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RE: What makes you a gorean? - 1/28/2010 3:53:36 AM   
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To Camerius,

To answer your questions to:
1) What did these answers really prove to you in the end?

2) Did you really understand, nay, grasp, what has been told to you and if so did you come off as being any clearer?

What I grasped is that there are a lot of zealots within the gorean community which proves to me that religion isn't the only opiate of the masses.  Although I have nothing but deep respect for people that are willing to live and die for their word and their own beliefs, I couldn't care less about the people who foolishly put their lives for the belief of some doctrine.  Like the ji had, which is funny since most people in the middle east think its the crusades all over again.  That's what most of you seem to be worried about whether to call the war a ji had or the crusades yet nobody even bothers to realize what the war is really about so in the end it's just another pointless battle.

And I also have another question for you in regards to your answer from my last question.

So I want to ask this to ElizabethAnne, Camerius and Musicmystery, if they would sacrifice their own lives to protect a Home Stone if I put a gun to your heads and threaten take it from you and I don't mean this in the context of the story as if you were actually living on Gor, I mean in your real life where you're living now (I know some people actually do have homestones).


Answering for myself alone, yes, I would protect my own Home Stone with my very life, as well as the Home Stone of my community.


Would  it be in my right as a free man to take your daughter as a pleasure slave (in real life of course), keep in mind that I'm not asking if you would protect your daughter because I'm sure that you will.



From your answers that you gave I have some for myself;

1) They didn't prove anything to you in the end.

2) You didn't understand, much less grasp, what you have been told and came away from here much less clearer in the end.


I think this is a good time for me to take part and let this "conversation" be.


I wish you well,

  Camerius


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RE: What makes you a gorean? - 1/28/2010 5:11:37 AM   
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Would it be in my right as a free man to take your daughter as a pleasure slave (in real life of course), keep in mind that I'm not asking if you would protect your daughter because I'm sure that you will.


Actually this comment or should i say question -- shows how little you understand and is a huge misconception among many. First of all it isn't YOUR RIGHT to TAKE someone as a slave. THere is no LEGAL aspect which GIVES You automatic rights over another. Even in the books i don't believe random strangers had RIGHTS due to their dick and free status to take someone's daughter. Statements like yours you find in chatrooms and roleplaying rooms and why a lot of misconceptions exist with regard to a lot of things Gorean. I highly doubt ANY MALE Gorean would feel all that PLEASED to see their daughter become a slave. However, most Goreans i know also understand that if their daughter can be mastered and enslaved by a Man who then determines her to be a slave to him, that she will be a slave. They may not like the idea due to i am sure they would rather their daughters remain free but they also understnd that some women thrive as a slave. And yes, i could actually see Goreans attempting to protect their daughters from becoming a slave or rather teaching them to be FW rather than slaves.

Your idea to even question that it could REMOTELY BE YOUR RIGHT or that it was so in the books is amazingly naive. IF you are capable of mastering a woman and claiming her as a slave, THEN you will have a slave in our actuality -- MOST Goreans get this. There are NO RIGHTS involved in our reality because there are no slave legalties because you decide you are some concept of Man wherein you have RIGHTS to own someone rather than the ability to do so.

Seriously reading the books does wonder to answer all the questions.

I find it ironic on this thread that the OP THANKS those people who aren't Gorean and don't claim or identify as Gorean and then sits there and argues with ones who actually DO identify as Gorean. I can see how its easier to agree with those who don't claim or identify as Gorean because those people don't LIVE as Gorean, but its kind of sad when people who do LIVE as Gorean comment to you, you get defensive and ridiculous in your comments such as the one i quoted among others.

You may want to listen to those who actually IDENTIFY as Gorean more so than listen to those who don't but i am sure its easier to listen to those who don't.

angel



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RE: What makes you a gorean? - 1/28/2010 5:12:55 AM   
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I disagree that Port Kar wasn't a city prior to having a Home Stone.  They just didn't have that sense of patriotism/ownership that allows people to stand up to overwhelming odds and fight for something.




What a response from a slave, and this even more from a Gorean bondsmaid....


