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RE: Where are the masochistic men? - 7/27/2009 4:42:17 AM

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i am masochistic, and last time i checked, i'm male. hello

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RE: Where are the masochistic men? - 7/27/2009 5:20:32 AM

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Well get your ass over here!

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RE: Where are the masochistic men? - 7/27/2009 5:33:05 AM

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A subject of great fascination to me right now. I still don't know whether I'd be an endurer or an enjoyer. Blast.

There might be painsluts everywhere - they just don't know that they are, yet!

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RE: Where are the masochistic men? - 7/27/2009 6:42:46 AM

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I personally believe that my non-masochism makes me a better sub. I've never understood how a top of any kind can actually inflict pain - True Pain - on someone that's enjoying it. The few times I've been in a d/s situation, I haven't liked the pain, but I've pushed myself as far as I could go, and I think I came out better.
More importantly, she was pleased I didn't try to impress her by not using safe words. I can tolerate it - but I think that pain is something to be taken in, not enjoyed, then used as fuel for growth.

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RE: Where are the masochistic men? - 7/27/2009 10:12:31 AM

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Meh. I wonder where the good pain sluts are, too, sometimes! The thing is, unless it's a party amusement, you still have to LIKE the guy!

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RE: Where are the masochistic men? - 7/27/2009 10:26:49 AM

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Meh.

That hurt. Give me more!

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RE: Where are the masochistic men? - 7/27/2009 10:27:49 AM

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Meh.

That hurt. Give me more!

I did it just for you.

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RE: Where are the masochistic men? - 7/27/2009 4:46:28 PM

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I never hit anyone who didn't enjoy it, want it or at least ask for it. I must admit that I have often wondered who actually enjoyed it, who simply needed it and who ground their teeth and endured it for my pleasure.

Ok... I know Wall-e handed me those bundled canes, which I knew he hated, and then I gleefully applied it simply because I knew I had pushed him beyond his breaking point and the feeling was intoxicating.

With West, it was always hard to tell because he was so proud to be my tank and enjoyed having me brag about his ability to take whatever I threw at him. Did he really do that because he enjoyed the pain or because he enjoyed the praise? I don't know, he never said.

The new guy is proud and doesn't want to call a safe word even though he has not had the time to build up a tolerance yet. But that's ok, with repeated visits, he'll be a tank before long.

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RE: Where are the masochistic men? - 7/27/2009 4:48:47 PM

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I did it just for you.

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RE: Where are the masochistic men? - 7/27/2009 7:35:04 PM

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Well get your ass over here!

just my ass? =P

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RE: Where are the masochistic men? - 7/27/2009 7:36:11 PM

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Well get your ass over here!

i would if i could, but unfortunately, i haven't the luxury to travel

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RE: Where are the masochistic men? - 7/27/2009 11:50:36 PM

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Ohh myyy can I ever relate to this question. So many 'do me' subs wanting a little tame bondage but 'no real pain, please' and so few hard core pain sluts.

I hear ya. I feel ya. I can relate.

Where are the pain puppies?

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RE: Where are the masochistic men? - 7/28/2009 12:07:03 AM

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as my M'Lady will tell i have become quite the masso sub since She collared me 2 years ago. sadly I'm serving in Afghanistan till Jan. so no help there I'm afraid. keep looking as there will always be more to turn into pain sluts.

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RE: Where are the masochistic men? - 7/28/2009 1:06:23 AM

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I'm afraid you don't count, lil one, since you're already taken.

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RE: Where are the masochistic men? - 7/28/2009 5:30:55 AM

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i would if i could, but unfortunately, i haven't the luxury to travel

What a pity. I'm in the market for a new pup. Such an adorable boy. I could make good use of you.

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RE: Where are the masochistic men? - 7/28/2009 8:25:56 AM

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Yes the whole PROXIMITY thing is the real issue. I know plenty of pain sluts, but how many LOCAL and unattached ones?

(whose SCHEDULES match, GAH!)

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RE: Where are the masochistic men? - 7/28/2009 11:51:55 AM

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I think there are a lot of guys like me who don't like pain per se, but enjoy being used by a woman who enjoys giving pain. Their excitement comes from the domination, the feeling of being controlled, rather than the actual act or the pain itself. Actually, the fact that they DON'T like the pain is actually what makes it exciting to them.

I think this is pretty much where I fit in. In a nutshell, I don't like pain, but I really, really like being under the control of someone who enjoys hurting me.

So does that make me a masochist? I'm really not sure. It's probably one of those definitional questions that can only be resolved arbitrarily.

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RE: Where are the masochistic men? - 7/28/2009 12:53:43 PM

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I like pinching, biting and spanking if not severe. Caning I have no experience with so I can't say. But I am not local to you TNstepsout, so it doesn't help you. But we are out here.

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RE: Where are the masochistic men? - 7/28/2009 6:32:12 PM

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i would if i could, but unfortunately, i haven't the luxury to travel

What a pity. I'm in the market for a new pup. Such an adorable boy. I could make good use of you.