RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman

Join Our Community

Collarchat.com

Home Login Search

RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman

View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Master >> RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman

Page: << < prev 2 3 [4] 5 6 next > >>

Message

<< Older Topic Newer Topic >>

RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/11/2010 8:42:11 PM

osf

Posts: 3288
Joined: 10/19/2009
Status: offline

some women like to be kept in cages, and given no rights

_____________________________

all around nice guy and creative misogynist

i'm not very skilled so i just hit harder

i want a woman to make into the woman she never wanted to become

(in reply to osf)

Profile

Post #: 61

RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/11/2010 8:43:27 PM

osf

Posts: 3288
Joined: 10/19/2009
Status: offline

i just had one that wanted more than i was willing lol

_____________________________

all around nice guy and creative misogynist

i'm not very skilled so i just hit harder

i want a woman to make into the woman she never wanted to become

(in reply to osf)

Profile

Post #: 62

RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/11/2010 8:44:30 PM

osf

Posts: 3288
Joined: 10/19/2009
Status: offline

some like to be kept like animals

_____________________________

all around nice guy and creative misogynist

i'm not very skilled so i just hit harder

i want a woman to make into the woman she never wanted to become

(in reply to osf)

Profile

Post #: 63

RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/11/2010 8:45:59 PM

subtee

Posts: 5133
Joined: 7/26/2007
Status: offline

You know, you had a HUGE supporter who ripped me a new one, just about this topic you've brought up. She was on the other side. You didn't say anything to defend my position that not all submissives are "high maintenance."

Man.

_____________________________

Don't believe everything you think...

(in reply to osf)

Profile

Post #: 64

RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/11/2010 8:46:55 PM

osf

Posts: 3288
Joined: 10/19/2009
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: subtee

You know, you had a HUGE supporter who ripped me a new one, just about this topic you've brought up. She was on the other side. You didn't say anything to defend my position that not all submissives are "high maintenance."

Man.

i dont understand

_____________________________

all around nice guy and creative misogynist

i'm not very skilled so i just hit harder

i want a woman to make into the woman she never wanted to become

(in reply to subtee)

Profile

Post #: 65

RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/11/2010 8:47:55 PM

subtee

Posts: 5133
Joined: 7/26/2007
Status: offline

Yep. That's okay.

_____________________________

Don't believe everything you think...

(in reply to osf)

Profile

Post #: 66

RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/11/2010 8:48:09 PM

sexyred1

Posts: 8998
Joined: 8/9/2007
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: osf

quote:

ORIGINAL: sexyred1

quote:

ORIGINAL: osf

knowing how high maintenance a submissive is, why would any man prefer one to the average woman?

You MUST, MUST be kidding us with these questions. How bored are you on that farm? Why don't you ask something similar on match.com?

in a perverse way i feel sorry for you

LOL YOU feel sorry for ME? Whatever drugs you are taking, please let us know. I actually have had and have real life relationships, osf, I don't fantasize about ones I wish I was having. I don't have to question every permutation of D/s and I don't fucking complain all fucking day about women not wanting me.

But carry on, you are either amusing or pathetic, depending on the thread/day.

(in reply to osf)

Profile

Post #: 67

RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/11/2010 8:48:46 PM

WinsomeDefiance

Posts: 6719
Joined: 8/7/2007
Status: offline

Ok, so you want an animal, that you can cage, beat, fuck, order about, have no romantic emotional tie to, who will obey you without question; and you want all this as a non-negotiated relationship?

There are those who seek this extreme of a relationship, but you still have to work your way through the negotiation aspects to find it. As far as I know, there aren't any temp agencies that you can call up and have one sent directly over to you.

