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uestion - 3/8/2006 3:52:55 AM   
mons


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greeting to all

one question why is it on some of myemail DONOT SEND MESSAGE why is this on my some of myemail and not others is something very wrong with this people i can not find anansweri hope someone can tell me

mons/jane
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RE: uestion - 3/8/2006 5:53:40 AM   
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I’ve been sitting tonight trying to work out how to help you with this… I was taught that the way people thing and speak English is how they will write and spell it. The problem I have with your posts, is that I can’t often understand them clearly. OK so I have dyslexia and then messages are hard to read, my dyslexia cuts in and makes the whole message indecipherable. I don’t know if English is your first language, but even basic spelling and grammar is really necessary for most people. Some here just will not reply to those who don’t have grammar and spelling skills. Suggestion ~ Try writing in MSWord and then cut/past to the forums and recheck if your headings are spelt correctly.. If you have difficulties in this I’d bet that there are people who can coach you in how to do things……

Mons/Jane sweet, I am not trying to put you down or be rude or insulting but trying to help.


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RE: uestion - 3/8/2006 5:20:22 PM   
mons


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ironbear greeting

i have dyslexic i have a very hard time writing, i cried when i read your letter.irememberonce someone said " it does not matter what or how you write here( gorean group post) and i thought i was in the clear and i would be okay and no one would make fun of my writing but i was wrong i see you meant well, but ironbear it does not make the hurt any less. ido not see a spell checker here i would use it. my spelling probelm is do to bad teachers and miss school as a child.but for all of my harch spelling and my wrong spelling expressions. i must tell you this i am what they call a prodigy in art i never been to shool for art but i am very talent in my art i still draw and paint. this is so hard for me to have you say that now i will be scare towrite here now i wish you could had email me instead of a post where everyone can read and see my shame that i try to find i know well my spelling and writing sucks but i try so hard thank you, this is so ido not know how to spell it oh but i can read a book three at one time and understand and remember all i have read youhave mademe cry this could had been written to me in a email who will answer this i think you want me to go who will answered that post no one






i may not come back

mons /jane my name is jane

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RE: uestion - 3/8/2006 5:32:07 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: mons

ironbear greeting

i have dyslexic i have a very hard time writing, i cried when i read your letter.irememberonce someone said " it does not matter what or how you write here( gorean group post) and i thought i was in the clear and i would be okay and no one would make fun of my writing but i was wrong i see you meant well, but ironbear it does not make the hurt any less. ido not see a spell checker here i would use it. my spelling probelm is do to bad teachers and miss school as a child.but for all of my harch spelling and my wrong spelling expressions. i must tell you this i am what they call a prodigy in art i never been to shool for art but i am very talent in my art i still draw and paint. this is so hard for me to have you say that now i will be scare towrite here now i wish you could had email me instead of a post where everyone can read and see my shame that i try to find i know well my spelling and writing sucks but i try so hard thank you, this is so ido not know how to spell it oh but i can read a book three at one time and understand and remember all i have read youhave mademe cry this could had been written to me in a email who will answer this i think you want me to go who will answered that post no one

i may not come back

mons /jane my name is jane


No one is making fun of your writing. My unwritten response was the same as IronBear's, I don't understand what you are saying.

We can't answer unless we can understand the question.

Now a technique I've used in countries where I haven't understood the language was to restate questions using different words. If "railroad" didn't work, I tried "train" and often fell back on making choo choo sounds because there was a chance that some of the root words might be common.

You might try restating your question in several ways including the shortest exposition you believe will work.

