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RE: Cleaning my cum - 12/4/2009 12:18:52 PM   
Mercnbeth


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My little pet beth simply loves it anywhere on her and it would be 'sadistic' of me to deny her that simply pleasure under my control.

In fact, at the risk of getting into a non-consensual public display discussion, often when we are out and about and she has a little bit drying on her lip, chin, or someplace; I'll point out to her, and anyone else who happens to be around, that she has a "little something" near her lips or chin that she may not realize and should know about. her smile, and often futile attempt to 'clean up' with her tongue, is one of our little harmless public head-games.

Just one of many ways 24/7 may not be all about physical whips & chains, but always running as a backup program, personified by subtle activities and verbal exchange. Most are oblivious; meanwhile we keep the heat between us simmering.

Ummmm - I think I'll take a ride home for 'lunch'.

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RE: Cleaning my cum - 12/4/2009 12:23:23 PM   
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I'm in the Do What You Want crowd because that is what a dominant does...

However.... some folks have an allergic reaction to cum.  And as Celeste says - that stuff burns.

Wipe it off with her hair.  That's yummy.

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RE: Cleaning my cum - 12/4/2009 2:32:44 PM   
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Besides unless the bottom here is submitting to him, which is not made clear, it is a damned nice thing for a man to be considerate of his play partner. I get the feeling they aren't in a relationship, just bondage top/bottom fwb. Which is totally different than inside a committed relationship where you have the right to be a selfish ass and know your partner will be there in the morning anyway.

I think the op should find someone less rigid and more fun to be with.

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RE: Cleaning my cum - 12/4/2009 10:19:39 PM   
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Thanks to all who have replied, question was not meant as I "dont have a choice from her" she was just surprised by my being willing to do this. I dont want to finish with her and I dont want to touch it as it ages.............. MUSICMYSTERY I am not in "sub school" I do have a handle on Domination and I assure you I am quite able to handle my subs...FU

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RE: Cleaning my cum - 12/5/2009 1:24:28 AM   
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She says I, as a Dom should not lower myself to do this..What are your thoughts


Lower? I think you, as the dom, should do what you damn well please and if you want to wipe it off, then friggin' wipe it off. She may be getting off on it staying there but she should say that directly.

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RE: Cleaning my cum - 12/5/2009 2:58:39 PM   
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Being a Dom means you get to decide things like this.

Do you want her to look clean and fresh?  If so keep cleaning her off. 

But if you were doing it for her comfort, leave it on, she clearly likes it.



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RE: Cleaning my cum - 12/5/2009 10:38:11 PM   
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Why are you letting your sub tell you where to leave your cum? You are the Dom. It's for you to decide. If you want to wipe it off of her, then do so. Unless you have asked her opinion, she should keep quite unless her health or safety is a consideration.

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RE: Cleaning my cum - 12/6/2009 6:58:19 AM   
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It's for you to say what's right and what isn't, not her.

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RE: Cleaning my cum - 12/7/2009 6:39:24 AM   
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You're the Dominant, you decide.  She is exulting your position in this relationship by relating that you do not need to concern yourself with her state.  She enjoys the feeling of being used..."ridden hard, and put away wet..." so to speak.  It would make her feel more submissive if you just left it on her like she's not worth being cleaned up (even though you think she is and that is alright).  If you want my opinion, next time; just leave it there, and see what happens, and then you will have a good picture of what happens both ways...but more so, you'll see how she reacts.  You decide what to do, and she'll respond.  She sounds like a good submissive and wants the best for you, as well as she what feeds her desires.  Have fun.

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RE: Cleaning my cum - 12/7/2009 11:01:45 PM   
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Just use her hair as a towel... a win/win.
 

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RE: Cleaning my cum - 12/8/2009 1:22:41 PM   
MasterSlaveLA


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Some other... ahem... options:

Cum Clean Cock Washer
http://www.theprankstore.com/shop/product.php?productid=16312
 
Cum-Kleen Flavored Cleaning Wipes
http://www.amazon.com/Cum-Clean-Flavored-Cleaning-Wipes/dp/B0014OAHOK
 

 


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RE: Cleaning my cum - 12/8/2009 1:55:19 PM   
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OP grow a pair would ya geeze...

