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RE: 'I'll explain when we talk' - 12/5/2009 9:57:13 AM

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I keep getting emails like this. The most recent was someone asking if I knew how to take blood pressure and if I owned a BP cuff. I said yes, no, and why do you ask and all I got was 'I'll explain when we talk'. I expect my questions to be answered just as validly as I answer his, or yours, or theirs. My questions are just as important to me, and I wouldn't ask if I didn't want to know. It irritates me that some guys think they can just write me off like that for a 'later date'.

I have a feeling this guy wants to 'back me into a corner' so to speak by getting my yahoo information so he has more personal info on me. It's been my experience that this is what guys are aiming to do when they approach me like this. After I give them my yahoo info, they start demanding things and I just ignore them.

So how would you deal with this? It's irritating, and I want to tell the jerk that it's irritating, but it'd probably fall on deaf ears. Would you just block people like this? Send a 'polite' response? Rip em a new one? And how can I avoid this kind of thing in the future?

Oh, I would definitely block and delete. As a matter of fact, I DID. This guy has been around forever, at least ever since I've been on CM. He is way into nursey roleplay and can get way annoying, at least in my opinion. He is into what He is into and nothing else.....does not care what you are or are not into. And He's very tenacious. You can tell Him to go away, but He keeps coming back like a bad rash. lol Block and delete are definitely your friends in this case. Big time.

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RE: 'I'll explain when we talk' - 12/5/2009 10:35:53 AM

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Yes..like others have stated this guy has been around for some time on CM and I know I have gotten a message from him as well. Some guys just don't get the hint.
Like others I blocked and deleted.

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RE: 'I'll explain when we talk' - 12/5/2009 10:39:57 AM

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You can't avoid it. Mr BP Cuff seems to have been around forever, there are a couple of others that make the rounds on a continual basis and wankers are here to stay. Block, send a polite response, or rip em a new one - do whatever makes you happy because they're here to stay and it's just part of being on the internet.

Isn't there any way to fix them up with the slave girls who, and I quote:

"want good master bcos i am tired of fakes and will serve my master for long life and am from london but now in nigeria bcos my master died of blood disease and now want to serve new master will do anything for good master but not time waster master will suck and fuck any man who is good master please come to me master ready to relocate for good master..."

I think they would be quite happy with each other.

Yes, the scammer emails are always good for a laugh too. In fact it might be twue love if we could set them up with the wankers. Anyone who prefers having a walking talking fetish supplier instead of a real person meet your destiny...a Nigerian princess whose master has died and is seeking a new one. There ya go....

So Mr. Blood Pressure, the guy who is into laying eggs like a chicken (an oldie but goodie), the man who wants to lick my eyelids and stick his dick in my ear, the man who wants to bind me into a rope chrysalis and then film me when I 'emerge', the man who has dark desires but won't say what the desires are except that they are...dark

, the human ashtray (anyone heard from him?), the tampon eater, the man who wants to 'eat' me...no, not the usual interpretation, the man who wants me to fart into a plastic ziploc bag and then send the bag to him, the one who wants to let me loose as prey on his land and hunt me down with a gun and if i get away will let me sleep on a concrete slab in his garage till next time...instead of having me turn these guys all down they could be very happy with a scammer/slave girl on their arm instead! Great idea Rex....great idea.

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RE: 'I'll explain when we talk' - 12/5/2009 10:49:55 AM

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ORIGINAL: ordinary I keep getting emails like this. The most recent was someone asking if I knew how to take blood pressure and if I owned a BP cuff. I said yes, no, and why do you ask and all I got was 'I'll explain when we talk'. I expect my questions to be answered just as validly as I answer his, or yours, or theirs. My questions are just as important to me, and I wouldn't ask if I didn't want to know. It irritates me that some guys think they can just write me off like that for a 'later date'. I have a feeling this guy wants to 'back me into a corner' so to speak by getting my yahoo information so he has more personal info on me. It's been my experience that this is what guys are aiming to do when they approach me like this. After I give them my yahoo info, they start demanding things and I just ignore them. So how would you deal with this? It's irritating, and I want to tell the jerk that it's irritating, but it'd probably fall on deaf ears. Would you just block people like this? Send a 'polite' response? Rip em a new one? And how can I avoid this kind of thing in the future?
Oh, I would definitely block and delete. As a matter of fact, I DID. This guy has been around forever, at least ever since I've been on CM. He is way into nursey roleplay and can get way annoying, at least in my opinion. He is into what He is into and nothing else.....does not care what you are or are not into. And He's very tenacious. You can tell Him to go away, but He keeps coming back like a bad rash. lol Block and delete are definitely your friends in this case. Big time.

