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Wife Requesting Forced Male Orgasm Devise - 8/18/2009 8:13:43 PM   
bdspirit


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Had a chance to turn the tables on my lovely switch partner the other night in one of her (and my) favorite scenes.  Wrists securely bound overhead, bondage belt with additional support to an eye-bolt overhead to take potential pressure off her arms if she struggles or her legs give way in an especially out-of-her mind moment, and lastly a spreader bar for ankles.  Locked in her a "forced to cum" belt (one of the best "toys" I ever purchased BTW) with her favorite Hitachi wand placed just right ..... and we're off to the races.  Damn it's fun to watch after orgasm number 2 or 3 - tears streaming, her laughing, screaming, moaning and generally overloaded for 10-15 minutes - yummmm.  Great Saturday evening. 

Click to post scene laughing, having a glass of wine and talking through her experiences.  She gets that domme look in her eye (uh-oh) and informs me that she intends to balance the scales and expects me to provide her with a device that will allow her to return the favor.  Specifically, hands free male orgasm - no ability for me to control it and no way to stop the stimulation until she decides to.  First thing I ask is, "What's wrong with tying me tightly and using the tools god gave you I ask?  Nope, she say, I always take pity on you after you orgasm so I want to be able to sit back and let a devise do all the work - just like you did to me tonight."  Hmmmm.  

This has been a fantasy of mine for awhile (and I imagine other guys) and I've been putting my unused engineering degree to work on a design that would involve building a modified spanking bench with a fucking machine engine and an adapter and Fleshlight masturbation attachment.  I'm pretty creative when it comes to building toys (might as well design for my passions) and already have the design and the necessary components, so it's certainly easy enough to build with a little effort.

BUT....

As fun as forced orgasms sound in theory, my guess is they may be something very different (obviously after the first) for the average guy in reality.  I'm hoping for any input from people who have been on the giving or receiving end of forced male orgasms and intense stimulation - preferably multiple or if that didn't work, continuous stimulation after the first orgasm.  Heaven, hell, never again, inquiring minds would like to know before I give my lovely play partner a tool I may well come to regret. 

Safety police - if I'm missing something in the safety department, certainly want to know that as well. 
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RE: Wife Requesting Forced Male Orgasm Devise - 8/18/2009 8:19:49 PM   
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It's called milking, I am familiar with it but have not done it. Just does not interest me that much. I am sure if you do a search on here or google you can find lots of information on it, especially on gay sites.

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RE: Wife Requesting Forced Male Orgasm Devise - 8/18/2009 8:46:15 PM   
bdspirit


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Thanks for the response.  Enjoying chastity as we do at times, I'm familiar with milking and that (my experience) tends to be done via prostate stimulation where there isn't an usually an orgasm but there is discharge (often with little stimulation). 

What I'm more interested in is forced orgasm with continued stimulation afterward.

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RE: Wife Requesting Forced Male Orgasm Devise - 8/19/2009 5:59:06 AM   
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Try a Hitachi vibrator. It works on men just as good as it does women. You would just have to devise a way to keep the head of the vibrator attached to the head of your cock. I have used bondage tape for that. I have also seen electro stimulator such as a tens unit give hands free orgasms. I haven't gotten to try that one yet myself but am hoping to at some point when I save up for the good control box. My PES doesn't achieve it. close but not quite there.

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RE: Wife Requesting Forced Male Orgasm Devise - 8/19/2009 10:12:56 AM   
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This is the only machine I know of  that continues to work after the cock becomes flaccid. It expensive but it really works.          Venus 2000

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RE: Wife Requesting Forced Male Orgasm Devise - 8/19/2009 12:55:03 PM   
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Has anyone actually been through this experience?  I think I've got the technical side figured out but what I'm sweating is the experience itself....  Inquiring minds want to know.

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RE: Wife Requesting Forced Male Orgasm Devise - 8/19/2009 2:37:22 PM   
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Have been tied up and forced to orgasm by an ET312B and then the domme would not untie me and kept the e stim going for perhaps ten minutes. Twas exciting as I can't do that to myself. I always weaken and turn it off after the orgasm.

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RE: Wife Requesting Forced Male Orgasm Devise - 8/19/2009 10:07:32 PM   
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Hi Bdspirit,
My mistress has tried that on me a few times. I believe the term is called "prostate milking" this occurs when with out any penile stimulation a male can be made to ejeculate by having their prostate massaged. Usually the discharge is a greater amount than normal stimulation.