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RE: What makes you a gorean? - 1/28/2010 5:15:42 AM   
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quote:

"Even after it's explicitly explained. Even with quoted examples. Whatever. If you're determined to be an asshole, so be it."

Seems there is evidence of a "Gorean" about.

I would still like to see where the books support the idea that people from other cities respect each other's homestones.


Nice example of ignoring the context. Kid raises question. Gets answer. Says doesn't understand. Gets explanation. Ignores explanation and specific quoted examples. What would you call it? Certainly not an honest quest.

Norman [Tarl] notes that Goreans on the whole respect each other. I'm also thinking of places where travelers warn they are carrying a Home Stone, a warning that immediately garnishes respect as others leave them be. One of the sluts with ebooks can pull quotes.

You (and a few others) insist on seeing Home Stone as a rock. It's a concept. It's the connection among peoples. Why would fiercely independent people form communities, castes, cities, and remain allegiant? Why is non-politically correct Norman such an environmentalist, for that matter, stressing the purity of the Gorean world? It's the strong sense of connection, that part of human nature and instinct that draws patterns, seeks grouping, acts communally, even in primitive environments. Without that sense, these communities and connection don't exist. Caste and Code would be pointless. Honor and value with have nothing to honor or value. It's entirely Home Stone at its root. It's Gor. It's the order of Gorean nature. While we settle in a place, and that place is important, it's far, far more than that place. After all, Goreans can and do move, retaining their Home Stone. It is what connects us. It is what makes us defend that connection. It, like the Codes "that separate us from the animals," is what makes us human.

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RE: What makes you a gorean? - 1/28/2010 5:28:20 AM   
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[I don't think that's a fair assumption, I personally believe that a symbol is nothing more than a symbol unless specifically imbued with power, such as a communion wafer after a blessing. A flag is a flag, it is not the country.
I'd be much more upset at someone figuratively pissing on the Constitution than somebody literally pissing on the flag. ]


So you think that a communion wafer that a Holy Figure has said a few words over is different then a Flag that people have shed blood for? You think that the men that looked up at the flag as it was raised on the top of Iwo Jima or the people that looked at the flag that was placed over what was left of the buildings in NYC after 911 is not meaningful?
The people that shed their blood for over 200 years GAVE you the right to be able to say that and many forget it. It is what that flag stands for that should be what protects it from being dishonored. Many people around the world burn that piece of cloth because of what it stands for and they want it destroyed, because it stands for Freedom, Honor, and Liberty, and the day that they have their way you had better watch out because that flag will not be able to protect you and allow you to speak your ideas openly.
I am done on this subject with one last comment. Yes like I said My Home Stone may not be important to others but it is to Me and I would do the same for it as I would for that piece of cloth that some other just see as a stone or piece of cloth because of what it stands for.


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RE: What makes you a gorean? - 1/28/2010 5:54:24 AM   
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So you think that a communion wafer that a Holy Figure has said a few words over is different then a Flag that people have shed blood for? You think that the men that looked up at the flag as it was raised on the top of Iwo Jima or the people that looked at the flag that was placed over what was left of the buildings in NYC after 911 is not meaningful?


I think that the flag that was raised on the top of Iwo Jima is not the same flag as the paper flag put on cupcakes on the 4th and then tossed in the trash, or the flag bumper sticker that is rained on and covered with exhaust until it turns into a blackened mess, or the $10 flag purchased in bulk that some pseudo-activist urinates on as a cry for attention.

That flag was one that was imbued with power, albeit a secular power. The flag-printed items that were created to be disposable I don't view as sacred. Nor, obviously, did their creators, or their consumers.

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The people that shed their blood for over 200 years GAVE you the right to be able to say that and many forget it. It is what that flag stands for that should be what protects it from being dishonored. Many people around the world burn that piece of cloth because of what it stands for and they want it destroyed, because it stands for Freedom, Honor, and Liberty, and the day that they have their way you had better watch out because that flag will not be able to protect you and allow you to speak your ideas openly.


