoken, to weird or phycotic in nature their simple words just words down to the stories and poetry of all of US is pulled from the public and the world wide webs eye in the worry that such words might get Us a stint or in the least the owners of this place of comming a stint in the pokkie. But I as a Gorean for One have fought for My Rights to be Different from just about all around Me My Whole life and I have no issue doing it for the right reasons against the Moral majority at all times and all costs because that is how My Honor is shown My Integrity and love for My Lifestyle is. Many are followers, You get one hackler and the rest sing in in unison but the Few are Leaders and its not easy to get folks out of the croud of singers whilst walking thru them in a burst to defy and defend on heading for the leader of the pack to jump on and hush. I know, Im one of those Goreans thats always hackled and bashed not just from those outside but by those inside Our places as well and its most always because they do not understand, do not comprehend, do not take the time to see that yes this to can work and be a viable way in life for any. Its easy to judge the lifestyle and not the person and lump it all in the bad basket. JMO



Ok...this made more sense to me than anything else here lol...

why I don't know lol

/things to ponder


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RE: Why does Gor raise so many hackles? - 2/3/2006 2:37:49 PM   
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Greetings,

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Well i think people as a whole have evolved and in the words of one person in the gor threads said, "i like getting in touch with my barbarian self" or something to that extent. to them i say go to iraq or fight some other war where you can truly be your warrior self. How many of you warriors ever fought in a real hand to hand battle or combat? The way i see it if anyone wants to be noble join the marines and fight for this country. you may have done so but most out here are nothing more than armchair warriors with no real claim to that title other than lording over the physically weaker of the species. in the words of a kingon there is no glory in that!


I don't presume to speak for my Master, only wanted to beg to offer that a man's professed caste is generally attributed to his profession. My owner is a "builder" he builds everything from in-depth methodology lifecycles to shared application software.

Is he a barbarian? *smiles* in this ones mind, very much so. A girl would beg to offer that fighting in a war does not a "warrior" or barbarian make.

I have met those who claim to be scribes, and though a bit more philosophical in their thought pattern, they are still male and barbarous.

girl would offer that it is the expression of masculinity/femininity and that acceptance of self that contributes to the "gorean" title that we have adopted.

As a side note, many on this site, and many who do profess to be of the caste of warriors, have fought in defense of this nation.

*smiles* even those who are builders ... have war stories that they don’t tell...

Girl begs to offer her opinion .... if it pleases the Masters.


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RE: Why does Gor raise so many hackles? - 2/3/2006 4:05:00 PM   
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well they are very shy in making a list of what gor is however.


And for whom would I be making this list? I have absoulutely no interest in trying to teach you how to be a Gorean in ten easy lessons that you can read in the time it takes to take a shit. Even if I could give you something condensed all the way down to a set of rules to follow, it wouldn't be sufficient. If you want to learn what Gorean means, read the books. If you still aren't sure, read them again. If you find that you identify with what you read (strongly) you just might be one. If so, come back and talk to me about your views on the matter, and we'll have something to talk about. Until then, if you ask a polite question you may get a polite response. If you demand justification from me I'll just tell you to go fuck yourself. I am under no obligation whatsoever to explain myself to you.

quote:

Well from my very short experience on this site it seems you folks who call yourselves gorean are creating your own problems.
see my post #167 http://www.collarchat.com/m_241820/mpage_9/tm.htm


The only mistake I see in that exchange was MrDiscipline (who I am coming to like more and more as I read what he has to say) made the mistake of talking to you in the first place (see above).

quote:

well i wont claim someone is not what they claim to be but i will state that the differences between them and something else are not distinguishable.


And I'm fully well prepared to accept that you can discern no difference based on your current understanding. I've lived this way for damn near 20 years now. Between your opinion and mine, I'm afraid I'm going to have to go with mine.

quote:

from what i can tell there as many kinds as carter has pills.


Haven't heard that saying since my grandmother used to say it. You must be getting up there if you remember Carter's liver pills.

quote:

Well i think people as a whole have evolved and in the words of one person in the gor threads said, "i like getting in touch with my barbarian self" or something to that extent. to them i say go to iraq or fight some other war where you can truly be your warrior self. How many of you warriors ever fought in a real hand to hand battle or combat? The way i see it if anyone wants to be noble join the marines and fight for this country. you may have done so but most out here are nothing more than armchair warriors with no real claim to that title other than lording over the physically weaker of the species. in the words of a kingon there is no glory in that!


I'm Leonidas. I'm of the Builders. I have fought, but I don't anymore. You are falling into the trap that I described in my post of not being able to tell the difference between a chatroom Rarius who is a legend in his own mind and someone who lives this way. Thank you for demonstrating my point.

