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RE: On cowering behind little girls to escape consequen... - 1/7/2010 8:12:34 PM   
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May I ask, why is he still lauded as a hero? How is that justified?

I've been thinking lately about how hard it must be to be a man...in terms of society's generalization. To solve, to help, to fix, to protect, to fight...

Of course not all men feel it in the same way, but socialization seems to condition certain expectations, just as it does for women, and I've been thinking about the differences.

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RE: On cowering behind little girls to escape consequen... - 1/8/2010 3:20:34 AM   
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May I ask, why is he still lauded as a hero? How is that justified?


Because in Scandinavia right now there is boiling up an extreme hatred of Muslims and anyone who throw a punch at Islam is seen as a hero. It get so bad that if you on a message board say that hey, not all Muslims are violent then you gen 30 replies back that you are a fucking Muslim lover or a traitor and so on. Give a foul taste in the mouth those words? Remind you of to many other groups where such words have been used on those that do not show hate? It sure give a bad taste in my mouth.

Actually it is so bad that when the recent escalation of the war on the Gaza strip happened the Norwegian government had to work hard to get a family with Norwegian citizenship who had immigrated from there back to Norway as they where in their homeland on a visit when all hell broke loose. Allot of pepole went nuts demanding the family should just be left down there, and when they finally got the family out it turned out that the child in the family, an 8 year old boy had been wounded in the bombing. People demanded he just be left to die as he was no good since he was a Muslim. An 8 year old child! A doctor who worked down there helping victims of Israeli bombing was called a traitor by many in forums and commentator fields because he would try to save the lives of Palestini women and children.

Muslims get excluded from jobs, get insulted on the street, their homes vandalized. People have gone mad. They think every Muslim is out to get the west, that every Muslim want to shoot pepole. And it would not matter if someone was the biggest piece of shit on the planet, if he or she went out against Muslims they would be hailed as heroes.

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RE: On cowering behind little girls to escape consequen... - 1/8/2010 2:37:24 PM   
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Greetings Nephandi....

Which is worse? Insulting and discriminating against a religious group because of the activities of some members of their religion acting in the name of their religion or people who are discriminating against other groups, insulting them and actively killing and trying to kill people both in and outside of your own religion in the name of your religion and God?

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RE: On cowering behind little girls to escape consequen... - 1/8/2010 5:52:26 PM   
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This is why I am a bit circumspect about all this; fanaticism and triumphalism feeds on itself.

The actions of a relatively small number of fanatical Muslims has inflamed the West, to where you hear the reciprocal rage and fear expressed in Christianist sentiments. The proper reaction to the extremes is not a mirror image of extremity, but a moderate reasoned detachment.

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RE: On cowering behind little girls to escape consequen... - 1/8/2010 7:05:36 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: nephandi

Greetings

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just a thought. If he had not gotten to the safe room and notified authorities, instead staying and facing the attacker, what would have happened to the little girl when he was killed?


If the attacker wished to harm the girl, which scenario do you think would give her the best possible chance, her grandfather defending her or her alone against a grown man with an axe?

I wish you well



He was there to attack the man. i have no clue where the daughter was in junction to where the men were, what the attacker knew, how far the police were away, ect ect ect. many are assuming alot of things not in evidence.

74 year old vs a 28 year old... hmm... not good odds there.

anyways, just my opinion, and we know how much that is worth

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RE: On cowering behind little girls to escape consequen... - 1/8/2010 9:05:41 PM   
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It seems to me this is a slam dunk. It seems to me men aren't what they once were. It seems to me equivocation and rationalization define character. It seems to me if you're going to stop and consider all the political ramifications and history then you're both dead , literally or soulfully. It seems to me if you have it within you it will come out and no further discussion is necessary.

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RE: On cowering behind little girls to escape consequen... - 1/8/2010 9:50:49 PM   
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Greetings

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Which is worse? Insulting and discriminating against a religious group because of the activities of some members of their religion acting in the name of their religion or people who are discriminating against other groups, insulting them and actively killing and trying to kill people both in and outside of your own religion in the name of your religion and God?


Well to my mind killing and violence is worse then insults. But both are rather bad in my opinion, one of them are something a person should be saluted for.

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RE: On cowering behind little girls to escape consequen... - 1/8/2010 9:56:47 PM   
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Greetings

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The actions of a relatively small number of fanatical Muslims has inflamed the West, to where you hear the reciprocal rage and fear expressed in Christianist sentiments. The proper reaction to the extremes is not a mirror image of extremity, but a moderate reasoned detachment.


I agree completely. And besides hate have a tendency to feed hate. Many in the West hate all Muslims because what a small number of Muslims do, which causes more Muslims to hate the West as they get bullied which lead to more pepole in the West hating Muslims which lead to...and so on in an ever darker spiral.