Oftentimes when US citizens burn the flag, they aren't protesting any of those ideals. They are protesting the lack of them. Burning a flag has many meanings, and the one that appears most common is using the burning as a symbolic demonstration that they feel a current government policy is eviscerating the ideals this nation is supposed to stand for.

When I said what I said I was thinking in terms of US citizens protesting by desecrating the flag. If we're talking about citizens of another country, I view it as a demonstration of hostility, and if done by a person in power, it would be a valid reason to declare war, IMO, but I wouldn't necessarily think that going to war was the best idea.

But as far as US citizens burning the flag goes, which I think is an entirely different matter from urinating on it, I think it depends on context. If, for example, the government was wiretapping private citizens and passing laws authorizing itself to arrest citizens without providing a reasonably quick trial for criticizing the actions of the government...IMO that government's actions have already figuratively singed the flag. And I would think worse of the person who thought nothing of that, than I would of the person who cremated a flag in a public demonstration of mourning for American values.

Because that is how you're supposed to dispose of a flag - burning. Burning isn't always a show of desecration, especially when used as part of a moving, well thought out public demonstration. And if I had to choose between the two, I'd rather sacrifice a few mass-produced flags, than sacrifice a person's right to protest the government in the nonviolent manner that he or she saw fit.

However even though we disagree on the idea of burning a flag, we do agree on the reasons why we feel the way we do. You think that it is an insult to this nation to burn its flag, whereas I think it's an insult to this nation to outlaw it. And frankly, that's why politics exists. You won't find a politician who will say "I want what's worst for the country," they all want the best, but they just differ on what the best way is.

I wish you well,
Bella

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RE: What makes you a gorean? - 1/28/2010 6:04:11 AM   
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Greetings Master

..."Beware," he said, "I carry a Home Stone."
I stood back and made no move to draw my weapon. Though I was of the caste of warriors and he of peasants, and I armed and he carrying naught but a crude tool, I would not dispute his passage. One does not lightly dispute the passage of one who carries his Home Stone. ~Nomads

Respectfully,
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quote:

"Even after it's explicitly explained. Even with quoted examples. Whatever. If you're determined to be an asshole, so be it."

Seems there is evidence of a "Gorean" about.

I would still like to see where the books support the idea that people from other cities respect each other's homestones.


Nice example of ignoring the context. Kid raises question. Gets answer. Says doesn't understand. Gets explanation. Ignores explanation and specific quoted examples. What would you call it? Certainly not an honest quest.

Norman [Tarl] notes that Goreans on the whole respect each other. I'm also thinking of places where travelers warn they are carrying a Home Stone, a warning that immediately garnishes respect as others leave them be. One of the sluts with ebooks can pull quotes.

You (and a few others) insist on seeing Home Stone as a rock. It's a concept. It's the connection among peoples. Why would fiercely independent people form communities, castes, cities, and remain allegiant? Why is non-politically correct Norman such an environmentalist, for that matter, stressing the purity of the Gorean world? It's the strong sense of connection, that part of human nature and instinct that draws patterns, seeks grouping, acts communally, even in primitive environments. Without that sense, these communities and connection don't exist. Caste and Code would be pointless. Honor and value with have nothing to honor or value. It's entirely Home Stone at its root. It's Gor. It's the order of Gorean nature. While we settle in a place, and that place is important, it's far, far more than that place. After all, Goreans can and do move, retaining their Home Stone. It is what connects us. It is what makes us defend that connection. It, like the Codes "that separate us from the animals," is what makes us human.

Have fun with your rock. May you one day find concepts worth passion.



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RE: What makes you a gorean? - 1/28/2010 6:31:07 AM   
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Good morning, Master's
Good morning, Mistresses
Morning slaves, and others

Wanted to share this as I've never known a Gorean who doesn't take their Home Stone seriously. This quote say's so much.