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That said, you might look up "passive aggressive" in the dictionary because that's how the last half of your message sounds. It is not attractive and won't work here. We have ample experience with that sort of thing and the patience gets worn kinda thin

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RE: uestion - 3/8/2006 6:16:31 PM   
mons


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johnwarren

idid not mean to disrespect anyone ofyou i did not mean to be smart mouth or anything i sorry ifisaid something it was out ofhurt and shame i was upset i did not meanto me passive aggresion i knowwhat it mean i use the dictionary alot when i read to know wordi dono tunderstand i and i do mean it i do enjoy oming here and enjoy speaking withall of you iron i am sorry to you johnwarren i am sorry too i will do best to my best to work on this i am a hard learning on many things i understand how you woudl not want someone acting in that manner. thank you for letting me know i do not see my mistake untils someone tells me i hope youi will please let me be back in the good gracious of the group i feel a conection with this group i can not explain this at all but it is real as i feel it irespect the men and the women in this group oh sometime a person can speak before they think i did this two time i wrote a post then the letter can a person be forgiving for this mistakes ? i hope so i can not explain but this is somethingvery important to me thank youagain

mons/jane with sorrow that i wrote wrong

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RE: uestion - 3/8/2006 7:05:08 PM   
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You're doing better. Anyone can make a mistake. The real sin is keeping on making the mistake after you're told about it.

Keep up a good attitude and you'll do fine

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RE: uestion - 3/8/2006 11:59:10 PM   
mons


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johnwarren

i will do that and work harder at this and think before i speak

thank you johnwarren

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RE: uestion - 3/11/2006 6:37:51 PM   
IronBear


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mons

ironbear greeting

i have dyslexic i have a very hard time writing, i cried when i read your letter.irememberonce someone said " it does not matter what or how you write here( gorean group post) and i thought i was in the clear and i would be okay and no one would make fun of my writing but i was wrong i see you meant well, but ironbear it does not make the hurt any less. ido not see a spell checker here i would use it. my spelling probelm is do to bad teachers and miss school as a child.but for all of my harch spelling and my wrong spelling expressions. i must tell you this i am what they call a prodigy in art i never been to shool for art but i am very talent in my art i still draw and paint. this is so hard for me to have you say that now i will be scare towrite here now i wish you could had email me instead of a post where everyone can read and see my shame that i try to find i know well my spelling and writing sucks but i try so hard thank you, this is so ido not know how to spell it oh but i can read a book three at one time and understand and remember all i have read youhave mademe cry this could had been written to me in a email who will answer this i think you want me to go who will answered that post no one






i may not come back

mons /jane my name is jane


Tal mons,
If you see my post as being a means of humiliating you or hurting you I am truly sorry for that was not my intentions. I could have contacted you privately certainly and saved you embarasement. I chose to contact you on theboards for one reason. That reason was to hopefully draw attention to your plight and elicit help from some members who have more to offer than i do. It appears that at least I was sucessfull in some part.... Think of me as you wish for that is your right.. I would however feel a great sadness and loss were you to post no more for I believe you have many unique views to offer which would enrich the boards here.

My warmest regards...


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RE: uestion - 3/12/2006 11:22:45 AM   
MistressDREAD


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mons

when your mail has the DO NOT RESPOND message on it
this means that the mail was generated by a computer and NOT a person.
if you DID repond to the mail you WOULDNOT get a responce.
that is what the mail delivery system is telling you by saying DO NOT RESPOND.
In other words dont waste your time writing to the email address that sent
you any mail that has this on it because you will not get a responce and more then
likely your mail received that has this written on it is from a mailing list you are a
member of. it is not a personal email sent from a person that you would respond to.
understand ?Im sure mons IronBear dident mean any bad feelings towards you
but if anyone here tells you to get a spell check or makes a comment on your words
and how they are written, tell them to come talk to ME about it and tell em I said
they can be ready to kiss their asses from the inside out as I pull their heads thru
their ass hole and up thru to their mouths by their tongues. your ok mons, just dont
write back to any emails that have those words on it, ok ?


< Message edited by MistressDREAD -- 3/12/2006 11:28:16 AM >

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RE: uestion - 3/12/2006 11:33:48 AM   
MistressDREAD


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quote:

We have ample experience with that sort of thing and the patience gets worn kinda thin




~laughs wickedly~


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