MaitresseEden
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Joined: 8/8/2004 From: Houston, Texas Status: offline
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Wonderful topic! My answer is.... "to a degree".. with the Caveat that I don't consider expanding and exploring mine and my partners sexuality and connections to be a limit. Because the things that get me hot, and turn me on are the acts that give me the reactions that I need to feel the power of the control I have over another individual, I've learned over time never to say never. Things I enjoy with one, I may not enjoy with another. In fact I may find them revolting with another. After 12 years in the scene, if 6 years ago someone had told me I'd like fisting, or needles, I would have told them NO WAY.. not going to happen. But then I had a sub who totally "morphed" for lack of a better word into this most exquiste creature during those activies, and had I not been willing to explore that I would have been deprived such bliss myself. That said, it is an activity that I don't enjoy with everyone. Another submissive I played with later, who was a huge anal slut, did nothing for me in that area. It actually turned me off. For me what I do, is find what pushed the buttons that give me the total and complete mental and physical surrender that I need, and then I keep pushing. There is something majestic about having a male in a position where his body betrays him and he is helpless to refuse me mmmm... what sweet thoughts. Ms.Eden
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"If I didnt define myself for myself, I would be crunched into other peoples fantasies for me and eaten alive. - Audre Lorde"
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