...Perhaps the most significant difference between the man of Earth and the Gorean is that the Gorean has a Home Stone, and the man of Earth does not. It is difficult to make clear to a non-Gorean the significance of the Home Stone, for the non-Gorean has never had a Home Stone, and thus cannot understand its meaning, its reality. I think that I shall not try to make clear what is the significance to a Gorean of the Home Stone. It would be difficult to put into words; indeed, it is perhaps impossible to put into words; I shall not try. I think this is one of the saddest things about the men of Earth, that they have no Home Stone. ~Slave Girl, 9:213-214

Wishing you all most well,
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RE: What makes you a gorean? - 1/28/2010 7:27:57 AM   
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Tal Malkinius,

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On the question of Port Kar. It was a city and a Gorean one at that before it had a Home Stone. What it was not was a unified city. It had some variable number of competing Ubars over its existence. It also had, at the time of the books, the Captain's Council which actually ran the city as much or more than any Ubar. It was to the Captains that Tarl presented the Home Stone he created. He did it in the time honored Gorean way of finding a stone, marking it and declaring it a Home Stone and then having it recognized by others. The first to do so was the slave boy Fish.


I still don't see Port Kar as a Gorean city, from it not having a common purpose or value which other cities have by their Home Stone. Please note here that I'm solely talking about the view that the other regional cities have about that place. This leads me to conclude that Port Kar isn't seen AS a city in a Gorean context while it has a governing body (Council of Captains), inhabitants, various businesses and so on, it doesn't have the "soul" of the city, the Home Stone. The inhabitants doesn't see their city as one worth much in the way they behave versus how other Goreans view they own cities. Goreans sees a city or community as a living and breathing entity, it has a value and a purpose, it has a soul and a common bond and one that should be respected or revered. Port Kar didn't have any of this before the following happens;

"And what of Port Kar?" I asked.
"She has no Home Stone," said one of the men.
I smiled. It was true. Port Kar, of all the cities on Gor, was the only one that had no Home Stone. I did not know if men did not love her because she had no Home Stone, or that she had no Home Stone because men did not love her.
The officer had proposed, as clearly as one might, that the city be abandoned to the flames, and to the ravaging seamen of Cos and Tyros.
Port Kar had no Home Stone.
"How many of you think," I asked, "that Port Kar has no Home Stone?"
The men looked at one another, puzzled. All knew, of course, that she had no Home Stone.
There was silence.
Then, after a time, Tab said, "I think that she might have one."
"But," said I, "she does not yet have one."
"No," said Tab.
"I," said one of the men, "wonder what it would be like to live in a city where there was a Home Stone."
"How does a city obtain a Home Stone?" I asked.
"Men decide that she shall have one," said Tab.
"Yes," I said, "that is how it is that a city obtains a Home Stone."
The men looked at one another.
"Send the slave boy Fish before me," I said.
The men looked at one another, not understanding, but one went to fetch the boy.
I knew that none of the slaves would have fled. They would not have been able to. The alarm had come in the night, and, at night, in a Gorean household, it is common for the slaves to be confined; certainly in my house, as a wise precaution, I kept my slaves well secured; even Midice, when she had snuggled against me in the love furs, when I had finished with her, was always chained by the left ankle to the slave ring set in the bottom of my couch. Fish would have been chained in the kitchen, side by side with Vina.
The boy, white-faced, alarmed, was shoved into my presence.
"Go outside," I told him, "and find a rock, and bring it to me."
He looked at me.
"Hurry!" I said.
He turned about and ran from the room.
We waited quietly, not speaking, until he had returned. He held in his hand a sizable rock, somewhat bigger than my fist. It was a common rock, not very large, and gray and heavy, granular in texture.
I took the rock.
"A knife," I said.
I was handed a knife.
I cut in the rock the initials, in block Gorean script, of Port Kar.
Then I held out in my hand the rock.
I held it up so that the men could see.
"What have I here?" I asked.
Tab said it, and quietly, "The Home Stone of Port Kar."
"Now," said I, facing the man who had told me there was but one choice, that of flight, "shall we fly?"
He looked at the simple rock, wonderingly. "I have never had a Home Stone before," he said.
"Shall we fly?" I asked.
"Not if we have a Home Stone," he said.
I held up the rock. "Do we have a Home Stone?" I asked the men.
"I will accept it as my Home Stone," said the slave boy, Fish. None of the men laughed. The first to accept the Home Stone of Port Kar was only a boy, and a slave. But he had spoken as a Ubar.
"And I!" cried Thurnock, in his great, booming voice.
"And I!" said Clitus.
"And I!" said Tab.
"And I!" cried the men in the room. And, suddenly, the room was filled with cheers and more than a hundred weapons left their sheaths and saluted the Home Stone of Port Kar. I saw weathered seamen weep and cry out, brandishing their swords. There was joy in that room then such as I had never before seen it. And there was a belonging, and a victory, and a meaningfulness, and cries, and the clashing of weapons, and tears and, in that instant, love.


