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RE: The need to protect - 3/20/2006 8:30:50 PM

Sensualips

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Okay, see, I am an email geek. I email all the time and there are people I trade many emails a day with. That works for me and it makes me feel connected. I think I like it because it is on my timetable.

It is true it is the sense of obligation that gets me, I guess.

I get irritated with frequent phone calls though, from family or friends or whoever. I only really like to talk on the phone during my commute or maybe later in the evening when the short people are in bed. Even then it may be an intrusion though, because I have to watch dvr-ed episodes of Buffy.

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RE: The need to protect - 3/20/2006 8:35:32 PM

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Even then it may be an intrusion though, because I have to watch dvr-ed episodes of Buffy.

Heehee. I noted to my local partner last night that it's a wonder people still call me on Sunday night after my mom, my Boston partner and my boyfriend had all called and left messages- I NEVER take calls on Sundays unless it's been specifically scheduled. Monday is my phone call night.

I like schedules, and my people know it. Everyone who called didn't really expect me to answer, they were just hoping, had a few extra minutes and figured they would take a chance. I called them all back today and we had good conversations. They knew I was safe and happy and that's what matters for us.

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RE: The need to protect - 3/20/2006 8:52:17 PM

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Im more then capable of defending myself, but sometimes when I stop and look back I realized you cant protect yourself from your own stupidity. I think ones own stupidiy is the real daner. Cant count the number of time my stupidity landed me in hot water.

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RE: The need to protect - 3/20/2006 10:00:19 PM

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As a slave, I need to say that I am totally able to stand up for myself and protect myself. I do not need my Master to be my protector. He has taught me to be able to take care of myself and to stand up for my needs. He has given me the backbone to do this, however, I know that if I need a nudge, he will give it to me. He would not have me be mousey or whimpy, that is not what being a slave means to either of us. Unforturnatly, I think that it does mean that to some. You know, if he wanted a doormat, he would go to WalMart and buy one.

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RE: The need to protect - 3/21/2006 9:50:29 AM

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It is in My nature to lead, to protect those around Me. In a place seeing some one being treated wrongly, I have to step up, whether I know them or not. In My home or in My setting any one around being collared or not, I look after. Not saying they are weak and can't defend themselves, but, again it is part of Me. When I am with some one who has difficulties standing up for themselves, be it from self securities, low self esteem, I work with them on it bringing thier self awareness up, filling thier insecurites, with security of thier own. This is what I do, what I enoy doing. ~BK~

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