Yep :o( He even found me by now :o(

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RE: 'I'll explain when we talk' - 12/5/2009 1:11:59 PM

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So Mr. Blood Pressure, the guy who is into laying eggs like a chicken (an oldie but goodie), the man who wants to lick my eyelids and stick his dick in my ear, the man who wants to bind me into a rope chrysalis and then film me when I 'emerge', the man who has dark desires but won't say what the desires are except that they are...dark , the human ashtray (anyone heard from him?), the tampon eater, the man who wants to 'eat' me...no, not the usual interpretation, the man who wants me to fart into a plastic ziploc bag and then send the bag to him, the one who wants to let me loose as prey on his land and hunt me down with a gun and if i get away will let me sleep on a concrete slab in his garage till next time...instead of having me turn these guys all down they could be very happy with a scammer/slave girl on their arm instead! Great idea Rex....great idea.

Ok, these just made me laugh. I'm assuming you really had people request these things of you, which, although really and truly weird in my opinion, made me laugh that much harder. Especially farting into a plastic bag and sending it to someone, lol.

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RE: 'I'll explain when we talk' - 12/5/2009 1:31:55 PM

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So Mr. Blood Pressure, the guy who is into laying eggs like a chicken (an oldie but goodie), the man who wants to lick my eyelids and stick his dick in my ear, the man who wants to bind me into a rope chrysalis and then film me when I 'emerge', the man who has dark desires but won't say what the desires are except that they are...dark , the human ashtray (anyone heard from him?), the tampon eater, the man who wants to 'eat' me...no, not the usual interpretation, the man who wants me to fart into a plastic ziploc bag and then send the bag to him, the one who wants to let me loose as prey on his land and hunt me down with a gun and if i get away will let me sleep on a concrete slab in his garage till next time...instead of having me turn these guys all down they could be very happy with a scammer/slave girl on their arm instead! Great idea Rex....great idea.

Ok, these just made me laugh. I'm assuming you really had people request these things of you, which, although really and truly weird in my opinion, made me laugh that much harder. Especially farting into a plastic bag and sending it to someone, lol.

Yes, they were 'real' requests. Having had 3 boys the fart one didn't phase me too much. My oldest once farted into a plastic Easter egg, duct taped the edges and then opened it for his brothers a month later and they all about passed out from the smell that was still in there. Yup, things about farting just aren't that weird to me with that going on in the backgound of my life.

People wonder why I hide my profile sometimes, I just get tired of it. Although now that I have I am collared in my profile the requests, weird and not weird, have slowed down quite a bit. Now the weird requests are mostly Dom's that try to convince me they want friendship but have as their main profile pic a shot of their dick. Yeah...sure, I'd like to be friends with your body part. Count me in...woo hoo.

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RE: 'I'll explain when we talk' - 12/5/2009 2:30:24 PM

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Someone really needs (well, okay, not "NEEDS") to start a poll to see how many have gotten Mr. BP guy. Count me in as another "lucky" recipient.

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RE: 'I'll explain when we talk' - 12/5/2009 2:42:36 PM

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ORIGINAL: lizi

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ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady

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So Mr. Blood Pressure, the guy who is into laying eggs like a chicken (an oldie but goodie), the man who wants to lick my eyelids and stick his dick in my ear, the man who wants to bind me into a rope chrysalis and then film me when I 'emerge', the man who has dark desires but won't say what the desires are except that they are...dark , the human ashtray (anyone heard from him?), the tampon eater, the man who wants to 'eat' me...no, not the usual interpretation, the man who wants me to fart into a plastic ziploc bag and then send the bag to him, the one who wants to let me loose as prey on his land and hunt me down with a gun and if i get away will let me sleep on a concrete slab in his garage till next time...instead of having me turn these guys all down they could be very happy with a scammer/slave girl on their arm instead! Great idea Rex....great idea.

Ok, these just made me laugh. I'm assuming you really had people request these things of you, which, although really and truly weird in my opinion, made me laugh that much harder. Especially farting into a plastic bag and sending it to someone, lol.

Yes, they were 'real' requests. Having had 3 boys the fart one didn't phase me too much. My oldest once farted into a plastic Easter egg, duct taped the edges and then opened it for his brothers a month later and they all about passed out from the smell that was still in there. Yup, things about farting just aren't that weird to me with that going on in the backgound of my life.