Raiders of Gor (Ballantine edition, 3'rd printing 1973) Chapter 16, p.250-251


After this is done, forst then Port Kar becomes a Gorean city. But before that? Nopes, while it was a Gorean city from it being on Gor and inhabited by Goreans, it itself didn't become a *Gorean* city until the above was done. Then it got a value, then it got a purpose.

But, I fully agree that owning a Home Stone don't make you Gorean, as we have people as well as cities that don't have or follows this practice. I however don't agree with your take on Port Kar being a Gorean city before it got a Home Stone. It might have looked like one, but it wasn't one.


I wish you well,

Camerius



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RE: What makes you a gorean? - 1/28/2010 7:32:43 AM   
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Good morning, Master's
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Wanted to share this as I've never known a Gorean who doesn't take their Home Stone seriously. This quote say's so much.

...Perhaps the most significant difference between the man of Earth and the Gorean is that the Gorean has a Home Stone, and the man of Earth does not. It is difficult to make clear to a non-Gorean the significance of the Home Stone, for the non-Gorean has never had a Home Stone, and thus cannot understand its meaning, its reality. I think that I shall not try to make clear what is the significance to a Gorean of the Home Stone. It would be difficult to put into words; indeed, it is perhaps impossible to put into words; I shall not try. I think this is one of the saddest things about the men of Earth, that they have no Home Stone. ~Slave Girl, 9:213-214

Wishing you all most well,



Yes, slut, it does, and too I agree with the following "I think this is one of the saddest things about the men of Earth, that they have no Home Stone."


It is indeed one of the saddest things.


I wish you well,

  Camerius


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RE: What makes you a gorean? - 1/28/2010 7:54:39 AM   
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Yes Master


Warmest wishes,
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Good morning, Master's
Good morning, Mistresses
Morning slaves, and others

Wanted to share this as I've never known a Gorean who doesn't take their Home Stone seriously. This quote say's so much.

...Perhaps the most significant difference between the man of Earth and the Gorean is that the Gorean has a Home Stone, and the man of Earth does not. It is difficult to make clear to a non-Gorean the significance of the Home Stone, for the non-Gorean has never had a Home Stone, and thus cannot understand its meaning, its reality. I think that I shall not try to make clear what is the significance to a Gorean of the Home Stone. It would be difficult to put into words; indeed, it is perhaps impossible to put into words; I shall not try. I think this is one of the saddest things about the men of Earth, that they have no Home Stone. ~Slave Girl, 9:213-214

Wishing you all most well,



Yes, slut, it does, and too I agree with the following "I think this is one of the saddest things about the men of Earth, that they have no Home Stone."


It is indeed one of the saddest things.


I wish you well,

Camerius



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RE: What makes you a gorean? - 1/28/2010 8:42:47 AM   
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Perhaps the most significant difference between the man of Earth and the Gorean is that the Gorean has a Home Stone, and the man of Earth does not. It is difficult to make clear to a non-Gorean the significance of the Home Stone, for the non-Gorean has never had a Home Stone, and thus cannot understand its meaning, its reality. I think that I shall not try to make clear what is the significance to a Gorean of the Home Stone. It would be difficult to put into words; indeed, it is perhaps impossible to put into words; I shall not try. I think this is one of the saddest things about the men of Earth, that they have no Home Stone. ~Slave Girl, 9:213-214[/color][/font][/color]


So as I am understanding it, the Home Stone is a symbol of the Gorean's soveriegnty, his ownership and self-determination within his sphere of influence. And nothing is so important or sacred to a Gorean as his freedom and soveriegnty.
And like any symbol such as a flag, the symbol itself takes on a talismanic importance- we all know a flag is just a piece of cloth, but we still treat it with care, avoid getting it dirty, etc.