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RE: Cleaning my cum - 12/8/2009 2:12:07 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterSlaveLA

 
Just use her hair as a towel... a win/win.
 


Actually...  I like that idea.

quote:

ORIGINAL: GYPSYMAMBO

A sub once said to me..
 
" DOMMES should not suck cock or be fukked from the back..it is not DOMINANT ....YOUR place is  on top"

HE soon found His place ...with the door banging his ass as he left.
 


Agreed.  I may be one of them there "almighty d types" but, I like dick damnit.  It pleases me.  And as one of them there "lordly and grand d types", if it pleases me, then I will do what I wish. 

Yeah, the ladies here know, it can be fun to have our subby types strapped to a bed or something, unable to move and straddle them.  In that instance our subs are our own personal toys, to play with a we see fit.

When tied to your bed, she's your toy.  If you want to get your toys all messy and clean them or not, that's your call.  If I drop a football in the mud, I don't ask if the football wants cleaned off.  I either do it or I don't, depending on my mood at the moment.


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RE: Cleaning my cum - 12/8/2009 3:33:30 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: BKSir

quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterSlaveLA

 
Just use her hair as a towel... a win/win.
 


Actually...  I like that idea.

quote:

ORIGINAL: GYPSYMAMBO

A sub once said to me..
 
" DOMMES should not suck cock or be fukked from the back..it is not DOMINANT ....YOUR place is  on top"

HE soon found His place ...with the door banging his ass as he left.
 


Agreed.  I may be one of them there "almighty d types" but, I like dick damnit.  It pleases me.  And as one of them there "lordly and grand d types", if it pleases me, then I will do what I wish. 

Yeah, the ladies here know, it can be fun to have our subby types strapped to a bed or something, unable to move and straddle them.  In that instance our subs are our own personal toys, to play with a we see fit.

When tied to your bed, she's your toy.  If you want to get your toys all messy and clean them or not, that's your call.  If I drop a football in the mud, I don't ask if the football wants cleaned off.  I either do it or I don't, depending on my mood at the moment.



Exactly.


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RE: Cleaning my cum - 12/8/2009 3:34:58 PM   
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quote:

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Just use her hair as a towel... a win/win.
 


Oh hell no. Not my hair. Not ever. .


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RE: Cleaning my cum - 12/8/2009 4:07:55 PM   
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He only uses my hair if it is newly washed, knowing I'll have to rewash it. Why not before I do the whole shampoo, conditioner, comb through gently in the shower thing which takes the better part of half an hour? Why is it always when it is freshly washed? Sobs...

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RE: Cleaning my cum - 12/8/2009 4:10:04 PM   
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Oh I know Celeste....my post was wishful thinking. *sighs*. I do hate it though. I'm glad it's usually deposited somewhere more easily washable..


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RE: Cleaning my cum - 12/8/2009 5:24:24 PM   
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Hi Greedy One

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RE: Cleaning my cum - 12/8/2009 7:20:42 PM   
sweetsub1957


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quote:

ORIGINAL: GYPSYMAMBO

Flog her ass for saying such..
YOU Are boss..or are you??
 
Do as you please..leave it in her hair for a day...IF YOU WANT..
 
A sub once said to me..
 
" DOMMES should not suck cock or be fukked from the back..it is not DOMINANT ....YOUR place is  on top"

HE soon found His place ...with the door banging his ass as he left.
 
 
GM




quote:

ORIGINAL: BKSir

Agreed.  I may be one of them there "almighty d types" but, I like dick damnit.  It pleases me.  And as one of them there "lordly and grand d types", if it pleases me, then I will do what I wish. 

Yeah, the ladies here know, it can be fun to have our subby types strapped to a bed or something, unable to move and straddle them.  In that instance our subs are our own personal toys, to play with a we see fit.

When tied to your bed, she's your toy.  If you want to get your toys all messy and clean them or not, that's your call.  If I drop a football in the mud, I don't ask if the football wants cleaned off.  I either do it or I don't, depending on my mood at the moment.



Exactly.

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RE: Cleaning my cum - 12/8/2009 8:13:00 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterSlaveLA

 
Just use her hair as a towel... a win/win.
 


Oh hell no. Not my hair. Not ever. .



Wussy... yer not teh twue submittive then.



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