< Message edited by WinsomeDefiance -- 1/11/2010 8:49:20 PM >

(in reply to osf)

Profile

Post #: 68

RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/11/2010 8:50:28 PM

osf

Posts: 3288
Joined: 10/19/2009
Status: offline

i'm complaining?

women are not that hard to get, believe me

theres half the earths population with cunts, im sure i could get one if i was desperate for anything

_____________________________

all around nice guy and creative misogynist

i'm not very skilled so i just hit harder

i want a woman to make into the woman she never wanted to become

(in reply to sexyred1)

Profile

Post #: 69

RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/11/2010 8:51:25 PM

KatyLied

Posts: 13029
Joined: 2/24/2005
From: Pennsylvania
Status: offline

quote:

some women like to be kept in cages, and given no rights

Are you able to move beyond the fantasy of this and figure out how it would actually work in real life? Kept in a cage 24/7, with no rights? Seriously.

_____________________________

“If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal, not to people or things.”
- Albert Einstein

(in reply to osf)

Profile

Post #: 70

RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/11/2010 8:52:29 PM

WyldHrt

Posts: 6412
Joined: 6/5/2008
Status: offline

quote:

i just had one that wanted more than i was willing lol

*psst* If "she" was willing to relocate to you, sight unseen, live in a cage, and all that other stuff.... ummmm, you know what an internet scammer is, right?

_____________________________

"MotherFUCKER!" is NOT a safeword!!"- Steel
"We've had complaints about 'orgy noises'. This is not the neighborhood for that kind of thing"- PVE Cop

Resident "Hypnotic Eyes", "Cleavage" and "Toy Whore"
Subby Mafia, VAA Posse & Team Troll!

(in reply to osf)

Profile

Post #: 71

RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/11/2010 8:54:16 PM

osf

Posts: 3288
Joined: 10/19/2009
Status: offline

i dont believe this

for an adult bdsm site you people dont know half of what goes on out there

lololol

fuck man lololol

_____________________________

all around nice guy and creative misogynist

i'm not very skilled so i just hit harder

i want a woman to make into the woman she never wanted to become

(in reply to KatyLied)

Profile

Post #: 72

RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/11/2010 8:54:24 PM

WyldHrt

Posts: 6412
Joined: 6/5/2008
Status: offline

quote:

theres half the earths population with cunts, im sure i could get one if i was desperate for anything

I wouldn't bet on it if I were you.

_____________________________

"MotherFUCKER!" is NOT a safeword!!"- Steel
"We've had complaints about 'orgy noises'. This is not the neighborhood for that kind of thing"- PVE Cop

Resident "Hypnotic Eyes", "Cleavage" and "Toy Whore"
Subby Mafia, VAA Posse & Team Troll!

(in reply to osf)

Profile

Post #: 73

RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/11/2010 8:56:26 PM

osf

Posts: 3288
Joined: 10/19/2009
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

quote:

theres half the earths population with cunts, im sure i could get one if i was desperate for anything

I wouldn't bet on it if I were you.

your right slightly more thjan half have cunts, for real

_____________________________

all around nice guy and creative misogynist

i'm not very skilled so i just hit harder

i want a woman to make into the woman she never wanted to become

(in reply to WyldHrt)

Profile

Post #: 74

RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/11/2010 8:58:00 PM

WyldHrt

Posts: 6412
Joined: 6/5/2008
Status: offline

That doesn't mean that they will want anything to do with you, for real.

_____________________________

"MotherFUCKER!" is NOT a safeword!!"- Steel
"We've had complaints about 'orgy noises'. This is not the neighborhood for that kind of thing"- PVE Cop

Resident "Hypnotic Eyes", "Cleavage" and "Toy Whore"
Subby Mafia, VAA Posse & Team Troll!

(in reply to osf)

Profile

Post #: 75

RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/11/2010 8:59:25 PM

osf

Posts: 3288
Joined: 10/19/2009
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

That doesn't mean that they will want anything to do with you, for real.

i know, thats wishful thinking on your part

_____________________________

all around nice guy and creative misogynist

i'm not very skilled so i just hit harder

i want a woman to make into the woman she never wanted to become

(in reply to WyldHrt)

Profile

Post #: 76

RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/11/2010 9:00:01 PM

InvisibleBlack

Posts: 865
Joined: 7/24/2009
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

Ok, so you want an animal, that you can cage, beat, fuck, order about, have no romantic emotional tie to, who will obey you without question; and you want all this as a non-negotiated relationship?

