Aswad
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ORIGINAL: rulemylife While that was funny, I do have have to ask again, would you find it as amusing if one of those 184 cases was your daughter or your mother? I realize you were replying to Ron, but the question is directed at him on account of the manner of his response, it seems, and as such, a similar question is implied for those of us who have expressed similar views. And, as such, I would say the question is somewhat offensive, with sister substituting for daughter (don't have one) or mother (buried her a year ago). The offense may not be obvious to one who would feel the need to ask the question. The notion that I might not care about family is a point that might be considered offensive, but one imagines that's just a barb, and not a serious question mark. What is more clearly offensive, is the set of assumptions that seem to be implicit in the question. First off, that the women in question are supposed to be toy dolls to which things are done (note the passive), rather than people who experience things and respond to them (note the active). Second, that the women in question are automatically going to accede, rather than exemplifying the Gorean value of defiance. Having seen my sister get on her feet and run back up a flight of stairs she was thrown down to pummel the older boy who threw her down, eventually wearing him out and then going medieval on him, I would say there's a fair chance the guy in question would find himself half a dick shorter. Third, that I would want someone outside the family to interfere. The simple fact of the matter is that unless she was killed, in which case the man would be in custody, his identity known, she would call. And we'd know who to look for. And he would find three immediate relatives waiting for him on the pier, which he would be leaving in one or more body bags. Fourth, the notion that such an event would somehow transform her into a damaged woman, traumatized into perpetual victimhood, again suggests an all too western weakness. Women have survived rape for millenia without becoming broken toys afterwards. The modern victim culture has not infected all women, believe it or not. Would I be pissed off? You betcha. But at the perp, not the cruise ship, nor the government. I would also be quite aware of the statistical unlikelihood of such an event. If I get struck by lightning, should I campaign to have domes erected over every city to protect people from lightning strikes? I mean, after all, it happens, and it sucks, right? Bleh. Health, al-Aswad.
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I have taken up arms against justice. — Arthur Rimbaud, A Season in Hell It is only hubris if I fail. — Cæsar, Rome
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