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RE: What is the oldest Dom you would consider? - 3/24/2006 10:05:04 AM

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My first Master was much much older then me and i prefer older DOms he was 60 and i was 24 we worked together and where together for 5 years till his passing and was wonderful I still prefer older Doms who know what they want and like

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RE: What is the oldest Dom you would consider? - 3/24/2006 10:11:29 AM

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goodness no..do not give up..there are a lot of subs who do not realise the potency that only comes from age.
like a good cabernet sauvignon..

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RE: What is the oldest Dom you would consider? - 3/24/2006 3:14:50 PM

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I think age is just a number, my Dom is 53, I am 18. However, he is not really old, and I am not really young. Not where it matters; he is fun and happy and I can talk to him, and I do not fit in with people of my own age. If I were looking for a life partner though, he is not the one I would choose. When I am thirty and perhaps looking to be settled, he'll be 75...

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RE: What is the oldest Dom you would consider? - 3/24/2006 3:51:44 PM

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about 5 months ago, i was talking to a Master who was 61.
i found Him to be kind , well informed, wise, and very masterly.

reason the friendship did not develope to enslavement? He just could not bring Himself to enslave someone with children.

and i will never turn my back on my children for any Master.

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RE: What is the oldest Dom you would consider? - 3/24/2006 5:00:10 PM

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I am seeing two wonderful Doms. Both are over 55. I set my search parameters here at between 35 and 65. Any younger and I would feel like cradle robber. The upper limit is flexible. I find older men to be polite, considerate, charming and downright sadistic and evil when the time is right.

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RE: What is the oldest Dom you would consider? - 3/24/2006 6:13:15 PM

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As others have said, it depends on the person - do they carry their age well, do they have a similar outlook, do you have things in common (shared goals/directions etc)... At any rate, age becomes irrelevant if the spark is there... I'm 23, so if I were seeking, I would consider anywhere between 20-65 for a play/casual partner, and 20-45 or so for a life partner... Life's too short, why limit myself with some misguided sense of what is an 'appropriate' age?

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RE: What is the oldest Dom you would consider? - 3/24/2006 6:27:43 PM

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"I'm curious, would you expound on this? What changes do men make in that age period? What metamorphosis do you see?"

For me personally, when I was 30 I was beginning to know what I wanted, when I turned 40 I knew what I wanted, and at 50, I have finally achieved it. I find I have a lot more in common with play partners closer to my age, but that's just a generational thing. After all, I remeber when Paul McCartney was in a band with 3 other guys from Liverpool....

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RE: What is the oldest Dom you would consider? - 3/24/2006 6:32:31 PM

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I'm 41 and I look for subs my age. That shouldn't be a problem and it isn't something you should take personally. Just as many of the BBW, plus sized women should try to take it in stride when almost every man wants a thin (fit, petite, etc) woman. Some men write pretty rude and obnoxious comments about a woman's size. At least you are spared that.

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RE: What is the oldest Dom you would consider? - 3/24/2006 7:05:01 PM

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i cant honstley say what the age limit would be for me. my Master is 5 years older then me and i am 27. i know some older Doms that i have no problem playing with and some older Doms i do have a problem playing with ,and that is cause of the way they act.

Age is jsut a number and people only are old as they feel in my book. If two people have alot in common or they just feel that spark between them what does any one else have to say about it? nothing cause it is not thier life it is between the two that are living it.

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RE: What is the oldest Dom you would consider? - 3/24/2006 7:08:53 PM

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Well, I am 64 and a 28 yr young female slave had seen me at a play party, contacted me within a few days, and wanted to become my slave. At the time I was 63, and we have now been together as Master/slave for almost a year. I did not contact her first, as I said, she came to me. So, never say age will prevent you from finding what you seek. With age comes experience, and experience goes a long way. I wish you the best in your search.

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RE: What is the oldest Dom you would consider? - 3/24/2006 7:54:30 PM

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my dom is 35 years my senior; He is over 50. i cannot imagine my life without Him...but maybe us southern girls have different tastes than new englanders? seriously, though, do not stop looking. i think anyone who rejects someone based solely on age may just have their head in the wrong place. this is not to ignore the fact that huge age gap relationships are difficult to work without adding the dimension of D/s...but...i click with who i click with, and i usually don't worry about how old they are. i am sure You will find a lovely submissive someday who loves You for who You are, whether You're 25 or 54. :)

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RE: What is the oldest Dom you would consider? - 3/24/2006 8:50:19 PM

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Wow, lots of replies.

