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What do you do? - 3/17/2006 10:31:07 AM

barelynangel

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Okay, this is sort of a learning/teaching/knowledge post. Learning things to please the Man.

Each Man is different in his enjoyments. As slaves we usually find ourselves learning new things to please the Man we want to be with i.e. learning to dance, types of such, different things about sex and sexuality, learning to cook, learning an artform he enjoys, learning to debate, learning to discuss things, obtaining knowledge over things etc etc. I mean this list is never ending. However, some of this is not easily learned on your own or by trial and error (thinks of inadvertantly poisoning your Master with your trial and error cooking) lol. So its sort of a three-fold question,

What have you had to, want to, or are trying to learn in regards to things your Master/or would be Master enjoys or you think would enjoy if you learned it?

What do you as a slave do to learn things you think or know a Master may enjoy or you know your Master enjoys and you do not know and need to learn( i.e. join classes, a group, get books etc etc)?

Is this stuff usually built into your routine to learn this, is it part of prioritizing among your daily routine or is it borrowed time so to speak, only if your other duties are done type of idea?

For the Men?

What are usually some things you have had your slave learn (like interests such as dancing (types), cooking, etc etc etc) or know you will want your slave to learn when you collar one that you wish her to learn to do well for your pleasure?

How do/will you help her obtain this knowledge for your pleasure, do you/will you send her to classes, groups, books etc etc etc). Do you build in time for her to do this, prioritize it, or make it part of her spare time activities for her to decide?

i don't remember if this was a thread on here before, honestly i can't remember, so i thought i would throw it out there. As i tried to imply in my post this is for unowned as well as owned women and slave possessing and non-slave possess (but want to) Master.

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RE: What do you do? - 3/17/2006 10:32:20 AM

Lordandmaster

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I think the latest acquired skill is going to be sushi-making.

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RE: What do you do? - 3/17/2006 10:54:33 AM

RavenMuse

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I've had a love affair that started when I was five years old and I enjoy a girl sharing in it.

There is a special thrill about capturing an image, taking a moment of time and freezing it forever. Even if I can't light the same passion for photography in her that burns in me she is definatly going to get used to being the subject of that passion.

The best way to learn is to be given a camera and be out in the company of someone who loves photography. Given I've finaly switched from film to digital, there is also the instant gratification upon getting hope of going through the entire shoot, Improving the shots, cropping them, colour balancing them, correcting for errors in light and framing. Learning how to take the shot better in the first place.

OK OK, I'll stop geeking about it now

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RE: What do you do? - 3/17/2006 11:09:02 AM

BrianSenior

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What are usually some things you have had your slave learn (like interests such as dancing (types), cooking, etc etc etc) or know you will want your slave to learn when you collar one that you wish her to learn to do well for your pleasure?

I am an excelent cook, My Father was a Cook, and most of My family have worked in Restaraunts. I love to teach, it is a favorite way of passing time for Me. I combine them and teach My girl how to cook. It also gives quality time for just her and I as well as showing her she can do things she felt she could not. Releaing her on her own in the kitchen gives her a sense of self ability and I not far if she has a question, which will re-affairm in a small way that I am here for her if needed.

There are some topics I like to discuss and speak of openly with the one that is Mine. I will look it up on the net, newspaper, CNN even. I have her review it and then we can speak of it and see how we see everything, the differences on what I took from the book compared to what she comprehended and why. A little more in to her way of thinking.

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RE: What do you do? - 3/17/2006 1:04:23 PM

Jaxiam

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Personal growth is one of the most important aspects of daily life for me. And because of that, I encourage the same growth within my slave. present and past.

As to which directions? I have often thought about cooking classes, dance classes, massage classes - and in truth have enrolled girls in all 3 at given times. However, my main interest has always been the discovering of hidden talents and encouraging their maturation.

Be it writing, painting, mastering chess (which I love), riding, scuba-diving, tap dance, playing a musical instrument, or even programming computer code. Encouraging her to advance herself, gain faith and love in her own skills is a reward that falls back upon me a thousand fold. Not only do I gain the beauty of her crafts, I get the beauty of her happiness and pleasure in accomplishment. Thus in joy am I served better.

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