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RE: Wife Requesting Forced Male Orgasm Devise - 8/20/2009 7:38:24 AM   
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I'm not sure of this, but will offer what I have read and had limited experience with sort of thing. From what I have experienced, continuing intense stimulation after orgasm causes shrinkage due to sensory overload. However...

It may be that the direction of strokes affects the response. I read about a domme's technique of using strokes from the head to the base to increase response (similar to thrusting in) and from base to head to increase frustration. This article mentioned using pulling strokes to stimulate but not to lead to ejaculation. The belief is that a man does not cum easily from pulling out motions, only thrusting in motions.

This could be something to be used against you if you test this device yourself. It might be possible to use strokes in the thrusting direction to maintain your arousal after orgasm. In my experience, her fingers moving in a pulling direction immediately after orgasm does cause fast shrinkage and overload. Need to experiment more with the other direction and see what happens! I can imagine that a bench (as you described) would be quite an experience with a device inside that would allow the male to thrust at it but allow the female to determine with a flip of a switch which direction he felt the squeeze.

Have you actually used a Fleshlight? I've heard of them but don't know much about them, does it squeeze or stroke? Seems like it could be attached to something like a bench, but does it do a good job of stimulation? Maybe she could turn it on and off remotely while you are helpless.


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RE: Wife Requesting Forced Male Orgasm Devise - 8/20/2009 1:10:26 PM   
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I had the (dubious) pleasure of going through this recently. I was tied up and milked. It was my first time in such a situation and I am sure the Dom went easy on me but I will be happy to share some of my experience.

I was hog tied on the floor and he had a vibrating in my ass. After I came the first time he kept playing with me and it drove me nuts. My head was very sensitive and he enjoyed watching my squirm and jerk around. He was playing with me by hand and I really wanted him to stop, I am able to cum multiple times in an hour but my head was so sensitive I couldn’t get hard to cum while he was playing with me. Plus right after you (well *I*) cum you’re not really in to sex for a little bit as you recuperate. He finally left me alone for a little bit and I laid there panting. He came back and worked on me two more times before he let me loose.

I would say that stimulation right after you cum (again could just be me) is torcher. And it’s hard to cum again under constant stimulation. I would say a rest is required at some point between orgasms to reload. I would give what ever device you make variable speed and the ability to stay on your dick while you are flaccid and it is in the off or stand by setting.

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RE: Wife Requesting Forced Male Orgasm Devise - 8/20/2009 3:09:53 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: johnfire

Try a Hitachi vibrator. It works on men just as good as it does women. You would just have to devise a way to keep the head of the vibrator attached to the head of your cock. I have used bondage tape for that. I have also seen electro stimulator such as a tens unit give hands free orgasms. I haven't gotten to try that one yet myself but am hoping to at some point when I save up for the good control box. My PES doesn't achieve it. close but not quite there.



There's an attachment for that.

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RE: Wife Requesting Forced Male Orgasm Devise - 8/20/2009 5:25:41 PM   
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My Mistress has in fact had me tied down, vibrator in my ass, and milking me the regular (hand + lotion) way. She made me have an orgasm, but continued on, for some reason she always has a specific touch on me that keeps me hard, so she kept going, after few minutes, I had another orgasm. At that point i was extremely sensitive, but as this was actually my punishment, she kept on going. In the end, she made me have 3 orgasms, but after that, I had to use my safeword, because it was just too much. So it is possible to have more then one orgasm.

@ KockRocket
Arghhhh..... Unfortunatly, for me, I opened your link on front of my Mistress, and she wants to now get it... (thanks.......)

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RE: Wife Requesting Forced Male Orgasm Devise - 8/22/2009 2:53:15 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: KockRocket

There's an attachment for that.


There's an app for that.

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RE: Wife Requesting Forced Male Orgasm Devise - 8/22/2009 3:05:48 PM   
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For the internal milking, I suggest the Doc Johnson Men's Pleasure Wand.  Very good device, low price, variable speeds, reliable, a constant favorite in our household.  The longer part vibrates and massages the prostate internally, and the shorter part presses against the perineum and works there.  Easy retrieval ring on it for obvious reasons, but can also be used for extra manipulation of the device as well.

For use on the penis, I would suggest something along the lines of the oro-stimulator.  It's a lower priced device with a pump bulb on the end, just look it up online, you can figure out what it does. ;)  Good beginner device.  There are others out there that are higher end, more mechanized, and more expensive also.  Things like Doc Johnson's "Robo-suck 2", which I do NOT recommend.  They have a very poor track record for breaking down, or coming out of the box D.O.A.  But, there are others out there like that.


