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Are there any uncollared kajira on collarme.com? - 12/12/2009 1:39:00 AM

Goreanlover

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I do apologize if that came across as well rather offensive and it was not my intention, quite simply I curious since I have yet to come across a masterless or uncollared kajira as of yet and that is what I am looking for on this site I was curious if there were any here. Any response would be appreciated whether it be a place to find said kajira or you be a kajira yourself, I would appreciate any response or message I recieve. Thank you for your time.

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RE: Are there any uncollared kajira on collarme.com? - 12/12/2009 2:30:21 AM

Elisabella

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Hi GoreanLover,

The short answer - No.

The less-short answer - A kajira (slave) only becomes a slave once she is collared and mastered.

There are quite a few women who desire to be owned by Gorean men on this site, if you stick around the forums you'll soon learn who they are

I wish you well,
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RE: Are there any uncollared kajira on collarme.com? - 12/12/2009 2:42:50 AM

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Greetings.....

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ORIGINAL: Goreanlover

I do apologize if that came across as well rather offensive and it was not my intention, quite simply I curious since I have yet to come across a masterless or uncollared kajira as of yet and that is what I am looking for on this site I was curious if there were any here. Any response would be appreciated whether it be a place to find said kajira or you be a kajira yourself, I would appreciate any response or message I recieve. Thank you for your time.

There are many. That doesn't mean any of them will be interested in you. You can use the search function under lifestyles to look for someone with Gorean as an interest and even search within a close distance or anywhere.

Answer this question before you go any further. Why would they want you?

Your profile doesn't give any reasons except that you want one and it certainly doesn't show that you are Gorean, just that you want a kajira. That is usually god for a few chuckles from the would be slaves as they move on to someone else. Finally....why do you think you know anything about mastering a slave?

One suggestion...read all the books...meet other Goreans, especially offline. Learn what mastery of another person entails and then decide if you really want to do that after all. There is an offline Gorean group in your area. Find them and meet with them.

Be well....

Malkinius

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RE: Are there any uncollared kajira on collarme.com? - 12/12/2009 3:50:35 AM

MAWarGod

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Since I have been on CM I have had many contacting Me claiming to be kajira seeking a Master.. Many, Many hours and emails I spent talking with a very few of them the ones the warning signs don't tip Me off.. I have helped a few girls locate a good Man or Master near them.. I rarely search.. I guess thats why I don't have 1000's of useless email in My box chuckles... and thats a good thing...

Goreanlover, chuckles at name, I wish You luck in Your quest and may You find more than what You come to know as kajira or kajirae..

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RE: Are there any uncollared kajira on collarme.com? - 12/12/2009 5:59:40 AM

barelynangel

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OP -- Umm no, there are no unowned kajira as to be a slave of which a kajira is you have to be owned by a Man. If she is not a slave of a Man she is self-determining and therefore she is free.

There are women who also know what it is to BE a slave of a Gorean or even a slave of other Men. If you are looking for a woman who is experienced in being owned by a Gorean Man previously, there are those also. However, if you think her being a kajira is a matter of you snapping your fingers and say be a kajira -- i think you need to understand slavery a little more. Because i am sure many will humor you, but someone like me would probably laugh at you and seek out Men who don't need to snap their fingers and demand i be kajira but instead do their part which results in my responding to same.

However, as someone else indicated -- there are many women who wish to be owned by Men and many specifically are looking for Gorean Men. However, i can tell you this much, those women who aren't desperate and who believe slave is more than just acting out a part will find your posting such a question here to indicate you are NOT the type of Men they are looking for. You sound desperate as well as believing that finding a slave is like going through in your case walmart and choosing off the rack.

The fact that you are looking for a kajira tells me that you have no clue what that is and that you think a gorean slave is a woman who plays a part rather than exist under the mastery of the Gorean Man who owns her.

Perhaps instead of trying to find an unowned kajira -- which you won't find - though you will find many unowned women running around online claiming to be slaves and many claiming to be kajira though they are not owned and pretty much are free and self-determining, perhaps you should simply look for a woman who is seeking the strength of a Man who in the end -- knows what to do with her and is capable of creating the atmosphere and environment for her to exist within under his determinations for her because he has mastered her. If you find this -- your being Gorean is simply that your being a Gorean and she by default of who owns her becomes a Gorean's slave.

Just sayin'

angel

< Message edited by barelynangel -- 12/12/2009 6:03:23 AM >

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RE: Are there any uncollared kajira on collarme.com? - 12/12/2009 7:46:11 AM

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A kajira is a female slave. A female slave is mastered. The collar, the claim of figurative "ownership", these are all possible results of mastery, just as enslavement is a possible result of mastery. But mastery is the cause, the fulcrum, the catalyst.

If you seek a mastered female, you are a poacher looking to gain from another's efforts.

If you seek a female eager for mastery, good luck -- it takes time to find compatibility.

Adios!

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RE: Are there any uncollared kajira on collarme.com? - 12/12/2009 8:03:24 AM

barelynangel

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Kimveri, i disagree to an extent or maybe its just the wording -- a slave is a woman who a Man has determined to master and own (as you can't have the latter without the former) - ownership is a concept within which a SLAVE of a Gorean lives. A woman can be mastered by someone and not be owned by that Man. On Gor the legalities is what allowed the ownership without the mastery in many cases of the captured slaves. I know some men can master women without even doing it deliberately -- a lot of mastery has to do a lot with who the Man in and of himself is. He has to at least acknowledge his ownership of her and choose to hold her in slavery.

Mastered is a concept that has many levels and many different degrees, which then means if a FC is mastered in any area, in any degree she is therefor, then a slave by your definition.

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RE: Are there any uncollared kajira on collarme.com? - 12/12/2009 8:42:09 AM

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Hi GL,

A girl is going to look for an experienced man, one who knows Gor well. You seem to be very new to this, both from your posting and your profile. Read the books, read the forums, watch, learn and grow. You'll know when you're ready--so will the girls.

Your profile notes you're seeking Online Romance. Note that people here, as the Section Guidelines point out, are not at all interested in online Gor. In fact, folks here are rather disdainful of it. You may simply be looking in the wrong place. If that indeed is where your interests lie, we aren't the crowd you're seeking. Second Life, Fet Life, and Alt all have online distortions of "Gor," but you will find many active people there, if that's your wish.

Here, perhaps best to look around for a while, get to know the territory. Start with the FAQ threads. Learn the people.

I hope that helps. Live well,

Tim

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RE: Are there any uncollared kajira on collarme.com? - 12/12/2009 1:55:58 PM

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{fast reply}

Tal and greetings all....

I knew there was something about the OP that was sitting in the back of my mind. It took until I got up today to realize what it was. Some apologies to the OP but:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N9qYF9DZPdw

There are times when I can't resist especially since many other people are posting such links. <grins>

I could have told him I know a Gorean's slave who lives in the same town he does, but then I would have to tell him that I won't tell him who she is. <evil grin> He will just have to come out from behind his computer and meet her along with the rest of us at one of our meal meetings.

Be well all....

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RE: Are there any uncollared kajira on collarme.com? - 12/12/2009 2:03:13 PM

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Hello everyone,

Malkinius, that video isn't available to view to Australians (something about copyright restrictions). What was it?.

I wish you well.

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