The point is that there are Muslims who would gladly convert or kill every man, woman and child in the West, who solve everything with weapons and are complete fanatics. But most Muslims are kind and decent pepole who live their lives like everyone else and harms no one, it is just that those are not the ones media hears about. All the Muslims I know are nice pepole and never have one of them tried to convert me.

I wish you well


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RE: On cowering behind little girls to escape consequen... - 1/8/2010 10:03:38 PM   
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Greetings

How far the police is is not possible to guess unless one is psychic. Sometimes they responds quickly like in this case, sometimes they take 20 minutes or longer to respond to calls. Every now and then pepole with such panic buttons are murdered, and the emergency lines have to sit and listen to them die as they wait for the police to come. There is not enough police in Norway to fulfill the need. And that have gotten even worse no that the chief of Police is a dim witted twit. Now I do not usually say such things about pepole not here to defend them self but seriously, she got the job since the equality department felt there was to few women in the top leadership positions and she have made so many mistakes it is a wonder she have kept her position. And to be honest she is hurting women's chances as leaders as she is exactly the archetype of a bad female leader. But I am getting off track, I am sorry.

I wish you well


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RE: On cowering behind little girls to escape consequen... - 1/12/2010 6:14:05 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: AnimusRex

The proper reaction to the extremes is not a mirror image of extremity, but a moderate reasoned detachment.


The proper reaction is also about as rare as ice in the desert...

Currently, I would not be surprised to see a modern version of the NSDAP get seats in parliament here.

Health,
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RE: On cowering behind little girls to escape consequen... - 1/19/2010 8:18:00 AM   
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I disagree. If you are literally being chased by a man, say 10 steps away who is armed, and you are unarmed, putting a door between you and them would be your best option. If the man continued to bang at the door, there is no way the kid could be in danger, therefore you are doing the right thing by keeping the guy focused on you. Then, if he pushed the panic button and cops arrive within 2 minutes while the assailant was fixated on him, that all seems reasonable. This scenario falls within what was stated. If you would like to dispute the motives of the artist and your perception of him trying to save only himself at all cost, I'm afraid you would have to gather more actual evidence. Obviously, judging by the outcome, he did the right thing. Would you prefer the story to read, man is hacked to death while trying to retrieve child who was not the subject of the attack and was in the next room? Would that save the man's honor? So, again, there is no evidence from those articles to suggest that he did anything inappropriate or left an unarmed child alone with an axe murderer. It may be the case, and if so, that is a bad thing, but again, just because something can be the case is no reason to malign the guy.

Also, if you think a unarmed "grown man" should not run when a man attacks with a knife and ax, then you have been watching way too many action movies.




I am in agreement with this rationale.

For further consideration, read the book "Blink" - it talks about the Amadou Dialo case in NYC several years back, where 4 officers arrived to find a suspicious man standing on a stoop, approached him shouting for him to freeze and show ID and as he reached into his pocket, they opened fire

The myriad questions that could have been asked about the incident were not in the press because they (of necessity) look for the publishable answers to anything that might be considered - and, often that has a deadline of the next morning... so, there are no in-depth investigations to start - and, 'people are people'

In this instance, we do not know the actual physicality of the actions except that given in a two dimensional expose which is attempting to give answers in the face of a deadline

"What is a man?"

A man is a person who can live with all the actions of his life, good and bad, without self recrimination and with an understanding that they have made mistakes - and, sought amends

If we pre-suppose to judge this man beyond that judgment which is coming to him from himself, his family and his deity, then we are making a mistake of equal proportion(although perhaps not magnitude).

The basic premise of this questioning is that "we are without sin" and would not make this mistake.

It presupposes a different result should the OP'r and those he would wish to make inclusive into this personal supposition of moral superiority be the one being chased

I rather doubt that premise is justified and/or proper.

Although I realize that there is some inherent need in Gor to define one's personal 'manhood'; if anyone wants personal validation of their manhood based on such a report and the happening that surrounds it under the assumption that they would have reacted *not behaved, but reacted* differently, this is definitively not the situation to do it.

"Manhood", as it is attempted to be defined in this short group of postings, is not determined by happenstance, but upon an entire life.

Sometimes that life is defined in one short happening - but, we cannot tell that from what is cited here.

~J



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RE: On cowering behind little girls to escape consequen... - 1/20/2010 8:13:12 PM   
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Yes, he was an ass to have the girl in his home if he seriously believe that the ax man might cometh.

But unless we know what was in the heart and mind of the one being pursued by the assassin at the moment, all judgements centered around his ethical decision at the time of attack are moot. There are too many variables, and too many possibilities to "what if" the possible outcomes into determinations of right and wrong.

In fact, the only fact that one can use for judgement is the fact that the girl was not injured. In my book, competence and a positive outcome goes a long way towards being "right".

Now leave the girl home with her parents.







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