First, the Dom i am seeing is over 50, i am 31. I believe it is compatibility and maturity rather than a numbers game. I am not consciously aware of the age gap when in His company.

Second, online makes it difficult. In the online world, we look for perfection and ideal matches. We are all but forced to use basic and limited criteria to narrow our search for a compatible partner. Age is often one of these variables. Unfortunately, by doing this, we often eliminate perfectly compatible partners. We are seeking intangible qualities and elusive compatibility using tangible statistics. Looking at it in that aspect, it is almost surprising it turns out well for anyone. Let's say I want (to make a short list here as an example) honesty, a sense of humor, and intelligence. These are things that are subjective. I have to search by things such as age, location, and orientation. Online at best is a shot in the dark.

Example: By the criteria I would use (though age is not to blame here) I would never have looked at an online profile for the Dom I am exploring a relationship with. My "ideal" match criteria would have eliminated Him. However, I have known Him over 2 years and have built a bond and connection that is, at best, very elusive. We have only recently started exploring it deeper. However, suffice it to say, that this criteria I would have used online would have cost me to miss something amazing. Unfortunately, I dont have the answer on how to get around this tunnel vision caused by the net. Perhaps look for some local groups?

Best Of Luck
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RE: What is the oldest Dom you would consider? - 3/24/2006 11:00:22 PM

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A Dom/mes soul is a old soul to my way of thnking. Their core person has been reincarnated a few times allready. Theve been around the block, and have insightful wisDOM. They are not easily startled. They do not panick, they are in control.
This for me, comes in the older Dom/me packaging. Or tends to. But then, im getting on a bit to some folks, so i might be more lenient.
For the sort of power exchange that i need to feel complete, i could gain this from any age, as it is not sexual. Sex is the vehicle that we ride the D/s on. But there are so many other areas to connect in, that do not rely on sex. Im just having my cake and eating it at the moment though

But sensation, sensuality, sensory deprivation, humiliation, watersports, pain, head fucks, language alteration, are all vehicles. So age does not matter in these forms of play for me. It is probably enhanced with life experience, that comes with age, if not D/s experience. Though both would be good. . .
If the relationship were a good one, no doubt, my limits would soften considerably to their age, as i grew attracted to them.
Power is what draws me. I couldnt not recognise it if i saw it. And power is not affected by age. You either have it, or you dont for me. Chemistry at its best. Age is irrelevant, mostly.
Id like to have a go at age play some time. A older Dom would lend itself to that fantasy i reckon. Dunno about the physical though?
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RE: What is the oldest Dom you would consider? - 3/26/2006 12:46:11 AM

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I am 36 and my Master is 56. Age wasn't a factor for either one of us. Warmest wishes in your journey and I am sure you will find your perfect match when the time is right.

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RE: What is the oldest Dom you would consider? - 3/26/2006 5:20:01 PM

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54 is not old at all. I love an experienced man. My husband is close to your age. I found that men over 40 are much more attentive to women than the younger men. So, hang in there!

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oldest Dom you would consider? - 3/26/2006 5:26:04 PM

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As a lesbian submissive, my situation might be a little different from that of the other subs who have replied. But I actually prefer an older domme and have served one who was 55 at the time.

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RE: What is the oldest Dom you would consider? - 3/26/2006 5:42:04 PM

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Old doms are ok but old subs are what I like. Old subs are like fine wine, they grow more sophisticated in their taste with age.

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RE: What is the oldest Dom you would consider? - 3/27/2006 4:25:19 PM

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I am 20 and my master is 34. We are both very happy, and I plan to stay with him.

I would consider someone up to 40, but really not much older than that.

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RE: What is the oldest Dom you would consider? - 3/27/2006 5:54:30 PM

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My Dom is 22 years older then me.

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RE: What is the oldest Dom you would consider? - 3/27/2006 6:03:40 PM

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I would never let a mans age get in the way of what I seek. Now his mind reaching mine, well I think that is ageless.

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