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BDSM ON SECOND LIFE - 10/20/2009 4:09:07 PM   

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ANYONE PLAYING,i saw pics on how you play there etc
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RE: BDSM ON SECOND LIFE - 10/21/2009 12:45:00 AM   

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I have an account on Second Life, but I don't use it for play activities.

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RE: BDSM ON SECOND LIFE - 10/21/2009 1:08:30 PM   

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BDSM role playing activities are available in Second Life. Some are paid services (payable in SL's currency which, depending upon your SL balance, may need to be augmented by exchanging real world currency for in-world SL currency). Some may not charge. SL works no differently in that regard than the real world. If you want to pay to play, you book the appointments or get an invitation to a membership dungeon (or hit them up on an open house night). If you'd rather not pay to play, you go to in-world munches or other places and get to know possible partners.


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RE: BDSM ON SECOND LIFE - 10/22/2009 6:13:20 AM   

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How hard can someone hit you with a flogger there? I mean, it's all 1's and 0's....

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RE: BDSM ON SECOND LIFE - 10/22/2009 7:01:43 AM   

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I was introduced to BDSM in Second Life, and while I agree that the experience there pales in any comparison to real life, it is an extremely safe environment to try out a variety of things.  Beside public and private dungeons, there are wide ranges of play areas such as Capture/Roleplay Simulations (Gorean, medieval, fantasy, sci-fi, etc..), prisons, BDSM schools, maid training, slave auctions, TV/TS gathering places, and sites dedicated to practically any fetish imaginable. 

One way to greatly enhance BDSM-related experiences is through the use of an alternative Second Life viewer known as Restrained Life Viewer (downloadable from here).  This viewer for the game allows the player to grant various levels of control to a dominant or play partner (restricting movement, communications, controlling wearing of clothes or restraints, etc..) 

As in real life, finding compatible partners is not a simple and easy process.  Without knowing your specific leanings and desires, I couldn't suppose to tell you exactly where to go.  However, you may search on these places in game to find nice and playful people, if that is your style:

Bondage Playground (typically more popular during European hours, I think)
Bondage Ranch (often very laggy, but busy)
Estate Obscure (femmes only)
Stonehaven (lots of fun cages to be caught in)
Kingdom of Sand (medieval Arabian capture/roleplay Simulation)
the Crack Den (contemporary urban Capture/Roleplay)
Pandora's Box Prison (not a real prison experience, although there are more hardcore prisons around)
Republic of Hayao (superheroines in peril roleplay simulation)

I still serve a Mistress there, although I spend less time there now as my real life experiences are growing more common and frequent.  She has taught me so much about what to expect in RL, and is totally supportive of any effort on my part to explore real BDSM.  I could not have made the jump without her help, and I love her dearly for it.  Please enjoy your journey. 



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RE: BDSM ON SECOND LIFE - 12/20/2009 4:03:57 PM   

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I've been in sl a little over 2 years.  I was introduced to it through the show CSI (New York)   It does have a lot of bdsm places to visit...Even full sims for gorean (not my personal favorite..but to each is own)  yours put it perfect :)

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RE: BDSM ON SECOND LIFE - 12/20/2009 9:29:59 PM   

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I play secondlife as well and I have had trouble finding a partner on there I try to go to places and never get the chance to meet anyone... but there is one place I have been to that is a 'slave auction' sim.... I was trying to play there and when I wanted to go talk to my vanilla friends they told me I wasn't a slave and that I couldn't be a part of the staff or anything because If I was truly a slave I would have no life except the auction sim... lol I laughed it off because I know what I am. But other than that place I haven't seen many people that are in the lifestyle

edited to add if anyone wants to talk in world my name is AngelMistress Boa

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RE: BDSM ON SECOND LIFE - 12/28/2009 8:22:28 AM   

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I have an avatar there and do things like sell my out of print books, live readings, and discussion groups. I don't actually "play" there because I find online stuff unsatisfying in general but I do have a "servant" I acquired there whom I deal with 95% of the time outside of Second Life.

My avatar's name, FYI is JodiAnn Saphir if you want to look me up and my bookstores or come to a reading.

Primarily I hang out in The Velvet Thorn (a femdom community) when I do hang out.

