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youngsubgeoff -> She wont leave me alone (11/23/2009 5:58:32 AM)
OK, as most of you know, I ended my last relationship due to infidelity earlier this month. Now I have another problem. She has her friends calling me saying she wants to get back with me. To be honest, I have zero interest in going there again. So now I wonder, do I have her call me herself and I just dump all this shit Im feeling on her so she knows where Im at? Or do I ignore the calls? Any input is appreciated.

kanina -> RE: She wont leave me alone (11/23/2009 6:04:07 AM)
i would talk to her and if she didn´t understand ignore... [sm=ignore.gif]

CherokeeRose2 -> RE: She wont leave me alone (11/23/2009 6:04:21 AM)
There's not a lot of point of "dumping" on her, IMHO, because it's just going to open up the wounds for you and I doubt any response she can give will make it worth it for you to go there. I would make it clear to her that there is no possibility and you want to end all contact.

DarkSteven -> RE: She wont leave me alone (11/23/2009 6:09:04 AM)
Tell those friends, "I thought I made it understood that we're not a match." They'll relay your answer to her and she'll quit.

youngsubgeoff -> RE: She wont leave me alone (11/23/2009 6:31:26 AM)
Ive already told them to leave me alone, Im not interested. They just ignore it and keep calling and texting me. This shit's causing me alot of problems.

DarkSteven -> RE: She wont leave me alone (11/23/2009 6:41:29 AM)
Then presumably she know s how you feel and is either trying to break down resistance or just bug you. I'd contact her via email, cc'ing yourself,.and request her to quit harassing you. Note that it is against the law, and that you are keeping a copy of the email.

youngsubgeoff -> RE: She wont leave me alone (11/23/2009 6:43:31 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven Then presumably she know s how you feel and is either trying to break down resistance or just bug you. I'd contact her via email, cc'ing yourself,.and request her to quit harassing you. Note that it is against the law, and that you are keeping a copy of the email. Not a bad idea. Im gonna try that.

happysea -> RE: She wont leave me alone (11/23/2009 7:15:19 AM)
hello, I did not understand exactly your situation, there are many ways to end up a relationship, having your freedom back is possible, if u are tired or worrying about this there are some simple ways to comunicate this in the right way so she will leave you alone.

LaTigresse -> RE: She wont leave me alone (11/23/2009 7:21:05 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: youngsubgeoff quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven Then presumably she know s how you feel and is either trying to break down resistance or just bug you. I'd contact her via email, cc'ing yourself,.and request her to quit harassing you. Note that it is against the law, and that you are keeping a copy of the email. Not a bad idea. Im gonna try that. Yes, quit allowing it.

GYPSYMAMBO -> RE: She wont leave me alone (11/23/2009 7:43:24 AM)
GEOFF>> As long as you are connected in any way..text..phone..e mail..etc you leave this unclosed.../open.. IF you seek closure so you can OPEN for NEW to come it.. CUT IT ALL OFF....no ..no.. not that ahahhaha you know what I mean love..[:D] Interesting or "revenge" like as it may be to let her beg..etc..it still keeps you attached like an umbilical AND she still has control and can "victimize".... GM

youngsubgeoff -> RE: She wont leave me alone (11/23/2009 7:50:02 AM)
GM, Again, a good point. Im thinking if this email doesnt work, Im going to get a no contact order. I do have documentation (I have the ability to record calls on my cell phone with crystal clarity). If she comes near me at all, talks to me, emails, calls, etc, she will be going to jail.

redwoodgirl -> RE: She wont leave me alone (11/23/2009 8:28:21 AM)
Poor baby Geoff, i feel for you (((((((((((Geoff))))))))))))

switch2please -> RE: She wont leave me alone (11/23/2009 12:37:38 PM)
I had a similar experience with an ex, he actually started stalking me... If it comes to that, a no-contact or restraining order may be a good idea.

Ladynslave -> RE: She wont leave me alone (11/23/2009 4:10:35 PM)
You don't actually have to save the voicemails and texts. Simply noting the time, date, who it was from, and their relationship to her is sufficient to build a history of harassment. If you want it to stop quickly, change your number.

zephyroftheNorth -> RE: She wont leave me alone (11/23/2009 4:15:31 PM)
Can't you block their phone numbers so they can't contact you?

redwoodgirl -> RE: She wont leave me alone (11/23/2009 4:37:32 PM)
ive got a superhightech cell and it dosent do that. Because of my past situation, ive had to change my numbers, got a restraining order and even wound up having to move to get away from the person that was doing this to me. if its for real, this mess is not funny. and since he's feeling it..... feeling are always real always wishing you the best geoff :)

zephyroftheNorth -> RE: She wont leave me alone (11/23/2009 4:44:49 PM)
Wow that's too bad. You would think that with all the things phones can do that blocking unwanted callers would be one of them

DrkJourney -> RE: She wont leave me alone (11/23/2009 5:08:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: youngsubgeoff Ive already told them to leave me alone, Im not interested. They just ignore it and keep calling and texting me. This shit's causing me alot of problems. sounds so familiar...first from high school, and second from my husband. He has and ex that kept calling and texting and having friends text and call. I know it's extreme and a hassle, but after trying to reason with her by saying not intersted, and then again telling her that he is now married, he finally just had to change his number. If you think it would do any good, call her, tell her you have moved on, and that her "and" her friends should do the same. If that doesn't work, might try a different number good luck...I know from experience how much of a pain it is.

DrkJourney -> RE: She wont leave me alone (11/23/2009 5:22:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth Wow that's too bad. You would think that with all the things phones can do that blocking unwanted callers would be one of them You would wouldn't you?...lol I've had my number since Feb. some kid keeps texting, calling and harrassing me. That's when I found out I didn't have a block feature. I had to actually download one, which really doesn't work worth a darn. I had to call the police and report them....that's the only way it stopped. Although every now and then I'll get a text asking for that person, so not sure if it's still the kids using another number or actual old friends.

youngsubgeoff -> RE: She wont leave me alone (11/23/2009 5:40:18 PM)
Well, its been 12 hours and its been total silence from her end. I would like to think that she got the message, but only time will tell.

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