No... I think he's saying that keeping a woman in that circumstance - in a cage, fed like an animal, locked in your dungeon, etc. etc. is extremely high maintenance ... and he's right. Think about it - you've got to shell out to build your dungeon, get one of those uber-big cages you can lock people in, clean it and the sub, feed the sub - it's real work. And it's time-consuming. And it's expensive.

If the relationship is "non-negotiated" it's even more work. Kidnapping someone and holding them against their will is even more expensive and time consuming. Not to mention Clarice Starling and the FBI knocking on your door and asking awkward questions.

If that's his thesis, he's right - a vanilla relationship would be less work and effort for the Dom.

It's just that seems so self-evident I don't know why it needs to even be stated.

_____________________________

Consider the daffodil. And while you're doing that, I'll be over here, looking through your stuff.

(in reply to WinsomeDefiance)

Profile

Post #: 77

RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/11/2010 9:00:39 PM

osf

Posts: 3288
Joined: 10/19/2009
Status: offline

did you people ever think i do what i do because it works?

and not because i want to join your club?

and you all play a part

< Message edited by osf -- 1/11/2010 9:02:03 PM >

_____________________________

all around nice guy and creative misogynist

i'm not very skilled so i just hit harder

i want a woman to make into the woman she never wanted to become

(in reply to osf)

Profile

Post #: 78

RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/11/2010 9:05:17 PM

WinsomeDefiance

Posts: 6719
Joined: 8/7/2007
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: InvisibleBlack

quote:

ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

Ok, so you want an animal, that you can cage, beat, fuck, order about, have no romantic emotional tie to, who will obey you without question; and you want all this as a non-negotiated relationship?

No... I think he's saying that keeping a woman in that circumstance - in a cage, fed like an animal, locked in your dungeon, etc. etc. is extremely high maintenance ... and he's right. Think about it - you've got to shell out to build your dungeon, get one of those uber-big cages you can lock people in, clean it and the sub, feed the sub - it's real work. And it's time-consuming. And it's expensive.

If the relationship is "non-negotiated" it's even more work. Kidnapping someone and holding them against their will is even more expensive and time consuming. Not to mention Clarice Starling and the FBI knocking on your door and asking awkward questions.

If that's his thesis, he's right - a vanilla relationship would be less work and effort for the Dom.

It's just that seems so self-evident I don't know why it needs to even be stated.

All he has to do is hose the bitch down, and toss her his sloppy leftovers. Lazy bazturd. As long as it puts the lotion on its skin, like its told - he's golden!

(in reply to InvisibleBlack)

Profile

Post #: 79

RE: why does he want a submissive over a nilla woman - 1/11/2010 9:07:33 PM

InvisibleBlack

Posts: 865
Joined: 7/24/2009
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

quote:

ORIGINAL: InvisibleBlack

quote:

ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

Ok, so you want an animal, that you can cage, beat, fuck, order about, have no romantic emotional tie to, who will obey you without question; and you want all this as a non-negotiated relationship?

No... I think he's saying that keeping a woman in that circumstance - in a cage, fed like an animal, locked in your dungeon, etc. etc. is extremely high maintenance ... and he's right. Think about it - you've got to shell out to build your dungeon, get one of those uber-big cages you can lock people in, clean it and the sub, feed the sub - it's real work. And it's time-consuming. And it's expensive.

If the relationship is "non-negotiated" it's even more work. Kidnapping someone and holding them against their will is even more expensive and time consuming. Not to mention Clarice Starling and the FBI knocking on your door and asking awkward questions.

If that's his thesis, he's right - a vanilla relationship would be less work and effort for the Dom.

It's just that seems so self-evident I don't know why it needs to even be stated.

All he has to do is hose the bitch down, and toss her his sloppy leftovers. Lazy bazturd. As long as it puts the lotion on its skin, like its told - he's golden!

You make it sound so easy! That lotion is expensive, dammit!

_____________________________

Consider the daffodil. And while you're doing that, I'll be over here, looking through your stuff.

(in reply to WinsomeDefiance)

Profile

Post #: 80