So what was Norman saying, when he said that men of Earth don't have a Home Stone? I would hazard a guess that he was making a critique of American culture that we lacked sufficient social cohesiveness to band together under a common purpose.
He wrote the first novel in 1967, at the height of the Vietnam war, when America was being torn apart by the countercultural protests. I sense in the books a scorn for both the feminist dominated left, and the soft complacency of mainstream American culture, a longing for something more authentic, something where a life had intense purpose and meaning, always teetering on the razor edge of life and death.
I wonder what Norman thought of that brief moment after 9-11, when the entire nation had a genuine sense of unity and purpose, of both rage and loss.

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RE: What makes you a gorean? - 1/28/2010 9:00:22 AM   
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I wonder what he thought when we soon lost it? Americans have such short memories.

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RE: What makes you a gorean? - 1/28/2010 11:49:02 AM   
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Good afternoon Master

I cannot really speak for the men, but I can offer what I've read, learned, observed and thought upon. I don't believe one mans Home Stone is above another man's. 

A country, a city (most commonly a city), even a mans home. My Master's Home Stone may be different than others, but it's his and what he stands for.

I'm cannot too much elaborate on Norman saying men of earth don't have a Home Stone (Since each of you are men of earth). I imagine if I were to try to get inside his mind and pretend that we were really on the planet Gor, he might mean that men of earth (and especially if I took into account the year the first book was written during the Vietnam war) should retain their birth right, their manhood "never give up or give in, hold and stand firm at all costs what they believe in. Freedom.

It's said the Home Stone is worth more than silver or gold. One would think if a man thought upon what in his life could be worth more than silver or gold, that could become his Home Stone.

I understood the OP wanting to learn and dismiss slave positions and the like. I had a sense that he was meaning that he wasn't interested in role play aspects, I could be wrong on that, but the Home Stone is of much worth and shouldn't be dismissed.

Even though the rock is the Gorean word for Home Stone it's symbolic of something much greater. It's everything each man stands for. No two rocks are alike, but each are respected and will be fought for.

It would be interesting to see 9-11 written into a future book to get a peek at that answer, Master.

To me, the Home Stone is much more than an object.Without one there would be little to nothing to stand for, believe in, or protect.

It's something to live for and die for, love and fight for.


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Perhaps the most significant difference between the man of Earth and the Gorean is that the Gorean has a Home Stone, and the man of Earth does not. It is difficult to make clear to a non-Gorean the significance of the Home Stone, for the non-Gorean has never had a Home Stone, and thus cannot understand its meaning, its reality. I think that I shall not try to make clear what is the significance to a Gorean of the Home Stone. It would be difficult to put into words; indeed, it is perhaps impossible to put into words; I shall not try. I think this is one of the saddest things about the men of Earth, that they have no Home Stone. ~Slave Girl, 9:213-214[/color][/font][/color]


So as I am understanding it, the Home Stone is a symbol of the Gorean's soveriegnty, his ownership and self-determination within his sphere of influence. And nothing is so important or sacred to a Gorean as his freedom and soveriegnty.
And like any symbol such as a flag, the symbol itself takes on a talismanic importance- we all know a flag is just a piece of cloth, but we still treat it with care, avoid getting it dirty, etc.

So what was Norman saying, when he said that men of Earth don't have a Home Stone? I would hazard a guess that he was making a critique of American culture that we lacked sufficient social cohesiveness to band together under a common purpose.
He wrote the first novel in 1967, at the height of the Vietnam war, when America was being torn apart by the countercultural protests. I sense in the books a scorn for both the feminist dominated left, and the soft complacency of mainstream American culture, a longing for something more authentic, something where a life had intense purpose and meaning, always teetering on the razor edge of life and death.
I wonder what Norman thought of that brief moment after 9-11, when the entire nation had a genuine sense of unity and purpose, of both rage and loss.


