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Mistress vs Dom - 6/10/2009 9:54:18 PM

Bad4u2013

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I have not submitted to a Mistress before and I am curious about your opinions. Do you think that a Mistress/Domme is more sensitive to her sub emotionally than a Dom/Master ? Or is it strictly a matter of individual personalities?

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RE: Mistress vs Dom - 6/10/2009 10:49:47 PM

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i have never submitted to a Mistress/Domme, but i know that my Sir is very sensitive while at the same time being a very fantastic Dom, so i have no comparison. But my opinion is, it would be an individual thing as with anything else. Oh, and btw, welcome to the boards.

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RE: Mistress vs Dom - 6/11/2009 4:51:34 AM

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I think it varies by person and what they want to achieve in the relationship.

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RE: Mistress vs Dom - 6/11/2009 5:13:23 AM

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It's am individual thing. Living in Couer D'Alene does cut down on your available pool, though.

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RE: Mistress vs Dom - 6/11/2009 5:45:40 AM

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ORIGINAL: Bad4u2013

I have not submitted to a Mistress before and I am curious about your opinions. Do you think that a Mistress/Domme is more sensitive to her sub emotionally than a Dom/Master ? Or is it strictly a matter of individual personalities?

Individual personalities

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RE: Mistress vs Dom - 6/11/2009 6:45:35 AM

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Thanks for your input and the warm welcome. Woman tend to be more emotional so I guess I was hoping :)

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RE: Mistress vs Dom - 6/11/2009 1:00:06 PM

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more emotional normally equals harder to deal with.... this explains why it's easer to keep a man happy then a women.. (or at least in my case.)

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RE: Mistress vs Dom - 6/11/2009 1:11:42 PM

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hmm let's see who is generally more sensitive to another person's needs? hmm let me see

nope to tough. i can't figure that one out. really

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RE: Mistress vs Dom - 6/11/2009 1:13:54 PM

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Someone can be more emotional and yet not unstable. Emotions are only bad when they are out of control or coming from someone unstable and unhealthy. More emotional doesn't just mean bad. It can mean very good too!

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RE: Mistress vs Dom - 6/11/2009 2:19:33 PM

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Very very individual and depends on the chemistry of the Domme/sub...some subs, I want to take out to dinner and have a nice friendly chat with them while they're giving me a massage...others I just want to kick with my pointy toed boots and call them terrible names...

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RE: Mistress vs Dom - 6/11/2009 3:08:10 PM

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It's a male/female thing..has nothing to do with being a dom/domme.

In general...read..in general..not always...females are usually more sensitive than men..the whole nurture thing of women. No it's not always true but for the most part that's the difference between the genders.

I've never submitted to a female though nor do I have any interest in doing so, so I could be grasping at straws here. <shrug>

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