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RE: 100 Ways to Serve - 8/1/2009 6:12:55 PM   
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21.  if the restaurant is family-style, I offer to serve him.  or at the very least, get his soda and refills.
22.  remain cheerful, despite day-to-day doldrums.


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RE: 100 Ways to Serve - 8/1/2009 6:15:02 PM   
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21. Foot rub with soothing oils.

i'll make mine #23 - so we don't lose count.

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RE: 100 Ways to Serve - 8/1/2009 6:39:25 PM   
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24.  Head to toe tongue baths.

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RE: 100 Ways to Serve - 8/1/2009 7:43:08 PM   
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25) Act as a personal assistant. Do those minor tasks or errands that need to be done.

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RE: 100 Ways to Serve - 8/1/2009 7:49:08 PM   
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26 Remind Him of His parents birthdays and His close friends birthdays (which require me to pay attention to small details in conversations).
27 Pick out birthday gifts for His mom so He doesn't have to.
28  Have tea ready and in the refrigerator for when He wants it.
29 . Ask Him how His day was..
30. Email or text Him through out the day to let Him know i'm thinking of Him.

Kali

< Message edited by Kalista07 -- 8/1/2009 7:50:31 PM >


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RE: 100 Ways to Serve - 8/2/2009 4:50:54 AM   
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31. Be there to listen to him when he needs it and know when he needs some time alone to process.

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RE: 100 Ways to Serve - 8/2/2009 5:03:27 AM   
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32.  See what is being had for dinner and get out the things that go with it
Hamburgers:  catsup, mustard, steak sauce
Corn on the cob:  cob holders, butter, different salt

Truth is I'm not very good at this (I'm a forest, not a trees kind of gal), but it's something I'm actively working on.

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RE: 100 Ways to Serve - 8/2/2009 5:22:39 AM   
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greetings to all,

33. make sure I have his clothes/drink bottle/keys/mobile/wallet together for work.
34. work on my tendency to swear
35. general child rearing and care
36. make sure to make a list of "needed" items for the grocery list as they run out
37. be his personal assistant (make appointments, answer the phone, make sure there are always biros in the pen jar...)
38. make sure his favourite brand of ranch dressing is in the fridge, for those times he wants pizza
39. learn how to toast pine nuts to his liking
40. cook when he doesn't wish to
41. make sure there is a towel in the bathroom for his morning shower
42. learn the tea/coffee/nibbles preferences of his friends (and have plenty of said things on hand) ...

and the list goes on!

well wishes,

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RE: 100 Ways to Serve - 8/2/2009 5:57:48 AM   
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43. Not speaking out of turning, and learning to converse in a way that is both pleasing and entertaining. (This includes learning about subjects the Free likes, easily done by asking the right questions.)

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RE: 100 Ways to Serve - 8/2/2009 6:02:10 AM   
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44. Serving his way, rather than my way.

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RE: 100 Ways to Serve - 8/2/2009 6:18:42 AM   
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45. Learning how to make his tea exactly the way he likes it.
46. Learning to make sweet potato pie the way his mother did.


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RE: 100 Ways to Serve - 8/2/2009 6:50:34 AM   
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47) Asking His opinion on a new hairstyle BEFORE you decide to get it.
48)Sending a message whenever you go out to save Him the trouble of trying home number first, if He calls.
49)Keeping a few of his favorite treats and drinks handy at all times, so that if He stops by unexpectedly, you're prepared.

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RE: 100 Ways to Serve - 8/2/2009 9:24:26 AM   
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50) have the ability to judge his mood

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RE: 100 Ways to Serve - 8/2/2009 9:45:44 AM   
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51. Follow behind him, taking tiny little steps and scratch his back.

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RE: 100 Ways to Serve - 8/2/2009 10:11:16 AM   
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52) Bake an apple pie or chocolate chip cookies as opposed to trying a new recipe.

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RE: 100 Ways to Serve - 8/2/2009 10:54:56 AM   
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53. Try to wake up a little before it's time for the alarm to go off so I can turn it off rather than having it blare out and wake Him too :)

54. Pack His lunch everyday that I can't be off work in time to go get Him for a shared meal, remembering to always include a special little sweet surprise and/or love note

55. Find good audiobooks for Him to listen to in the truck on His commute

56. Always keep His drinking glass full and other types of anticipatory service whether at home or out

57. Help Him remember all His favorite movies so He can find them on Flixter and link them to His Facebook account

Just a few of the things He likes that I do and that I do because I adore Him.....luci

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RE: 100 Ways to Serve - 8/2/2009 1:51:34 PM   
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9.  Watching Ice Road Truckers....

*grin*
zaphira watches that also

zaphira does all his accounting so that he does not have to worry about it when he gets home nights. This was something that zaphira took up on her own when she saw that Master often was up late at night keeping up with the books.

zaphira learned how to play harp when she learned that Master enjoyed harp music


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RE: 100 Ways to Serve - 8/2/2009 4:05:11 PM   
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59.  Practicing euchre so I'm a worthy opponent.

60?

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RE: 100 Ways to Serve - 8/2/2009 4:11:01 PM   
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This is a good thread, sunny. Well done, to all of you.

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Fake the heat and scratch the itch
Skinned up knees and salty lips
Let go it's harder holding on
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RE: 100 Ways to Serve - 8/2/2009 4:14:54 PM   
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60. Getting his drinks for him at the fast food place.

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