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RE: BDSM ON SECOND LIFE - 12/30/2009 4:19:52 AM   

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i play on SL occasionally - sniffer sadofsky is my character.. feel free to look me up for amusement

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RE: BDSM ON SECOND LIFE - 12/30/2009 9:19:11 PM   

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There are more BDSM and gorean sims, as well as night clubs then you can shake a stick at. It is free so join it and once you do, do a search function on whatever you maybe looking for, I am positive you will find it.



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RE: BDSM ON SECOND LIFE - 12/31/2009 1:12:54 AM   

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For years, I've been a resident of Second Life. It's my passion. I learned to build, have land and many properties and a small family. The boy I met there who was my shoe slut, eventually became my footboy in real life as well.

Anyone who comes from Collarme to the Velvet Thorn, will be warmly welcomed. I'm on the admin team at the Velvet Thorn (we're a femdom group--female dommes and their submissives/slaves)

Every week on Wednesdays at 2 pm Pacific Standard Time, I host a munch at the Velvet. Would be glad to show you around.

SL requires some time--a stiff learning curve for some--esp if you're not a video gamer, along with good RAM memory and fast graphics card. Some people get a bit discouraged at first. Those who learn the viewer--figure out how things work technically and make good friends--come to love the place. I sure do.

Look me up--I am Raffila Millgrove.

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RE: BDSM ON SECOND LIFE - 12/31/2009 11:18:45 AM   

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Put me in the heading of Completely Addicted To Second Life. 


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RE: BDSM ON SECOND LIFE - 1/1/2010 7:02:33 PM   

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Second-Life-Aholic here, addicted - my name there is Diamond Carmona feel free to add me

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RE: BDSM ON SECOND LIFE - 1/1/2010 8:21:12 PM   

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I am absolutely addicted to creating objects, and decorating my living areas.  I sometimes move just to find new places to create and decorate.
I am Azure Sharple, feel free to message me

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RE: BDSM ON SECOND LIFE - 1/10/2010 11:11:38 AM   

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met my now RL master there.  if one of us is away from home we still use it to be close.   but now its just fun and i do love to build.  Master is poly I am not and thanks to SL hes poly in their but only me RL.  but i loveSL

persia linette if you want to say hi

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RE: BDSM ON SECOND LIFE - 1/11/2010 12:26:33 PM   

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I joined Second Life when all the fuss over underage avatars hit the headlines - wanted to see what the big deal was. I stayed cos I love to build.

Got into the BDSM culture on there cos that's where I'd like to be in real life, but home circumstances kinda kibosh that.

SM content in SL ranges from the sublime to the ridiculous. I could write a 1000 word essay just detailing the things I'd like to buy - and another 1000 word essay on how great the stuff I have bought is

There are a handful of very creative SM-types around - thinking specifically of Marine Kelley, Chorazin Allen and Darien Caldwell (who left SL briefly and gave all her self-created content away for free - including some gorgeously rendered armbinders, gags and blindfolds).

The problem is that all the locations Yours mentioned - though indesputably the best places for SM in Secondlife - are either deserted or populated by cliquey poseurs. There are diamonds in the rough, though. I've made some good friends in-world, including a few wonderful Dommes and some very loving, well meaning and well behaved slaves.

I sometimes venture into the gorean sims, not because the RP interests me, because it SOOOO doesn't, but their reproductions of locations from the books can be wonderful. What gorean wouldn't want to stand on the towers of Ar, or ride a Tarn over Ko-ro-ba?

I'm not on very often, but feel free to look up Caedr Shinn :)


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RE: BDSM ON SECOND LIFE - 1/11/2010 11:04:38 PM   

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holy buttsex batman :D

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RE: BDSM ON SECOND LIFE - 1/12/2010 12:56:02 PM   

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I used to go to utherverse and there is BDSM rooms and such, yet too many think because they call themselves master ALL women are to bow down.

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RE: BDSM ON SECOND LIFE - 1/13/2010 1:59:44 AM   

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RE: BDSM ON SECOND LIFE - 1/13/2010 4:53:02 PM   

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tried Second Life - but i always get lost there, and give up..s..


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