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RE: [b]Are you Orally Addicted?[/b] - 2/17/2010 6:19:38 AM

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Do you experience mental and emotional satisfaction, giving oral sex to Your Dominant?

yes, very much.

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Do you love to do it at the snap of the fingers, even when knowing you yourself will not cum until given permission, perhaps even days later?

yes, very much.

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Do you feel you are giving it, in a pure unselfish act of giving, without any expectation of something in return?

giving has it's own rewards, so yes.

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Can you become addicted to giving oral sex? Do you feel a deep need to give oral to your Dominant?

this slave is addicted to/feels a deep need to please Him...so, if He didn't like oral sex, she wouldn't be so motivated to do it.

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RE: [b]Are you Orally Addicted?[/b] - 2/17/2010 6:24:12 AM

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Who does not love oral of any type?

this slave doesn't...she only likes the type of oral where there is a cock going in her mouth. any other "types" of oral are repulsive.

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RE: [b]Are you Orally Addicted?[/b] - 2/17/2010 6:40:09 AM

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Do you experience mental and emotional satisfaction, giving oral sex to Your Dominant?

oh hell yes...especially if i make him scream

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Do you love to do it at the snap of the fingers, even when knowing you yourself will not cum until given permission, perhaps even days later?

it pleases him, so of course.

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Do you feel you are giving it, in a pure unselfish act of giving, without any expectation of something in return?

no...it is not unselfish, as i get a great deal of satisfaction from pleasing him.

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Can you become addicted to giving oral sex? Do you feel a deep need to give oral to your Dominant?

i feel the need to please him, and that need is what i am addicted to.

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RE: [b]Are you Orally Addicted?[/b] - 2/17/2010 8:54:04 AM

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Do you experience mental and emotional satisfaction, giving oral sex to Your Dominant?

Yes

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Do you love to do it at the snap of the fingers, even when knowing you yourself will not cum until given permission, perhaps even days later?

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Again yes

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Do you feel you are giving it, in a pure unselfish act of giving, without any expectation of something in return?

No, I get immensely turned on and gain emotional satisfaction

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an you become addicted to giving oral sex? Do you feel a deep need to give oral to your Dominant?

Im sure you can, but I am not. I can function in my life and I do not obsess on giving him oral. I just enjoy it when I am allowed to service him like this, deeply enjoy it. But I do not think about it all the time when I am not with him or when we are doing other things

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RE: [b]Are you Orally Addicted?[/b] - 2/17/2010 12:17:26 PM

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ORIGINAL: seekingOwnertoo

Are you Orally Addicted

Gulp... Slurrrp... Gulp... Slurrrp... <raises head> YES!!! <lowers head>... Gulp... Slurrrp... Gulp... Slurrrp...

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RE: [b]Are you Orally Addicted?[/b] - 2/17/2010 8:12:22 PM

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Personally, i think oral sex is one of the most vanilla things that we do. After all, what vanilla guy doesn't like having his dick sucked? What vanilla woman doesn't like having her pussy licked? (Yes, i know there are exceptions to this generalization. No need to waste time pointing this out).

That said, i do enjoy oral servitude. To me, it becomes servitude when it must be done on command, and there is no reciprocation (orally or otherwise) unless she decides to do so. The endgame is Her pleasure, and Her pleasure only.

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RE: [b]Are you Orally Addicted?[/b] - 2/17/2010 8:40:26 PM

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Personally, i think oral sex is one of the most vanilla things that we do. After all, what vanilla guy doesn't like having his dick sucked? What vanilla woman doesn't like having her pussy licked? (Yes, i know there are exceptions to this generalization. No need to waste time pointing this out).

That said, i do enjoy oral servitude. To me, it becomes servitude when it must be done on command, and there is no reciprocation (orally or otherwise) unless she decides to do so. The endgame is Her pleasure, and Her pleasure only.

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RE: [b]Are you Orally Addicted?[/b] - 2/18/2010 5:25:50 AM

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That said, i do enjoy oral servitude. To me, it becomes servitude when it must be done on command, and there is no reciprocation (orally or otherwise) unless she decides to do so. The endgame is Her pleasure, and Her pleasure only.

Which in turn is pleasure for a boy who likes to serve...

And oh gosh, where is a Reciprocal Feedback Loop Diagram when I need one ;-)

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RE: [b]Are you Orally Addicted?[/b] - 2/18/2010 9:01:36 AM

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,, i just love to do it,,
i will even say that it is selfish of me at time,, because i get so much pleasure by seen him , i give a lot more than a receive about oral,, but that is ok like that ,, i get others kind of kink ,,,
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RE: [b]Are you Orally Addicted?[/b] - 2/18/2010 8:04:30 PM

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Not entirely sure this is answering your question so much as commenting on the direction that the thread's been tending, but here's my $.02.

Head's... interesting for me. While the look on Kitten's face while she's going down on me is utterly adorable, having someone's teeth near my dick makes me highly uncomfortable, and as a result I get a lot of conflicting self-feedback and it takes me bloody ages to come. So... not really my thing, and for the moment it's not something that I feel the need to really address.

Kitten's got some issues with me going down on her, but I'll leave that to her to post, or not. Do I enjoy going down on her? Sure, as a precursor to sex. In and of itself, as an end and not a means? So-so.

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RE: [b]Are you Orally Addicted?[/b] - 2/18/2010 8:11:39 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

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That said, i do enjoy oral servitude. To me, it becomes servitude when it must be done on command, and there is no reciprocation (orally or otherwise) unless she decides to do so. The endgame is Her pleasure, and Her pleasure only.

