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RE: Mental Health and the lifestyle - 2/21/2010 1:18:18 PM

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Bob is a dinosaur....Jesus once walked with Bob.

Which is the one time Jesus actually lost his cool and committed a violent act.....true story!

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RE: Mental Health and the lifestyle - 2/21/2010 1:22:19 PM

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The people that are dangerous, IMO, are the ones unable to feel sympathy, empathy, or compassion for other people. They are unable to see, or do not care about, what their actions will do to someone else. Generally these people are referred to as sociopaths.

I nearly fell off my chair when I read this!
When I brought up the concern of sociopaths within this lifestyle (about 8 months ago on here) I got slaughtered by the masses. I had people jumping up and down at their keyboards claiming to be sociopaths, know some really caring sociopaths or have cured a sociopath! and that I should have a little more sympathy.

Thank you CalifChick

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RE: Mental Health and the lifestyle - 2/21/2010 1:30:40 PM

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Bob is a dinosaur....Jesus once walked with Bob.

Which is the one time Jesus actually lost his cool and committed a violent act.....true story!

I believe it is referred to as the "temple tantrum" in the bible.

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RE: Mental Health and the lifestyle - 2/21/2010 1:40:47 PM

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When I brought up the concern of sociopaths within this lifestyle (about 8 months ago on here) I got slaughtered by the masses. I had people jumping up and down at their keyboards claiming to be sociopaths, know some really caring sociopaths or have cured a sociopath! and that I should have a little more sympathy.

That thread sounds... interesting. A preliminary search yielded no results. A really caring sociopath? Like a really tall midget?

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RE: Mental Health and the lifestyle - 2/21/2010 1:46:50 PM

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http://www.collarchat.com/m_2579188/mpage_1/tm.htm I think this is the one she was referring to, but I could be wrong.

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RE: Mental Health and the lifestyle - 2/21/2010 1:47:28 PM

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Bob is a dinosaur....Jesus once walked with Bob.

Which is the one time Jesus actually lost his cool and committed a violent act.....true story!

I believe it is referred to as the "temple tantrum" in the bible.

No no, it's not in the bible, remember Jesus is supposed to be a perfect, non-violent dude. Putting something like that in the bible would fuck with his image. However, I know someone who has video proof....true story

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RE: Mental Health and the lifestyle - 2/21/2010 1:58:00 PM

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

Bob is a dinosaur....Jesus once walked with Bob.

Which is the one time Jesus actually lost his cool and committed a violent act.....true story!

I believe it is referred to as the "temple tantrum" in the bible.

No no, it's not in the bible, remember Jesus is supposed to be a perfect, non-violent dude. Putting something like that in the bible would fuck with his image. However, I know someone who has video proof....true story

It is in the bible - well sorta...there wasn't ACTUALLY any mention of bob!
Matthew 21:12-17
John 2:14-16

If there was mention of Bob, it was probably when Jesus said, "Get thee behind me..."

Just saying

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RE: Mental Health and the lifestyle - 2/21/2010 2:04:25 PM

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http://www.collarchat.com/m_2579188/mpage_1/tm.htm I think this is the one she was referring to, but I could be wrong.

Thanks.

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RE: Mental Health and the lifestyle - 2/21/2010 2:15:55 PM

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It is in the bible - well sorta...there wasn't ACTUALLY any mention of bob!
Matthew 21:12-17
John 2:14-16

If there was mention of Bob, it was probably when Jesus said, "Get thee behind me..."

Just saying

Well hey waddaya know......bet Bob was telling him about outdoor bondage at the time.

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RE: Mental Health and the lifestyle - 2/21/2010 2:21:18 PM

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The people that are dangerous, IMO, are the ones unable to feel sympathy, empathy, or compassion for other people. They are unable to see, or do not care about, what their actions will do to someone else. Generally these people are referred to as sociopaths.

I nearly fell off my chair when I read this!
When I brought up the concern of sociopaths within this lifestyle (about 8 months ago on here) I got slaughtered by the masses. I had people jumping up and down at their keyboards claiming to be sociopaths, know some really caring sociopaths or have cured a sociopath! and that I should have a little more sympathy.

Thank you CalifChick

Everyone knows that sociopaths have no gag reflex...

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RE: Mental Health and the lifestyle - 2/21/2010 2:44:55 PM

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Pondering thoughts...

How harmful is it for two OCD hypersexual freaks to fuck each others brains out? What if they liked it so much they quit their jobs? Then again, they could probally ca$h in a mutual porno career, work at setting new world records for sex. Set up a web cam and website. Ummm... Would be ironic if they made more money at this then their pathetic day jobs that they left.

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RE: Mental Health and the lifestyle - 2/21/2010 4:18:39 PM

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I didn't ask if they can have sex. I said "are they capable of consenting to vanilla sex?".

My point being that if we are willing to regard them as capable of consenting to the "basic" sex acts, then I don't think we can pick and choose what else they are able to consent to.

So how 'crazy' does someone have to be before you say "No, I won't share vanilla sex with you"?

Me personally or in general?

For me, as in "I, Aqua, choose not to have sex with you because I think you are too crazy", I don't have a measuring stick. If I feel that they are dangerously unstable, I will not become romantically or sexually involved with them for my own safety and it really doesn't matter how many assurences I get otherwise. I have to feel comfortable. If they don't have a firm grasp on reality, I won't have sex with them because I don't want to be involved in that.

Now if they are capable of consenting to sex is an entirely different matter than if I choose to have sex with them. I am not trained to determine a person's capability to consent and have to use my own best judgement combined with what I am and am not willing to get involved with.

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RE: Mental Health and the lifestyle - 2/21/2010 4:47:06 PM

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I didn't ask if they can have sex. I said "are they capable of consenting to vanilla sex?".

My point being that if we are willing to regard them as capable of consenting to the "basic" sex acts, then I don't think we can pick and choose what else they are able to consent to.

So how 'crazy' does someone have to be before you say "No, I won't share vanilla sex with you"?

Me personally or in general?

For me, as in "I, Aqua, choose not to have sex with you because I think you are too crazy", I don't have a measuring stick. If I feel that they are dangerously unstable, I will not become romantically or sexually involved with them for my own safety and it really doesn't matter how many assurences I get otherwise. I have to feel comfortable. If they don't have a firm grasp on reality, I won't have sex with them because I don't want to be involved in that.

Now if they are capable of consenting to sex is an entirely different matter than if I choose to have sex with them. I am not trained to determine a person's capability to consent and have to use my own best judgement combined with what I am and am not willing to get involved with.

Thank you, Aqua. I agree with what you've said here and understand what you were saying earlier.

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RE: Mental Health and the lifestyle - 3/12/2010 9:11:09 AM

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I'm crazy and it has greatly enhanced my ability to be sexually expressive. Of course there was that one time I went off the deep end and thought I was a switch, but Master smacked me back to reality and gave me some Haldol...

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