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Female/female power exchange? - 8/30/2004 2:09:13 PM

Zarathustra

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Hello everyone! i was just wondering if there were any females who had experience with a Female/female PE? I have lived it for about 2 years but rarely find people who have done it...just thought this could open up an interesting topic...Hope so!!!
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RE: Female/female power exchange? - 8/30/2004 2:50:55 PM

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I've served a woman, though she was part of a m/f couple. To me, gender is less important than how I feel about the person him/herself. I find that it's societally easier for me to be with men, but that I enjoy relationships with both men and women equally

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RE: Female/female power exchange? - 8/30/2004 2:59:09 PM

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Hi Zarathustra,

My sub & I are experimenting with it at the moment.

It had been 4 years since I had been involved in a girl-girl dynamic that was more then a one-off play session so it's interesting to re-explore the dynamic again. She is also a switch, which makes things interesting. She keeps me on my toes and challenges me way more then any sub boy ever has.

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RE: Female/female power exchange? - 8/30/2004 8:03:34 PM

Zarathustra

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*LOL* Lady Angelika i believe i challenge my Mistress far more than any boy would ever dare (sometimes it's hard to contain that Dominate side that say's "Now where the hell is a boy when ya need one!") But i think it's all part of my charm...anyway, I know gender dosen't define the relationship or make it terribly different, it's just neat to find others who are doing the same as you. Being to females and a power exchange there are some added aspects that can make things hard and confusing (just think 2 females!!!) Anywho thank You both for your replys, I think i'm off to bed right now...BTW Lady Angelika i've read a lot of your posts and enjoy them a ton, was very glad to see you replyed to this :) Goodnight to All....

"I have seen the light and wonder only why is there not more darkness?" ---Zarathustra (essence of truth, guess the philosopher...)

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RE: Female/female power exchange? - 8/31/2004 12:19:19 PM

Zarathustra

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Maybe i *should* share a bit of what my experience has been...I met my Mistress when i was 14 and we became very good friends (without benifits, she had some moral dilema about sleeping with miners) She was in the lifestyle as a "sub" but basicly was confused as to what a sub really was, See she loved pain but if you were to tell her what to do she'd turn around and throw something at you. I was reading a lot about BDSM at the time and very kindly explained this to her, anyway...From the begining of our relationship she has been VERY Dominate over me, it's hard to explain exactly *how* but for those of you with much life experience im sure you can understand, anyway she just called me her "side kick" for a very long time, i suposse my cuteness and flirting finally got to her and we started having sex. BLAH BLAH BLAH....Feel (rather hard) in love with each other, fought it for a long time, gave in, had leagal trouble made it through and grew stronger. So once all this happened i started really talking about my submissive desires ( a little background, i KNEW from the first time i met her i wanted to serve THIS Lady to the best of my ability) She was a little taken aback by it all (she mainly was into S/M) But said she wasn't Dominate and nothing could work there, but it was fine if i wanted to talk about it...Long story short we were messing around one night and she tied me up, had her way, beat me a little, untied me and told me exactly how to please her, afterwards i talked to her about it and why she got off on that the way she did, imagine this, Control *LOL* anyway i didnt want to say much (convincing someone they are anything seems sorta wrong to me, espeacilly a Domme) She thought about it and started to see how i have always been submissive to her and she really was dominate, She started to act more on her tendencies, go to local meetings, train me a very little at a time, and after a while (rather long) she collared me, i lived as her slave for about 6 months but it got to the point where i was doing it little justice and after we talked a gave it back to her out of respect and have been her submissive ever since...Ok i know i ramble a ton and its hard to really explain this situation since its so complicated but theres an attempt, anyone needing me to clearify anything just let me know...

Zarathustra
(My timeline stays screwed up but im pretty sure this is all correct lo)

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RE: Female/female power exchange? - 9/2/2004 10:22:23 PM

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I own several femaleslaves
but gender has never been
a subject that has determined
anything to Me. I treat all slaves
equally regardless of gender.
I own maleslaves as well.
I have found that each person
reacts differntly to different things
regardless of gender and each
experiance is always unique.

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RE: Female/female power exchange? - 9/4/2004 5:01:55 PM

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My current 24/7 is a femalesalve.The energy is entirely different than what i recieve from a male slave. As MistressDread stated, I also do not treat slaves different due to gender. The rules of my house apply to all whoseeve me.However, in our play interaction together ,there is a huge energy feedback that is totally unique to fem/fem. Callit more sensaual, more intimate or whatever you deem it . maybe it is due to the fact we share the same wiring and body structure.
However, at times I also find the emotional dynamics challenging.There is an air of competition between fems serving me at times, and some even attempt to direct it towards me as I am head of a two dom household with the other dom being my husband. Those who try this route do not last long. Males have tried the reverse to gain my attention, which also backfires. My current is a unique woman who actually cares to serve us both the best she can. I enjoy the fem/fem energy greatly. It satisfies my bisexuality and nourious me in recharging my inner woman. Dont'get me wrong, I can be just as or more so sadistic to a woman as a man. Its just the energy release to me is different than a males.

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