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self bondage ideas - 2/8/2010 4:21:25 PM   
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i was just wondering if anyone had any self bondage ideas

wasnt sure where to post this thread
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RE: self bondage ideas - 2/8/2010 4:46:17 PM   
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After what happened to David Carradine I can only hope you are careful

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RE: self bondage ideas - 2/8/2010 4:47:35 PM   
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I got all tangled up in the vacuum cleaner cord yesterday...

hadda use my safeword.

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RE: self bondage ideas - 2/8/2010 4:49:03 PM   
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I got all tangled up in the vacuum cleaner cord yesterday...

hadda use my safeword.


Did your vacuum respect it?


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RE: self bondage ideas - 2/8/2010 4:49:11 PM   
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After what happened to Michael Hutchence I can only hope you are careful

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RE: self bondage ideas - 2/8/2010 4:50:28 PM   
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quote:

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I got all tangled up in the vacuum cleaner cord yesterday...

hadda use my safeword.


Did your vacuum respect it?


Yes! It sucked up a dime and stopped!

We have a tight relationship.

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RE: self bondage ideas - 2/8/2010 6:54:39 PM   
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I never understood self bondage. To me, it is like trying to french kiss yourself.

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RE: self bondage ideas - 2/8/2010 7:02:15 PM   
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You got some wise-ass, yet very wise advice. Perhaps you can give us a little more info on what exactly it is that you are trying to accomplish?

I actually did a search and appart from people saying they were into self-bondage, it actually hasn't been discussed much here.

I did however find this group with 415 members on FetLife: http://fetlife.com/groups/2309 and they seem to be posting lots of ideas on how to do it.

Again, be careful, ok?

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RE: self bondage ideas - 2/8/2010 7:07:21 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: subtee


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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

quote:

ORIGINAL: subtee

I got all tangled up in the vacuum cleaner cord yesterday...

hadda use my safeword.


Did your vacuum respect it?


Yes! It sucked up a dime and stopped!

We have a tight relationship.


Don't you hate it that after a good night of fucking when loose change is stuck to your ass?

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RE: self bondage ideas - 2/8/2010 7:08:38 PM   
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Self bondage.  What's that smell coming from Domi's place?

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RE: self bondage ideas - 2/8/2010 9:58:45 PM   
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I'm with the "I never understood self-bondage crowd".

But I do understand masturbation.

So, in a way, I guess it's the same thing.

Is it?

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RE: self bondage ideas - 2/8/2010 10:00:06 PM   
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I guess it is, if it gets you off. Anything that gets you off could be considered some type of masturbation. It is only the method that varies.

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RE: self bondage ideas - 2/8/2010 11:29:53 PM   
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"Auto Erotic Asphyxiation"
and
"Self Bondage"..


You people scare the HeeBee JeeBees out of me.
Clearly different activities.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Autoerotic_asphyxiation
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self-bondage

David Carradine was into Both these activities.
It was Auto Erotic Asphyxiation that resulted
in his Death, not Self Bondage.



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RE: self bondage ideas - 2/8/2010 11:32:08 PM   
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In terms of my own experience, I had practiced a form of self bondage that was similar to Kinbaku. my movement was not physically restrained. I used to take old t-shirts and use them to make rope out of. I would tie elaborate webbing up and down my legs, use the belt hoops of either my Jeans/Parachute/Leather pants for tie off points. I would weave the webbing at times around my upper body as well. It was not uncommon for me to make one run through my crotch even. I actually would incorperate different colors of cloth rope made from old t-shirts. Even would add touches of color with tieing off small pieces of rope to the web itself. (a bit like tinsel on a christmas tree).

Pausing for a moment, this post should be sub-titled "Confessions of a Freak"...