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RE: Why does Gor raise so many hackles? - 2/3/2006 11:26:23 PM   
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Tal Arpig, and well met,

You ask an intriguing question here, and in answer I agree in the main with Iron-Bear in post 4. So, I do't have to get all speechy, he said most of what I wanted to, and better than I could have.*nods to IronBear, smiling* ~Thank you Brother~

I think the points to being Gorean Men are that we are idividualists, we don't fit in with "civilised" society, we're not followers of the "mainstream", the r/t Goreans amongst us, myself, IronBear, and a few others try to live our lives as we see fit. We don't try to influence others to walk our path, but we won't walk theirs either. We ARE different than most men, and were before we came to Gor. That's the thing, I was me, the way I am, long before I ever heard, or read about Gor.
Being a decisive, Dominant (not just in playtime) male, and living up to my belief system threatens a lot of weaker males, and almost all feminists.

I'll let others speak to the women's issues, except that I think they come to Gorean men because they have a need to be owned, loved, protected by a man they can respect, and there are darn few of those in Western Society these days.

'nuff said

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RE: Why does Gor raise so many hackles? - 2/3/2006 11:51:37 PM   
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The key here perhaps is that too few outside Gorean Society really understand that ours is a system based on honor, integrity, personal responsibility, and honest dealing with our fellows. It is also based on Natural Order, and an understanding that biologicaly, men are dominant, women submissive, and that human beings would be a whole lot more healthy and better off emotionally if society did not try to thwart the Natural Order at every turn. Note, that this says noting about relative worth of people. Our slaves may be in their natural place, but that is a far cry from saying that they are valueless. Without the yin, the yang has no purpose.
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Well said, I think this is exactly what Arpig was wanting, it's not the stories that are importat, it is the social philosophy that Norman was trying to highlight. Goreans, for whatever reason see the need in themselves to stand up and be counted as Men, or as women who need this type of Men

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RE: Why does Gor raise so many hackles? - 2/4/2006 12:23:04 AM   
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How many of you warriors ever fought in a real hand to hand battle or combat? The way i see it if anyone wants to be noble join the marines and fight for this country. you may have done so but most out here are nothing more than armchair warriors with no real claim to that title other than lording over the physically weaker of the species. in the words of a kingon there is no glory in that!







[/quote]
Well unrealone, I for one did that. I don't talk about it much, but here's my bonifides: I joined the Navy during Vietnam, went through SE/AL training, then volunteered for the ISA, I spent 3 years, 6 months and 2 days in southeast Asia, during the course of which, I got shot twice, had my right lower leg broken in 16 different places by a mine, and yes, got the blood of a man who was desperately trying to kill me on my hands, then held him, and watched him die. I had nightmares for 15 years about that one. After the Navy, I couldn't settle down, so I joined the Army, where I took the GSI test, scoring 124, and went to Officer Cadidate School. I graduated that as a secod Leutenant and went to Infantry school. I filled a post at the COA, in the counter-terrorism unit. I was in operations including as Beirut, Desert Eagle, Granada, and operated with Mossad, the Anzacs, and SAS. I retired as a Lt. Col. in 1988, and was recalled for Desert Storm, in Special Operations.
How would you have me identify myself? I didn't sit at home reading books with my thumb up my ass like you apparently did. I proudly identify Myself in the Caste of Warriors, albeit, slower, and Grayer than most anymore. Oh, by the way, I did call my detailer, and asked to be recalled in 2001, but because of my age, I had to sit this one out.

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RE: Why does Gor raise so many hackles? - 2/4/2006 1:53:32 AM   
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to them i say go to iraq or fight some other war where you can truly be your warrior self. How many of you warriors ever fought in a real hand to hand battle or combat?


I and three generations of My family realone fought for the USA in three wars BEFOR I became an American Citizen. Three of My Sons and two of My TPE slaves currently are Marines and servicemen overseas. Does this make Me a Warrior in Gor ? No nor do I desire to be such, however that does not mean that I am fully capable to be such. 90% of Men I know are capable of being a warrior however that doesent define them as being Gorean either.....

I now have referanced and shelfed you as a hackler in the Gorean library......



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RE: Why does Gor raise so many hackles? - 2/4/2006 6:34:04 AM   
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Greetings Masters,
Greetings Mistresses,
greetings slaves,

This humble girl begs a kind thank you to Master Red Dragon for his explicit and discriptive reply to Masterr Arpig's question.
The question has been on this girl's mind for a while and she was glad to see a well thought out response to it. It allowed food for thought for this girl's mind.
thank you Masters,
humbly and respectfully,
slave anita

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