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ok - 3/6/2006 10:04:30 AM

mons

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greeting to all

ok i have been reading and writing here and i enjoy it very much but i have a major problem mjor problem here it is ok all of the sudden i am having feeling of wanting to join said group no i do not want to not in to being control or dominant but i am ahving this happen today the other day i am dreaming of someone taking me away hitting me and i am his slave HELP HELP ME WHY DO I SUDDEN HAVE THIS FEELING PLEASE DO NOT TEASE ME TELL ME WHY I AM NO TLIKE THIS AT ALL NEVER HAVE BEEN AND I WILL STAY A DOMME JUST TELL ME NO JOKES

YES IT IS ME MONS/JANE

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RE: ok - 3/6/2006 10:20:09 AM

cocoon

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greetings...not for nothing, but it sounds like there might just be a 'belly' underneath all of your layers..It happens. Could be real, could be just a fluke.. hanging around with Goreans sometimes brings it out in full force. I know...the longer I hang around the girls and the Masters..the longer I feel my kajira belly... quite nice actually..to know it hasn't gone anywhere. Go with the flow....see what happens, that's what I say.
be well,
justagirl

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RE: ok - 3/6/2006 10:43:09 AM

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sounds like a slaves belly awakening to some realizations

it does happen to Domme's(been there done that have the t-shirt)

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RE: ok - 3/6/2006 11:55:54 AM

mons

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greeting two both of you

wow i am going nuts i was scare that might be it i never had this happen but oh lord i willjust go with what i feel i am open and honest woman i never hide ffom things and i do notknow many of the other dommeswho would tell anyone this but i had to say something or i would go crazy thinking am losing my self into something, i had remember reading the post the first time here and i was like then i readmore anf undertsood so many things about yourgroup now what am i what i am now ok thanks so oh that belly oh my word

mons/jane

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RE: ok - 3/6/2006 3:06:01 PM

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you think its burning now
wait till you meet one that can master you

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RE: ok - 3/6/2006 3:34:01 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: fyreredsub

sounds like a slaves belly awakening to some realizations
it does happen to Domme's(been there done that have the t-shirt)

Can I get one of those in my size?

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RE: ok - 3/6/2006 5:27:23 PM

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it comes with one slightly used but very dusty latex flogger

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quote:

ORIGINAL: fyreredsub

sounds like a slaves belly awakening to some realizations
it does happen to Domme's(been there done that have the t-shirt)

Can I get one of those in my size?

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RE: ok - 3/6/2006 6:21:22 PM

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This is not so unusual. The best advice I could offer is to be patient. Wait and see. With time, you will be able to tell whether this is a brief passing fantasy, or something your heart really desires. Give yourself the time to know for sure. You need to determine if you are really not like that, or if you have just been unable to face it until now.

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RE: ok - 3/6/2006 6:49:48 PM

mons

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ok now i am nerovus how can and when will it happen i am hiding in my place until this passes i am to open tpo feeling other places lives feeling and futures so i will just hide and notopnethe door i am serious. i had visiion of a lagre dark brown bed with white large sheet largepillws and a man with all it i was writing someone but who i came not remember lol oh what a different thing for me thank you so again oh that t-shirt

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RE: ok - 3/6/2006 10:26:22 PM

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Jane,

Probably nothing more than your subconsious playing a little "What if" game and trying to work out how it would feel if the right Man did come along. But if it isn't and it turns out to be a real change of direction for you. Well at least you know where to get good advice and support from.

If you get really stuck I think IB still has a vacent space under his workdesk

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RE: ok - 3/7/2006 1:08:32 AM

mons

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greetings to all and thank you all

iam not one to hide my feeling i amstrong but this is making crazy i remember not to long ago i thought of not return here to read and write but idid not know why now i understand very much, will i stay a dstill talk with all of you,,,,,,,,,,, yes i will to prove that burning will pass i hope it is a strange feeling so strange i would be a hard slave to train i know i want to have my dolls house withme and my toy bears i do not think any gorean masterwould take all of that too, but your advice is sogood and shine i will remember it and let it go andflow who knows thank you ago ladies ithelp spo much nowiunderstand one question nome of the men answered this why ?

mons/jane

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RE: ok - 3/7/2006 2:16:06 AM

Yedi

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Now that question is easy to answer.

