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RE: ~~Yeah they're sisters My ASS!!!~~ - 12/2/2009 6:00:57 PM

freyjasdottir

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I am not poly and am hetrosexual but when I first moved into this house a female friend was living with me as I have two UMs and worked two jobs, within a month another female friend moved in due to health issues. I had one neighbor who asked if the three of us were "together", I laughed, got in my car and left. I did call the house and let the other two know about the question though.

The UMs' father knew both of the other women so I had no concerns about him, my father owns my home so no landlord issue and since I had left my ex for legal reasons Children and Youth were fully behind my having other adults in my home at all times especially since we all had Acts 33 and 34 clearances for our jobs.

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RE: ~~Yeah they're sisters My ASS!!!~~ - 12/24/2009 10:48:54 AM

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I know Utah kinda well, at least about the mormonism issues. UofU here.. anyway, i agree with most and just not answer, because no matter what negitive will be negitive; the important thing is honest within the home;

haha wish i had a poly home... a good place would be where you are.. but i'm not a good fit.. haha.

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RE: ~~Yeah they're sisters My ASS!!!~~ - 12/24/2009 9:37:33 PM

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Answer them in a way that is absolutely truthful and allows them to rethink rather they want to ask more quesitons. Perhaps, 'she is a dear friend and we are all very happy', or something to that effect. It carries a kind of 'as if it's any of your buisness' message with it, ya know?

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RE: ~~Yeah they're sisters My ASS!!!~~ - 12/29/2009 7:10:47 PM

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Another good answer for nosy qestions is to look a bit puzzled and ask, "Whyever would you want to know?"

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RE: ~~Yeah they're sisters My ASS!!!~~ - 12/30/2009 4:16:36 PM

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The best response I have ever heard is from Miss Manners. She said that whenever someone asks you a question that is really none of their business to just smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?"

The problem with this is you are admitting that there is something to know. Say, "Thank you for bringing the matter to my attention."

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RE: ~~Yeah they're sisters My ASS!!!~~ - 12/31/2009 3:42:36 AM

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I have had this question come up I dont know how many times. My response is that she is a very good friend who is more like a sister. I live in a small rural amish community, so I tell them" God forgot to make us sisters , so He made us friends", it works great.

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RE: ~~Yeah they're sisters My ASS!!!~~ - 1/2/2010 12:28:28 AM

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I have had this question come up I dont know how many times. My response is that she is a very good friend who is more like a sister. I live in a small rural amish community, so I tell them" God forgot to make us sisters , so He made us friends", it works great.

I like how you put it, but it would seem to be something that could be spoken in response to a general inquiry concerning what the relationship is. Nice spin. I am uncertain if it would be credible if there were more than two wives. There certainly appears to be a need to rehearse how one is to respond to different scenarios in advance. I very much want to be a polygamist.

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RE: ~~Yeah they're sisters My ASS!!!~~ - 1/2/2010 11:50:17 AM

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I'd just ask them if that person did something,walked on their grass or something,and when they say know ask them outright "So what is it you are trying to find out" and look at them blankly,yes Ive been to Salt Lake when I was in Adult Entertainment and believe me most of my clients were mormon! big love comes back on HBO Jan 10th love that show,poly at its best.

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RE: ~~Yeah they're sisters My ASS!!!~~ - 1/2/2010 12:03:09 PM

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LOL A sub of mine in Denver did the roof on the movie theater in St George!

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RE: ~~Yeah they're sisters My ASS!!!~~ - 1/19/2010 9:46:03 PM

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Ok as I have read over all the posts about how ppl on the outside sees things and what they may think about Me and My girls I really do not care! The ppl around me are not the ones making me happy or making my girls happy aside from a casual kiss as we see each other off nothing else takes place in public so for those that wis to stick there noses where it doesnt belong better watch out they may end up with a door slammed on it

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RE: ~~Yeah they're sisters My ASS!!!~~ - 1/21/2010 8:40:19 AM

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I realy like the "What do you mean?" response. It's not evasive if you say it right. "Sure not sisters" is a bit vague, what are you asking me?

I would advise against any sort of "it's none of your business" answers. Those are guaranteed to cause her to make it her business.

Another possibility is, "No, they are not related by blood". Leave it at that. These days there are so many ways people can be "family" without it being kinky. I had a "brother" in that his home life sucked and he stayed with us for months at a time when I was growing up. Wouldn't be strange at all for him to come live with my wife and I as adults (if he were still alive). In this case being vague might just mean it's impolite to ask you to give her life history which might involve a broken home, alcoholism, etc, etc. Things not to talk about in polite company but which don't involve sex. Nosy old ladies generally understand that, though she might make up history in her mind the harm there is minimal.

You might even go so far as to say something like, "She's safe here." It's not a lie (I assume). It kinda implies more questions are rude. And it opens the door to lots of possibilities that don't involve you breaking any laws.

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RE: ~~Yeah they're sisters My ASS!!!~~ - 1/31/2010 9:58:16 PM

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polybi hits the mark, not all of the variables are spelled out. kids etc.

if none of the taboos to worry about are there, then really it's a shrug and bear it kind of answer that applies.. what can you honestly do but shrug it off and go on with your life(lives)
it's really your business what goes on behind closed doors, the constitution gives you the freedom to be whoever you want to be in your own home.
remember, it isn't polygomy if you aren't married (hand fastings etc don't count to the state) so you should smile and make them wish they had the same situation.
and Steel, I definitely know the scenario.. (I'm in Idaho) tough but not doable.
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RE: ~~Yeah they're sisters My ASS!!!~~ - 2/11/2010 12:19:34 PM

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either be honest or tell them to mind their own fuckin business

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