I am certain there are a few eye brows raised this moment, It's one thing to coldly express the mechanics of something, another to share the mental aspects and other physical aspects of something. Let me express that the pants I wore when doing this were tight. So not like the Urban Wear Baggy Ass ones. These self bindings on my body felt good, literally loved and enjoyed the sensation. It did not instill the feelings of helplessness inside of me, but rather that of power and freedom. Sort of like Super Mario Brothers where you Power Up for a bit. (if you can relate to the video game analogy).

Now, what I'm about to express some people may find appalling or amuzing. I incorperated this into how I would dress up at times, and yes. I would walk out my door and enter the public world (without shame or embrassment). I know WTF and OMG!!!

There's a certain factor of power involved when one dresses like a freak and it turns into a public statement. For one, you know you are going to get attention. (both positive or negative). There's a certain degree of MIND FUCK factor involved because somebody encountering you for the first time would be going OMG/WTF inside their head (at times verbally open about it). Now, in terms of being a FREAK, it's a bit tricky and complex. Because you can pull it off sucessfully or Fail miserable. Clothing does not compensate for lack of social skills and other things. I have seen some people with extremely poor social skills become the literal walking targets for Verbal Social Abuse, and even provoke desires for near physical abuse. If you don't have Good Social skills you may want to rethink things before Dressing up like a freak anywhere. Somebody might literally eat you up for breakfast and spit your pathethic low self esteem out after lunch.

Those that have never dreassed like a freak please keep an open mind before Stereotype judging things. I did not dress like this every single day, that there were times when it was more times than not. I started doing this in High School then continued for a number of years afterwards. It's not currently that I currently engage in doing.

Anyways, I was able to capitalize upon the fact, I was one of those musicians types. Playing Guitar in a rock band has it's perks. Musicians can literally do and get away with all kinds of shit without major wide spread social ramifications. I literally took this to some new and different extreme levels. I ended up crafting my own look. It had a BDSM theme to it, without looking like a Leathered up Dungeon Master. I also had a bit of the Heavy Metal elements to it, and blah....

Not only was the way I dress reinforcing the fact that I was a Guitar player in a band, it also was making a statement that I was into Kinky shit as well. Think of somebody looking a bit like a Cross of Billy Idol and being out of the Rock Group Ratt at the time, with a slice of Danzieg thrown in. I digress...

Needless to say, I sincerely did enjoy how it felt on my body, this form of Self Bondage. To make these tight webs around my body. I would have to retighten it because the cloth rope from T-Shirts would start to loosen up and stretch. So, there were moments when I had to stop and fix it.

There is more I could share, but this is way way way... too much...

Now days, I'm rather calm and tame. I look a bit like every other guy. Then again, I make it a point to want to keep a low profile. I don't want the crazy attention nor popularity. I don't have complete strangers walking up to me, asking me where the band is playing next and blah blah blah...

I shared a lot more, than I intended. Because in admitting to this form of self bondage would mean elaborating upon other things. A proverbial can of worms.

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RE: self bondage ideas - 2/9/2010 12:40:47 AM   
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Here is a link library I posted to free instructional videos on knot tying & bondage. Hope there is something in there you can use.
-=Several Instructional Rope Bondage Videos=-

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I never understood self bondage. To me, it is like trying to french kiss yourself.

As a sadistic Dominant, I can understand all the connections and feelings between two people when bindage is involved. I don't like being bound so I have trouble equating self bondage to other auto-reactive things like jerking off or cooking for yourself. However, there was one partcular girl that gave me insight into her reasons for practicing self bondage.

There was a nice BDSM dungeon just outside Tampa. Ever so often I would see this one girl who used to attend alone and tie herself up, over and over. She would pick out a nice spot, methodically unpack her collection of rope with all the various colors and study it all for a few minutes. Then you could see the gears of imagination turning in her mind until her eyes sparkled and you knew she had formulated a plan. Sure enough, soon she would set out tying herself up in various ways.