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RE: Wife Requesting Forced Male Orgasm Devise - 8/22/2009 4:35:22 PM   
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That Venus 2000 looks awesome! How much fun would that be! 

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RE: Wife Requesting Forced Male Orgasm Devise - 8/23/2009 8:34:04 AM   
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I recently was able to achieve that a few times recently with this toy for the Hitatchi:
http://www.extremerestraints.com/masturbation-toys_50/the-massager-masturbator-sleeve_3024.html

It was worn a little higher with the head of my cock inside near the very top of the sleeve.    I found it helps to be laying down, put the sleeve on first, then put the hitatchi on, leaving it just hang off to the side.

I also was using the variable speed controls for the hitatchi:
http://www2.shopping.com/xPO-Hitachi-Variable-Speed-Controller-Hitachi-Magic-Wand-Massager

The variable speeds were not enough to make me cum, but the normal speed of the hitatchi did... so the variable speed control is almost a must to make any fun last more than a minute or two.  I've never tried for more than two orgasms, mainly because it's too sensitive down there... I should really give it a try.

I could see this doing just what your wife wants.  Tie you up, blindfold, and gag you.... have her fun teasing with going full speed for a few seconds and then taking it down, and when she's had enough turning it all the way up and sitting back and just watching you cum without having to do a thing.

Squeezing the PC muscles definitely helped prolong cumming, but you can't do that forever, and when I finally release the vibrator just wants to push me over the edge.

< Message edited by someguy335 -- 8/23/2009 8:36:23 AM >

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RE: Wife Requesting Forced Male Orgasm Devise - 9/10/2009 1:49:17 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Mishna

That Venus 2000 looks awesome! How much fun would that be! 

About 900 dollars worth!

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RE: Wife Requesting Forced Male Orgasm Devise - 9/10/2009 9:37:49 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: SmokeSerpent

quote:

ORIGINAL: KockRocket

There's an attachment for that.


There's an app for that.



Take the words right out of my mouth Smoke.


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RE: Wife Requesting Forced Male Orgasm Devise - 9/12/2009 10:35:40 PM   
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I learned a lot here, but definitely wrong thread for me

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RE: Wife Requesting Forced Male Orgasm Devise - 9/13/2009 2:16:56 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: bdspirit

Had a chance to turn the tables on my lovely switch partner the other night in one of her (and my) favorite scenes.  Wrists securely bound overhead, bondage belt with additional support to an eye-bolt overhead to take potential pressure off her arms if she struggles or her legs give way in an especially out-of-her mind moment, and lastly a spreader bar for ankles.  Locked in her a "forced to cum" belt (one of the best "toys" I ever purchased BTW) with her favorite Hitachi wand placed just right ..... and we're off to the races.  Damn it's fun to watch after orgasm number 2 or 3 - tears streaming, her laughing, screaming, moaning and generally overloaded for 10-15 minutes - yummmm.  Great Saturday evening. 

Click to post scene laughing, having a glass of wine and talking through her experiences.  She gets that domme look in her eye (uh-oh) and informs me that she intends to balance the scales and expects me to provide her with a device that will allow her to return the favor.  Specifically, hands free male orgasm - no ability for me to control it and no way to stop the stimulation until she decides to.  First thing I ask is, "What's wrong with tying me tightly and using the tools god gave you I ask?  Nope, she say, I always take pity on you after you orgasm so I want to be able to sit back and let a devise do all the work - just like you did to me tonight."  Hmmmm.  

This has been a fantasy of mine for awhile (and I imagine other guys) and I've been putting my unused engineering degree to work on a design that would involve building a modified spanking bench with a fucking machine engine and an adapter and Fleshlight masturbation attachment.  I'm pretty creative when it comes to building toys (might as well design for my passions) and already have the design and the necessary components, so it's certainly easy enough to build with a little effort.

BUT....

As fun as forced orgasms sound in theory, my guess is they may be something very different (obviously after the first) for the average guy in reality.  I'm hoping for any input from people who have been on the giving or receiving end of forced male orgasms and intense stimulation - preferably multiple or if that didn't work, continuous stimulation after the first orgasm.  Heaven, hell, never again, inquiring minds would like to know before I give my lovely play partner a tool I may well come to regret. 

Safety police - if I'm missing something in the safety department, certainly want to know that as well. 



While I think that even if there were a serious amount of allow/disallow to the scene I do not know any man that turns down the opportunity of having an orgasm



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