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RE: How to get a Dom? - 2/4/2010 3:46:24 PM

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ORIGINAL: goalie1801

I am being this way because I have never had anyone help me before it is just hard. If you ask me specific questions I will do my best to answer them.

i have a specific question, do you even know what a dominant is ?

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RE: How to get a Dom? - 2/4/2010 3:47:03 PM

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Seduce them into a dark room, lock the door and never let them go.

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RE: How to get a Dom? - 2/4/2010 3:48:23 PM

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I want and need the bdsm in my relationship. That is part of who I am and will not hide from it at all.

i'm beginning to hate bdsm, i fucking want control and ownership

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RE: How to get a Dom? - 2/4/2010 4:26:46 PM

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I don't know, maybe move out of Nebraska?

Good luck!

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RE: How to get a Dom? - 2/4/2010 4:28:38 PM

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i'm beginning to hate bdsm, i fucking want control and ownership

Get a cat. That'll fix yer lil red wagon.

MUHAHHAHAHHAHAHHA

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RE: How to get a Dom? - 2/4/2010 4:32:48 PM

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i'm beginning to hate bdsm, i fucking want control and ownership

Get a cat. That'll fix yer lil red wagon.

MUHAHHAHAHHAHAHHA

don't need a cat, i have a goose

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RE: How to get a Dom? - 2/4/2010 4:46:57 PM

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1. Take your time
2. Get to really know somebody
3. meet them but have somebody with you (preferably daylight and in case you get in trouble you have a backup)they can sit nearby at a table if you are having lunch or dinner
4. safe calls
5. go to many munches as you can and get to know people, maybe somebody knows somebody that would be right for you
6. do not jump into a relationship.
7. have patience
8. for some women (i am not saying you) they seem to just have men that aren't good for them gravitate to them and for those women get therapy because for some reason you are picking the wrong people. Learn to possibly recognize the signs of somebody that isn't good for you.
9. join a club or some sort of organization (vanilla) you may meet Him there.
10. If you have a confidence problem work on it (i am not saying you)
11. if you know somebody really well at a munch ask them for what they think and some suggestions
12. be safe and good luck!

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RE: How to get a Dom? - 2/4/2010 4:48:02 PM

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ORIGINAL: osf

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ORIGINAL: goalie1801

I am being this way because I have never had anyone help me before it is just hard. If you ask me specific questions I will do my best to answer them.

i have a specific question, do you even know what a dominant is ?

Don't answer him!!!! It's a trick question. It's the same as what's a henway?

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RE: How to get a Dom? - 2/4/2010 4:49:41 PM

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ORIGINAL: winterlight

1. Take your time
2. Get to really know somebody
3. meet them but have somebody with you (preferably daylight and in case you get in trouble you have a backup)they can sit nearby at a table if you are having lunch or dinner
4. safe calls
5. go to many munches as you can and get to know people, maybe somebody knows somebody that would be right for you
6. do not jump into a relationship.
7. have patience
8. for some women (i am not saying you) they seem to just have men that aren't good for them gravitate to them and for those women get therapy because for some reason you are picking the wrong people. Learn to possibly recognize the signs of somebody that isn't good for you.
9. join a club or some sort of organization (vanilla) you may meet Him there.
10. If you have a confidence problem work on it (i am not saying you)
11. if you know somebody really well at a munch ask them for what they think and some suggestions
12. be safe and good luck!
13. Give large cash tributes.

Edited this cuz winter dropped the ball.

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RE: How to get a Dom? - 2/4/2010 5:13:15 PM

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I dont know what you guys are talking about 'dropping the ball' or it being a trick question.

do you even know what a dominant is?--- It is someone that domaints over someone else. Someone that is willing to guide, direct and train someone under them.

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RE: How to get a Dom? - 2/4/2010 5:18:07 PM

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Also...

