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ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

I kind of like my boys au naturel, no modifying them unless it is required for health reasons.

Darn!!!!   Does that mean that you won't perform surgery on me to redirect my urethra to my anus so i can pee out of my butt? 

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ORIGINAL: pyroaquatic

Holy melted penis Anteaterman I can leash my penis

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ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009

i guess my question would be "who performs this procedure?"

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ORIGINAL: asubsydneymale
This would be a simple procedure.

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

Every once in a while, I can still be creeped out.

This is a good thing to know.......



Jeff

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika
And it's unfortunate because what they probably don't realise is that most hetero-inclined good women, domme and sub, really believe that a hard penis is good to find ;-)

- LA

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

The fact you are posting extreme body questions on a fluff/kink BDSM site will make readers doubt your intent, seriousness or sanity. I hang with a pretty rough crowd and bifurcation, ear notching, extreme piercing and other extreme body mods are not uncommon.

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ORIGINAL: GraciousLady

There is body modification then there is sickness. To me, and I think most agree here, making your self better by modification ends when you risk normal function and health/life. There is even a medical condition called body dysmorphic disorder. People with this medical condition may even see their hand, for example, as a bad thing and want it removed. I can't say if the OP has this but I do know he is struggling with some level of lack of reality and has fuled his problem by watching weird internet porn. He may sincerly not know what he is talking about is wrong or he may just be verbalizing a fantasy that he would never act on.

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

Marc2b, I understand your reaction. What you have to realise is that there are men who for some reason or another really feel their penises are bad things. They want to mutiliate it or even castrate it because for some reason, they have internalised that being a man is a bad thing (by the way, from this I exclude all individuals going through a gender reassignement process as that is not the same thing at all).

And it's unfortunate because what they probably don't realise is that most hetero-inclined good women, domme and sub, really believe that a hard penis is good to find ;-)

- LA

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ORIGINAL: asubsydneymale

I was wondering if any of the women here modify their subs by making a small
incision behind the scrotum, routing the uretha out at this point and
cauterizing the remaining uretha in the penis so nothing ever comes out the end.
All fluids would drain behind the scrotum. The obvious advatages would be.
(1) the male would have to sit to urinate, no more toilet seats left up, or "misses"
messes.
(2) When he is allowed to have sex, or an orgasm a collection bag could
be placed over the opening to collect the semen, to be used or disposed of. Even
a square of duct tape could be placed over the opening to ensure no fluids made
a mess. This would also have the effect of not leaving semen in his masters
vagina, and would be a good form of birth control. This would be a simple
procedure.
(3) This would leave a fully functioning penis for your pleasures that did not make messes.

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ORIGINAL: crazyml

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ORIGINAL: GraciousLady

There is body modification then there is sickness. To me, and I think most agree here, making your self better by modification ends when you risk normal function and health/life. There is even a medical condition called body dysmorphic disorder. People with this medical condition may even see their hand, for example, as a bad thing and want it removed. I can't say if the OP has this but I do know he is struggling with some level of lack of reality and has fuled his problem by watching weird internet porn. He may sincerly not know what he is talking about is wrong or he may just be verbalizing a fantasy that he would never act on.

Argh, you make a brave and good point. The problem, within a community which has to fight so hard to define its activities as acceptable, is that this desire to allow complete freedom of action makes it very hard to draw a line - At what point do you say to someone that their desires are symptoms of mental illness?
(My response in caps)
MENTAL ILLNESS IS WHEN YOUR DESIRE CAUSES PERMENANT DAMAGE TO THE EXTENT YOU CAN NOT FUNCTION NORMALY, IT CAN NOT BE DONE WITHOUT EXTREME DANGER OR MAY CAUSE DEATH. THE OP HAS NO VALID REASON TO ALTER HIS BODY IN THIS WAY. PLAINLY, NO ONE HERE FINDS IT TO BE A GOOD IDEA, USEFUL OR EVEN ATTRACTIVE. IF HE DOES ATTEMPT IT THE PROCEDURE WILL LIKELY BE AT THE HANDS OF AN UNQUALIFIED PERSON. I SAY IF HE REALLY WANTS THIS DONE IT IS MENTAL ILLNESS.

For me, an interest in body modification doesn't necesarily signal mental illness - but as you say - full-on dysmorphism is a recognised disorder (for which amputation is sometimes the best response..).

I judge these things (from my very own personal and highly subjective perspective) from the "lasting harm" perspective - is doing a certain activity going to cause lasting harm - The bifurcation of a tongue is an eccentric but cosmetic thing which in my very subjective opinion wouldn't necesarily cause lasting harm - The amputation of a leg would. The procedure proposed by the OP doesn't fall into the "leg amputation" category so my personal take is - "If that's what you want, then go fill your boots!" - But yes, there is a voice in my head saying "MAD AS A SACK OF CATS!" at the same time..

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ORIGINAL: crazyml

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist
The fact you are posting extreme body questions on a fluff/kink BDSM site will make readers doubt your intent, seriousness or sanity. I hang with a pretty rough crowd and bifurcation, ear notching, extreme piercing and other extreme body mods are not uncommon.

I for one am so, so, glad that there are some weel-hardocre twue BDSM'ers on this forum to set all of us dilletantes straight once in a while ;-)

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

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ORIGINAL: crazyml

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist
The fact you are posting extreme body questions on a fluff/kink BDSM site will make readers doubt your intent, seriousness or sanity. I hang with a pretty rough crowd and bifurcation, ear notching, extreme piercing and other extreme body mods are not uncommon.

I for one am so, so, glad that there are some weel-hardocre twue BDSM'ers on this forum to set all of us dilletantes straight once in a while ;-)

I can understand the association between livestock style ear notching of slaves but WTF does penis bifurcation, extreme piercing and other body mods have to do with “weal” BDSM? Next time you try to jam your sarcastic epeen up someone’s ass, read the post or you may find yourself coming up a bit “short”.

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ORIGINAL: crazyml

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

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ORIGINAL: crazyml

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist
The fact you are posting extreme body questions on a fluff/kink BDSM site will make readers doubt your intent, seriousness or sanity. I hang with a pretty rough crowd and bifurcation, ear notching, extreme piercing and other extreme body mods are not uncommon.

I for one am so, so, glad that there are some weel-hardocre twue BDSM'ers on this forum to set all of us dilletantes straight once in a while ;-)

I can understand the association between livestock style ear notching of slaves but WTF does penis bifurcation, extreme piercing and other body mods have to do with “weal” BDSM? Next time you try to jam your sarcastic epeen up someone’s ass, read the post or you may find yourself coming up a bit “short”.

Oh bless you! Do you need a hug?

My comment was intended to be a light-hearted dig at the implication that only real hardcore types like you and the rough crowd you hang with would be in any position to comment on body-mod.

I certainly didn't expect someone who bills himself as "ResidentSadist" to cry like a little girl when someoeone has a dig!

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

Dear Lighthearted,
Thank you for your answer. My exposure to extreme body mods wasn't in the BDSM world which is why I asked. Other than Master Todd from NYC who has a well publicized bifurcation, most of the extreme body mods I see are in the music industry and drug/dance sub culture. Some of the wildest looking stuff is done with plastic inserts to create shapes and raised patterns under the skin.

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ORIGINAL: jujubeeMB

I really wish I could go back to before I read this post and was traumatized for life...