People wonder why I hide my profile sometimes, I just get tired of it. Although now that I have I am collared in my profile the requests, weird and not weird, have slowed down quite a bit. Now the weird requests are mostly Dom's that try to convince me they want friendship but have as their main profile pic a shot of their dick. Yeah...sure, I'd like to be friends with your body part. Count me in...woo hoo.

lizi, I had three boys too; bless your heart honey LOL.

Amen to the sometimes hiding My profile thing. BS is king, apparently.
I sometimes have to wonder at all the Doms not already of My acquaintance who insist on stopping by My profile - sometimes repeatedly. I am a happily married Woman with a family who will NOT be making any exceptions for them, and My profile states this quite clearly. Do these idjits presume to think that they will somehow change My alleged mind? (NOT)

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RE: 'I'll explain when we talk' - 12/5/2009 2:43:50 PM

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Someone really needs (well, okay, not "NEEDS") to start a poll to see how many have gotten Mr. BP guy. Count me in as another "lucky" recipient.

Cali

Hey Cali, I seem to have missed this memo somehow; who is Mr. BP Guy? erm.. laying eggs like a chicken?

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RE: 'I'll explain when we talk' - 12/5/2009 2:54:22 PM

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I just got one from the blood pressure guy. no response from me.

now, back to my fudgesicle...I am in so much pain with my tooth being sensitive...

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RE: 'I'll explain when we talk' - 12/5/2009 3:22:53 PM

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I didn't get Mr. BP, but I did get one once from a guy who was into taking rectal temperatures. We'll call him Mr. RT, lol.

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RE: 'I'll explain when we talk' - 12/5/2009 3:50:02 PM

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FR I've gotten his message too, more than once. I just ignore him.

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RE: 'I'll explain when we talk' - 12/5/2009 4:08:40 PM

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Just checked my CMail......nothing. What is wrong with me that I've never had a single message from BP guy? *bursts into tears*

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RE: 'I'll explain when we talk' - 12/5/2009 4:52:24 PM

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Just checked my CMail......nothing. What is wrong with me that I've never had a single message from BP guy? *bursts into tears*

Well, when I changed my profile name way back when for other reasons, I thought I would never hear from Him again, but He found me anyway. I could send Him your way next time He writes me but, oh yeah, I already blocked Him.

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RE: 'I'll explain when we talk' - 12/5/2009 4:55:16 PM

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..maybe if we make chicken noises? OO, I bet we could draw him out around Eostre, I mean Easter..

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RE: 'I'll explain when we talk' - 12/5/2009 4:58:04 PM

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Just checked my CMail......nothing. What is wrong with me that I've never had a single message from BP guy? *bursts into tears*

Well, when I changed my profile name way back when for other reasons, I thought I would never hear from Him again, but He found me anyway. I could send Him your way next time He writes me but, oh yeah, I already blocked Him.

Well could you contact him or something? It's really embarrassing being the only one who has never heard from him.

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RE: 'I'll explain when we talk' - 12/5/2009 5:26:00 PM

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"Once you see me in person you'll want to fuck my brains out and then I'll pull out the bp cuff so you can wrap it around my cock and make it hard".

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RE: 'I'll explain when we talk' - 12/5/2009 5:53:54 PM

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"Once you see me in person you'll want to fuck my brains out and then I'll pull out the bp cuff so you can wrap it around my cock and make it hard".

I was thinking more along the lines of wanting to strangle himself with it while I watched... I can't say I'd be opposed to the idea..

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RE: 'I'll explain when we talk' - 12/5/2009 5:54:26 PM

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Well, i did actually chat with BP guy (blushing) - curiosity is one of my weaknesses.

He wanted me to take some sort of quiz, that required a cam and microphone. Since i don't have either of these (for just this sort of reason), i couldn't take his little "quiz." He was quite bent about it. i ended the chat at that point. He seems mostly harmless but i think this is his particular kink, and finding willing online subs to chat with him is part of it.

When i've been seeking, i've generally given someone a chance, but once they showed themselves to be untrustworthy, then i ended the conversation. So to answer your initial question, i say go with your gut instinct - if you can't trust the guy, then don't trust him.

i will say though, that some of the best Dominant men i've spoken with in the past are the ones who have the least amount of info in their profiles, and that don't share a whole lot of their personal information up front. Typically these are men in positions in society that they don't want or need to have their private life made public, or take a risk doing so (and no, i'm not referring to being married ha ha - that's a separate issue). So i wouldn't write someone off just for not having much information up front - just take your time and talk with both eyes wide open, and again, let your gut instinct be your guide.

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RE: 'I'll explain when we talk' - 12/5/2009 6:25:15 PM

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Hey Zeph, I haven't gotten the bp guy yet either. We can cry in our beer together.

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