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RE: What makes you a gorean? - 1/28/2010 11:53:40 AM   
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Tal AnimusRex,

This is only My opinion but I feel Norman was referring to individual Home Stones. I would see the Home Stone of Ar or any of the other large cities as the Flag of a country but most homes and families do not have a individual Home Stone. A symbol of their own Honor and Standards. I may be wrong but that is how I see it, but many do not understand what something like that is until they have put themselves in a position to defend what they believe in and hold dear to them.

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RE: What makes you a gorean? - 1/28/2010 12:13:40 PM   
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I remember TC asking Misk if such and such (something in the nest) was a Home Stone. Misk said no, and TC asked if The Mother might be the Home Stone.

I sorta took that to mean that all men and gods have Home Stones, some just not realizing the significance of their lives and the meanings, some defending and some wasting, and some defending without any ....well some in fact, some in spirit and some in ignorance.... sort of convoluted but I am sure you clever folks will get the gimmick I am driving at.

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RE: What makes you a Gorean? - 1/28/2010 1:33:53 PM   
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Seems to me that when the books say a man carrying a Home Stone is not to be taken lightly, it is because of the seriousness with which that man takes it.  Most Goreans would die for their own home stone in the books.  So, of course, a person not wishing to fight to the death would not "take it lightly".  I don't think that is the same as saying that one Gorean respects the home stone of another city.  Respect on Gor among strangers is never simply given.  To steal the home stone of another city is a positive thing for a warrior to do although it would be unthinkable for one to disrespect their own home stone or do anything similar. 

As a concept, one's home stone is significant philosophically, as a literal object, it is a role-playing object from a sci-fi novel.  If it weren't for the drive to do a bit of role-play, most wouldn't call themselves Gorean.  Since the Gor series does not represent a single cohesive philosophy but instead looks at many different philosophies and cultures.   

Something just occured to me, Tarl's father had a homestone in his chamber, I always thought that since he was administrator, he looked over the city's home stone or had a personal homestone.  Later, it seems the custom is to pile the home stones pledged to the city's homestone on the highest tower.  When Tarl became a member of the caste of warriors, he pledged himself to the homestone of the city of Koroba (not his father's homestone, or his own).  Tarls father mentioned that one day Tarl might be allowed to have his own home stone.  Seems like there was quite a bit left out there about how that works or maybe there just is no uniformity in the technical details of that tradition.

I also thought that one of the points in the books was showing a bit of developmental psych, where the hero passes from the world of black and white rules and homestones and warrior codes into becoming a "formal operational thinker"(Piaget).  So, as a concept of the simple people of Gor, a homestone may have more importance than to someone, like the hero, who has developed "beyond" that. 

Or, I wonder if most of you guys reject Piaget and his views on morality.

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RE: What makes you a gorean? - 1/28/2010 5:02:47 PM   
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Brule-
So if it was our own personal Home Stones he was referring to, was the meaning that men of Earth don't have strongly enough the concept of personal soveriegnty over their homes and families?
Meaning that we lack the will to be absolute in our authority within our own homes? What makes this so curious to me, is I am looking for some sense of how this plays out in a wider sense.

Is Gorean thinking a sort of libertarianism, a radical individualist thinking, where we all pursue our self interest, and ignoring the concept of societal responsibility (like welfare and charity)?

Or is it making a claim for tribalism, where we act with concern and mutual responsibility for others, but only within our tribe/ clan/ city?

Or does Gorean philosophy even lend itself to social/ political problems? Maybe it is more focused on personal relationship dynamics only.

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RE: What makes you a Gorean? - 1/28/2010 9:01:05 PM   
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Nephilim your reply is HERE

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RE: What makes you a gorean? - 1/28/2010 9:03:25 PM   
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Brule...

I am well aware it is not a capitalization issue. I understand quite well the importance and symbolism of the Home Stone. I was only making the point that if we immediately jump down someone's throat and berate him for making a mistake that he is obviously oblivious to, then we are risking chasing away one who truly wishes to learn.

Obviously however, as the OP himself has proven, there is doubt that he has such real desire or aptitude.

I will say this. I realize how my statement may have come off, and I apologize if I offended any. It truly was not my intention.

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