Every so often she would hop or crawl over to me while she was half way through and ask me to put a finger in the knot she was tying. On one such occasion, I asked her about tying herself up like that. She said, “my boyfriend can’t always attend this dungeon because of his schedule. I absolutely love bondage but I’m not allowed to play with others. So, when he can’t make it, I come here alone and tie myself up.”

As far as the OP goes, I can tell you I recall she would tie the knots in the ‘basket’ then slip into it. Same process for many other full body rigs . . . she laid it out, tied it up all except the final few knots, then wriggled into it. Also, I will tell you that she was in a dungeon full of people if she needed help . . . and, on more than one occasion, someone had to assist to get that first knot undone so she could free the rest herself.

Good luck and have fun playing with yourself!

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RE: self bondage ideas - 2/9/2010 12:55:50 AM   
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This is ain't really self bondage per se for me, but there are times when I have practiced or tried things out on myself. RA's post made me stop and think about the when nobody else is around thing. Hell, I'm guilty of doing this just the other week. In fact, I was watching a couple of Youtube videos and came across something I not done before. I really had no other intent other than to get the technique down.

So I guess with that said, You can troll youtube for some how to videos with working with rope, and apply it to yourself.

ResidentSadists post sort of jilted my mind to make this post.

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RE: self bondage ideas - 2/9/2010 1:24:43 AM   
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I am into a lot of 'self' stuff, so also bondage, i totally 'get' it

I wear tight ropes around my waist and through my crotch at times maybe keeping insertables in place while i do my boring housework... it makes the jobs a lot more agreeable really.

Also i tie ropes around my breasts sometimes, tight enough the ropes make my breasts feel hard and they stick out just right... it feels like a very sexy and supportive bra. Occasionally will leave the house with my breasts tied like that under my clothes, it makes me feel very sub and very sexy
and also like a freak eventhough nobody can see it.
(a bit pointless to do when you are a man though haha)

i am expected to tell my Husband about all these perverted things i get up to, which embarrasses me greatly, which is another bonus.

i am all for doing silly stuff to make life less mondain...
just be careful not to do any harm

some people tie red twines around their wrists... but that has to do with some religion i think.
also many people are into corsets which is a form of self bondage (and breath play even)

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RE: self bondage ideas - 2/9/2010 3:08:48 AM   
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I like to wear tight tank tops, does that count?
I hate wearing loose fit boxer shorts too...

However, I hate being imobilized or my movement restricted. With exception of Mutal Bondage such as being hand cuffed, hand and hand together. Mutal Bondage is another facet of bondage altogether. But it's rather symbolic of being bonded and joined together. Give it a try for a few hours or a day with your partner, and attempt to go about doing normal activities besides SEX and Kink, it's truely an Amazing experience. But that's a topic for another thread.

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RE: self bondage ideas - 2/9/2010 7:18:11 PM   
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Whatever you decide to do, make sure you have a way of getting out quickly if you need to - yes it takes some of the "fun" away, but keep scissors handy so you don't strangle, choke, etc. yourself. 

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RE: self bondage ideas - 2/11/2010 7:41:12 AM   
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There is a website that I came across at one point that I thought offered great step by step instructions... If you click to go in, it is free but they have a lot of advertisements on the first page you get to.  Click through the links and you might like. 

It is www.boundanna.com

Now before anyone gets smart and says: Why should I go to an online site just because you say it has good information?  I will answer: Don't, makes no difference to me, just sharing knowledge.

A couple other good ropes resources that I have come across (or liked) is twisted monk videos.  If you google, I am sure you can find the link to that.  They sell rope, etc, but they show some good videos regarding how to do certain ties.  I am sure some of this could be applied to one self.

A book I liked was "Two Knotty Boys Showing You the Ropes"  I bought it off of amazon.com but you could probably order it from any bookstore.

Definitely be careful.  I think the David Carradine death was related to self breath play, but it could have been self-bondage gone wrong too.  Safest best is not to tie yourself in a way that you cannot get free or escape if you had to fast (ie fire).

Good luck.

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