Because if the men had answered you would have instantly thought of ulterior motives and tryed to rebell againgst yourself instead of sitting back and relaxing and seeing how things go like the girls answered they are les threatening to your mindset.

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RE: ok - 3/7/2006 3:25:03 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: mons
one question nome of the men answered this why ?

What am I? Chopped liver already? Oy vey!

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RE: ok - 3/7/2006 3:36:24 AM

mons

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yedi greeting to all

your so right i would have thought something but then i would had welcome their thought on this subject and i wonder if some are saying "ssee i told you all women are slaves " lol i thought of that one yes i will relax and let me go where i need to but the dream was so real and this has happen for more then week but the feeling came twodays ago i hope i writing that days right oh frybsy what would happen if i meant say master what would i feel oh my word i amstuck somewhere in the domme and the gorean place HELP HELP HELPYES HELP

THANK YOU ALL
MONS /JANE

OH FRRREYSUB I MESSED UP YOUR PRETTU NAME SORRY NIGHT ALL

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RE: ok - 3/7/2006 6:29:29 AM

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Not a problem I just stated it because I have run into people in that situation before .... One was a FW originally and 3 months later I saw her get her first collar lol she hated me for a couple years because I pointed it out to her originally. Though honestly as well she is now in a vanillia relationship and happy overall funny enough after those two years she had come to me and asked me top actually help her learn. I protected her and made sure that it was all good and even interviewed her curent husband lol.

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RE: ok - 3/7/2006 7:20:45 AM

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mons,
just sit back and let it flow... i, like others, feel that it is your slave's belly awakening. but only you can verify this. just go with what happens... who knows, you might fall to your knees one day, only to look up and see that it was a Man who tripped you... and realize that you never want to get up again.
just relax and the future will come to you.
and whatever you do...
DONT PANIC.

Respectfully,
~bina{Wolf}~

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RE: ok - 3/7/2006 7:44:51 AM

Nosathro

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Tal Raven Muse
I find that in a situation where a woman is starting to feel the submissive/slave side coming out for the first time is to let submissives and slaves help her rather than a Master or Mistress. The new emotions are very powerful and are often in conflict with what the person social upbring. The person is vary vulunable and need alot of support.

quote:

This above all: to thine own self be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.

I love Shakespeare as well...if you interested the Gorean version is:

"The most dangerous lies we tell, are the ones We tell ourselves"

I wish you well

Nosathro

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RE: ok - 3/7/2006 7:52:18 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Nosathro

Tal Raven Muse
I find that in a situation where a woman is starting to feel the submissive/slave side coming out for the first time is to let submissives and slaves help her rather than a Master or Mistress. The new emotions are very powerful and are often in conflict with what the person social upbring. The person is vary vulunable and need alot of support.

Its a call each have to make for themselves. Where I feel my words might help then I post, where not I don't. The reader will make of it what they will.

quote:

quote:

This above all: to thine own self be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.

I love Shakespeare as well...if you interested the Gorean version is:

"The most dangerous lies we tell, are the ones We tell ourselves"

Whilst not as well writen it is no less apt.
Many thanks Nosathro

Raven

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And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.

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RE: ok - 3/7/2006 11:08:39 AM

cocoon

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~who knows, you might fall to your knees one day, only to look up and see that it was a Man who tripped you... and realize that you never want to get up again.~

How so very true this statement is! You will be fine..let it happen. Sometimes it takes years to 'listen' to it.
justagirl

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RE: ok - 3/7/2006 12:42:59 PM

mons

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nosatrho

i have say your group has cause these feeling to come out and here i will stay to have them answered this is not the same as the submissive do you send you submissive or slaves to the group other group no and no i will stay here to be heard and ask question are you telling the woman not to help me they know more then i do and so far i can not began to tell you how they have shown kindness to me and i am not gorean i hope this is not a time to say " send her to the other they will help her she is not one of us" do not think i will leave to go where i do not feel co,mfortable i am stay here sir nosartho [:****]

mons/jane

ravemuse thank you for all of you advice yes i saw you

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