Which in turn is pleasure for a boy who likes to serve...

Exactly!!

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RE: [b]Are you Orally Addicted?[/b] - 2/19/2010 4:22:50 AM

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as a consental slave i have no choice about giving oral to both Master and Mistress in fact its a rule of Masters to swallow and clean every time pretty much the same with Mistress if i had a choice yes i would do it and like it done to me but i would choose not to swallow

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RE: [b]Are you Orally Addicted?[/b] - 2/19/2010 8:59:58 AM

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Wow, a lot of nice, thoughtful comments here!

And i would like to thank everyone who has to date done so. i hope i don't miss anyone.

ranja ...

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my mouth is usually wanting most attention...

... sometimes i felt lonely receiving oral sex from Him...

a nice unselfish thought! It seems a feeling of closeness is really important to you

Mercnbeth ... thank you for sharing ... you really tried to address all of the questions and i really appreciate this! Thank you!

sirsholly ... thank You also for sharing. i particularly relate to both of these comments ..

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it is not unselfish, as i get a great deal of satisfaction from pleasing him

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i feel the need to please him, and that need is what i am addicted to.

But i will add that i believe the need and desire to give is unselfish ... it is putting your lover before your needs ... and as such ... one actually gains a higher level of satisfaction then one was previously able to experience by looking out for there own needs ...

yeah ... i can really complex it up! LOL i thank you for sharing!

juliaoceania and thank you for sharing ... and i appreciate and relate to this comment

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I get immensely turned on and gain emotional satisfaction

But i will also stand by my previous comment because i believe you also have risen to a higher level of satisfaction ...

MasterSlaveLA ...

You express your thoughts so eloquently ... i am cracking up in laughter ... thank you!

Rochsub2009 thank you ...

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The endgame is Her pleasure, and Her pleasure only

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i am thinking you hit the thing pretty well with these words ... but seriously ... as i mentioned earlier there is a new level of personal satisfaction that can be achieved in unselfish giving ... so it it an end game ... or is it ....

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And oh gosh, where is a Reciprocal Feedback Loop Diagram when I need one

Thank You Lady Angelika You said it all with the comment i quoted above! ;-)

elleX Thank you for sharing ... your thoughts are heartwarming ...

Valyraen

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While the look on Kitten's face while she's going down on me is utterly adorable

i am thinking your $.02 is worth a cup of coffee in my town! ;-) So either the currency is deflating at a rapid rate ... or your answer is good. Thanks for your Dominant perspective.

ponygirlthree

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as a consental slave i have no choice about giving oral to both Master and Mistress in fact its a rule of Masters to swallow and clean every time pretty much the same with Mistress if i had a choice yes i would do it

Thank you for your truly unique perspective ...

Well it think i got everybody who posted thoughtful things since my last round of thanks ...

and again let me say ... i do appreciate sincerity ... both thoughtful and humorous.

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RE: [b]Are you Orally Addicted?[/b] - 2/19/2010 12:50:20 PM

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Yes i'm giving or receiving

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RE: [b]Are you Orally Addicted?[/b] - 2/19/2010 2:26:40 PM

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Oh gawd yes! I am a compulsive oral slut! There is truely nothing I love more than giving oral sex to both women and men! While I never expect anything in return I can't say it's an unselfish act. I do get complete satisfaction myself just from the act of eating pussy or sucking cock. I frequently have multipul orgasms (without ejaculating) while giving oral even without being touched or touching myself. I just get an incredible head rush from using my mouth to make someone else orgasm.

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RE: [b]Are you Orally Addicted?[/b] - 2/20/2010 10:57:36 AM

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Finally, a thread I can completely, vehemently agree with. YES. It's my favorite thing to do by far, though I prefer having my mouth fucked to sucking. Not that sucking all eagerly isn't unbelievably amazing. I just like feeling...er...used.

TMI?

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RE: [b]Are you Orally Addicted?[/b] - 2/20/2010 6:35:13 PM

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WOW, a straight guy who likes to eat pussy. Who da thunk it?

lol... But to hear them talk, they all love it and are masters at it.

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RE: [b]Are you Orally Addicted?[/b] - 2/20/2010 7:58:17 PM

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Hi.

I LOVE a slave giving me oral sex so he better like giving it or I'll have to sit on his face and make him like it.

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RE: [b]Are you Orally Addicted?[/b] - 2/21/2010 7:50:38 AM

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Who does not love oral of any type?

I love performing it and receiving it. I never encountered anyone who did not want to do it.

I am

I could not care less about oral either way...I don't mind to give it when he demands it but I can do very well without either way...

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RE: [b]Are you Orally Addicted?[/b] - 2/21/2010 8:40:13 AM

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Yes, I do feel a great satisfaction from providing oral sex at the snap of his finger (quite literally.) I'm sure, though, that it is more oral servitude that I get the great satisfaction from, rather than just the act of oral sex.

While it is a giving act in the sense that there is no expectation, or want, really, on my part for anything in return....it is not completely selfless because it is what also "does it" for me the most. Hours spent serving him and all his "manland" while he works at his desk or watches a movie or reads a book or concentrates fully on me are when I am at my most heightened aroused state.

I don't know if I would call it an addiction - I'm sure I could survive without it and not have classic withdrawal symptoms - but I would miss it greatly if it were taken from me.

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