1. What are your talents that have nothing to do with kink?
I am into sports, trying to finish school.
2. What gives you joy in life, makes you laugh?
I love water, anything with water and dream vaction is going to the beach. I like small groups or one on ones. not big into crowds, clubs or big parties.
3. Why would a guy want to be around you?
I am easy going and can just hang out. I can do anything from spending the day at the muesum to spending it at the ball game.
4. What do you enjoy doing on a lazy Sunday afternoon?
Watch football if it that season, if it is nice out go for a walk or just curl up on the couch and watch movies

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RE: How to get a Dom? - 2/4/2010 5:18:32 PM

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Seriously? YOu wanna know how to get a Dom?

How do you get a man?

It's not anything different. Same rules apply.

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RE: How to get a Dom? - 2/4/2010 5:20:39 PM

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ORIGINAL: goalie1801

I dont know what you guys are talking about 'dropping the ball' or it being a trick question.

do you even know what a dominant is?--- It is someone that domaints over someone else. Someone that is willing to guide, direct and train someone under them.

ok, but why?

why does he do this?

what's in it for him?

the way you put it, you get all the fun

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RE: How to get a Dom? - 2/4/2010 5:20:51 PM

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ORIGINAL: goalie1801
do you even know what a dominant is?

I don't know what it is, but I know when I'm in bed with one *drool*.

PS: sorry, but this made me laugh :-) ...

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goalie

It is someone that domaints over someone else.

Cute.

< Message edited by kittinSol -- 2/4/2010 5:22:27 PM >

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RE: How to get a Dom? - 2/4/2010 5:44:58 PM

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quick guide on how to survive osf, domiguy and fukintroll -

when they write something that confuses you:

* smile to youreself
* blow them a little kiss
* move swiftly on

theyre just playing with you - and need a sub to torment - id offer my services, you know, in the spirit of helpfullness an' all, but its my bed time.

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RE: How to get a Dom? - 2/4/2010 5:51:50 PM

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ORIGINAL: Lucienne

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ORIGINAL: goalie1801

I just want someone to cuddle up at night with.

If that's what you want more than anything, I'd suggest expanding your search beyond bdsm.

\

I don't know, I was spanked pretty soundly before being sent to bed the other night, and he cuddled me... hey, perhaps we just aren't kinky enough *shrugs*

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RE: How to get a Dom? - 2/4/2010 5:54:22 PM

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ORIGINAL: goalie1801

Also...

1. What are your talents that have nothing to do with kink?
I am into sports, trying to finish school.
2. What gives you joy in life, makes you laugh?
I love water, anything with water and dream vaction is going to the beach. I like small groups or one on ones. not big into crowds, clubs or big parties.
3. Why would a guy want to be around you?
I am easy going and can just hang out. I can do anything from spending the day at the muesum to spending it at the ball game.
4. What do you enjoy doing on a lazy Sunday afternoon?
Watch football if it that season, if it is nice out go for a walk or just curl up on the couch and watch movies

so, do you see? - opening up and sharing who you are gives people a better idea of the person theyre looking at. what you do next is write a profile that expresses all of this, describes you and how you feel and what you want to give to the relationship.

ok, so the next bit is whats the man you have inside youre head. what makes goalie dream happy dreams. when youve worked that out in youre head youll be better equipped to spot him when he writes to you and more likely to ditch the ones that dont match up.

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RE: How to get a Dom? - 2/4/2010 5:55:51 PM

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edited to remove unhelpful stuff

< Message edited by juliaoceania -- 2/4/2010 5:56:27 PM >

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RE: How to get a Dom? - 2/4/2010 5:59:49 PM

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quick guide on how to survive osf, domiguy and fukintroll -

when they write something that confuses you:

* smile to youreself
* blow them a little kiss
* move swiftly on

theyre just playing with you - and need a sub to torment - id offer my services, you know, in the spirit of helpfullness an' all, but its my bed time.

so, where's my kiss?

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RE: How to get a Dom? - 2/4/2010 6:00:56 PM

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are you the person the person you want, wants

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