Maahsatti
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A slave's first function is to be pleasing, not to be heard. No matter how valid a point may be that she has to present, if she presents it in a way that is displeasing to the Free, she loses sight completely of what her primary function and goal is. Being right doesn't make one please, quite the opposite in many cases even... On the other hand, I've found that if a girl takes the effort to find the right way, and the right time to present her points, she will rarely if ever be chastised by the Free for doing so. Goreans tend to value intelligence in everybody, including slaves, which means they often enjoy conversing with a slave... as long as that slave manages to not lose sight of her primary purpose. Greetings, I feel this has been expressed spot on and is exactly what I was trying to get across. twink also did an excellent job at explaining to you the difference between joining in a conversation constructively with respectful constructive comments over popping off your opinions and feelings, despite whether given permission or even asked to provide your views,etc. I had said to you that the Free does not want a mindless git to serve them and indeed do enjoy an intelligent out going slave. I have also seen many Free, specially FM, take great delight in slaves who are saucy and spirited, so to speak. However, none that I am aware of will tolerate any slave coming forth and in a sense...wagging their finger at them in some sort of chastisement, and that is what you came dangerously close to doing. When I told you that as a slave I had always kept my mouth shut unless given permission to do otherwise, I did so out of respect...most times out of respect for those individual Free, BUT there were times that I could not stand a particular Free but shown the same behavior out of respect for Gorean standard and protocol and more importantly, out of respect for who and what I was and my station.However, when I was given permission to speak my mind on a particular subject, be sure I did just that and without any sugar coating, but I always remained within my boundaries while doing so. A slave need not respect a particular Free, but she does need to show respect regardless. When she does anything less, she only hurts herself and betrays her own nature.Possibly even making herself appear to be a liar. When we claim to be someone who lives by certain philosophies,values,morals, standards, etc etc.then we need do so no matter where we are...online or offline anywhere and everywhere we may go in our life. To me it is that simple. serve and be well, Mistress Maahsatti
< Message edited by Maahsatti -- 12/16/2009 11:57:21 PM >
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Gorean women, whether slave or Free,know, that their simple presence, brings joy to men,and I cannot think but that this pleases them. Outlaw of Gor, pg 54
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