SimplyIsaac
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ORIGINAL: DesFIP If he doesn't bend his head, he can't see what he's doing. Seriously the person I quoted said that simply bending the head towards the feet meant he was a secret sub. Really? I read something completely different in the comment. quote:
ORIGINAL: DesFIP The Man's a head taller than me, if he doesn't biomechanically bend his head, he can't see what he's doing. Especially if I'm bound flat on the bed and he's standing up. The only way he could then not bend his head in order to see would be for him to sit on the floor. Well, ok. If I simply bend my head to tie my shoes, yeah that's biomechanics involving the head toward the feet… but I think it's obvious the quote was referring to when a man puts his head to the foot of a woman to kiss it or suck on it. That is a little different than bending your head down a little to see what you're doing while you're beating the crap out of someone's feet... wouldn't you say? quote:
ORIGINAL: DesFIP She doesn't cut off his testicles to show how much she disrespects him. She respects his limits. Wow, examples that seem a wee bit out of context, I think! Similarly, not blowing the gas station up down the street is a sign I respect it. I think it might be better to narrow our focus a little and define what form of "respect" we are talking about here. Maybe the word isn't the best choice, I'll admit. quote:
ORIGINAL: DesFIP And a full relationship, where you live together, where you love each other cannot be done while despising the partner. Who says they're life partners? Or lovers? What is a "full relationship" full of? What does that really mean in a lifestyle with masters and slaves? What if one is a slave and the other is the owner and it's more than just kinky garnish on a romantic relationshp? I try to keep in mind that not everyone is in this for romantic life partner stuff and simply playing at m&s. quote:
ORIGINAL: DesFIP You cannot love them and at the same time tell them all the time for real, not just for humiliation play, that they're stupid, that they're ugly, that they deserved to be raped by an older sibling for ten years straight, that they should be grateful for crumbs because nobody else would ever want them. Deliberately doing permanent damage of that sort does not show love or respect. Again, no argument here about it not showing respect, but why is your definition of respect needed in all legitimate relationships? The fact is it isn't. Some slaves are probably talked to like they are stupid and nobody wants them, and that they should be grateful for crumbs. You said earlier, "You may well get off on that lowly worm stuff, the rest of us do not. " Well, once more, who appointed you as spokesperson for the entire community, and who is this us? It sure as heck aint including me. I think your arguments would be better framed when speaking for yourself, because some people DO get off and live by that "lowly worm stuff." I dont really think that's too hard to imagine given the lifestyle we're in.
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