LaTigresse
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ORIGINAL: Sunnyfey When your slave comes to you and tells you she thinks she maybe depressed and she needs to talk to you, how do you deal with it when you are not ready to talk about the situation that's feeding her depression? (note: no I'm not depressed, Me and NZ are fine, just a question I was curious about) Well first of all, I know myself well enough to know that anyone that suffers ongoing depression and needs handling with kid gloves, is not for me. I've dealt enough with emotionally high maintainance people to know.........I suck at it. I am not sympathetic to it and tend to be a "snap out of it!!" type. So, ruling out a reaccuring issue, I would listen, really listen. Try to get to the root of the problem, determine how serious the problem is, see what I could do to improve things. If it wasn't going to be a "snap out of it!" type of situation, she would be getting professional help.
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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one! Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!
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