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How far would you go - 3/1/2010 12:39:31 AM   
LittleSlaveone


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Status: offline 		How much damage would a Mistress iflict on a slave that wanted to be bashed and abused by his or a Mistress, how far would you go??
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RE: How far would you go - 3/1/2010 12:53:09 AM   
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RE: How far would you go - 3/1/2010 1:02:54 AM   
allthatjaz


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Status: offline 		One would have to be really into this in the first place. I know some people are. I was recently part of a discussion group when a fem sub stood up and said she liked her Dom to beat her to a pulp and proudly told us she had, had a broken nose, cracked ribs, chipped teeth and lost virtually half her hair. I found myself sitting there thinking 'darling you seriously need some help because your going to end up dead'
Beating someone to a pulp is extreme. Causing damage to a person is beyond something I understand.
Theres a big difference in severely bruising certain parts of the body and smacking someone full on the kidneys with a wooden batten.
Its possible to find one though. There are Dommes out there that are men haters and would love nothing more than to damage you.

Now if your asking about a beating, about being hung up and used at the mercy of a good whip, that's different. With a good masochist I can be a sadist but the one thing that always stops me going beyond my own limits is that its a joint interaction and there is never any intention of causing damage that wont heal up on its own in a few days.


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RE: How far would you go - 3/1/2010 3:40:12 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LittleSlaveone

How much damage would a Mistress iflict on a slave that wanted to be bashed and abused by his or a Mistress, how far would you go??


As far as my personal morals will allow me.

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RE: How far would you go - 3/1/2010 4:51:41 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LittleSlaveone

How much damage would a Mistress iflict on a slave that wanted to be bashed and abused by his or a Mistress, how far would you go??


As a sadist.. I wouldn't do a thing.. as a Mistress either.. its going to be what I want, when I want.. not necessarily what a slave wants... given that I know someone wants that, I'd probably never go there unless I really wanted to.

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RE: How far would you go - 3/1/2010 6:07:19 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LittleSlaveone

How much damage would a Mistress iflict on a slave that wanted to be bashed and abused by his or a Mistress, how far would you go??


There is a difference in fetish and sickness. Sickness is when you intentionaly cause, or intentionaly want, injury so severe it needs medical attention. Making cuts so bad they need stitches or causing broken bones is an example as any changed or alterations to the body that prevents normal function. Even mental or emotional damage to such an extent it prevents the normal course of life is sickness. Fetish is fun, fulfilling and satisfying and should not be confused with or compared to crazy.

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RE: How far would you go - 3/1/2010 6:25:46 AM   
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Status: offline 		Truthfully, if someone wanted to be "bashed and abused" they would be a bad fit for Me.  I find the terminology offensive and the negative association with the words completely different than what I feel sadism and masochism are about.

I also don't consider the things I do to clip as damaging him.  Yes, I've put intentional scars on him.  Yes, he's been branded.  Yes, he's had needle holes in him, parts of him turned black and blue, and all kinds of other physical things done to him.  What I don't do is use his body in such a way that makes him unable to fulfill his other responsibilities in life or incorporate play that has debilitating effects.


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RE: How far would you go - 3/1/2010 6:49:46 AM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		I would not enter into a relationship with someone who wanted to be bashed and didn't want to serve.  If it were just a play session, I would play with them as hard as I liked and if it wasn't hard enough for them, too bad.

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RE: How far would you go - 3/1/2010 7:34:52 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Truthfully, if someone wanted to be "bashed and abused" they would be a bad fit for Me.  I find the terminology offensive and the negative association with the words completely different than what I feel sadism and masochism are about.

I also don't consider the things I do to clip as damaging him.  Yes, I've put intentional scars on him.  Yes, he's been branded.  Yes, he's had needle holes in him, parts of him turned black and blue, and all kinds of other physical things done to him.  What I don't do is use his body in such a way that makes him unable to fulfill his other responsibilities in life or incorporate play that has debilitating effects.



Quoted for truth, and also for sheer gorgeousness (gorgeousity?!).

Thankyou for sharing that, Lady P.


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RE: How far would you go - 3/1/2010 5:23:04 PM   
blmtrsne


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RE: How far would you go - 3/2/2010 8:12:40 AM   
thetammyjo


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ORIGINAL: LittleSlaveone

How much damage would a Mistress iflict on a slave that wanted to be bashed and abused by his or a Mistress, how far would you go??


My ethical and moral code bans me from damaging another human being except in self-defense, defends of another or accidentally.

But I do indeed hurt my submissives, bottoms, and slaves.

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RE: How far would you go - 3/3/2010 11:21:41 PM   
fadedshadow


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Status: offline 		bashed and abused? i don't think abuse belongs in the bdsm lifestyle. and to me abuse is causing intentional harm against someone else's will. so if i were a mistress (which i'm not by any means mind you lol) i would not abuse anyone, if someone wanted that then i won't do anything like that. fuck that

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RE: How far would you go - 3/4/2010 12:24:24 AM   
thepillowdreamer


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How much damage would a Mistress iflict on a slave that wanted to be bashed and abused by his or a Mistress, how far would you go??


this reeks of "i'm horny and want fap fodder."


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RE: How far would you go - 3/4/2010 5:02:13 PM   
dreamerdreaming


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Status: offline 		OP, what exactly did you have in mind (besides wank fodder)??

Define your terms, please. What is bashing and abuse, to you?

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RE: How far would you go - 3/6/2010 8:19:21 PM   
AcademyForSlaves


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I don't mind going far when the sub's into that but I stop before it goes beyond morals and respect for another human. I don't let any thing get bloody, broken, unsanitary, unhealthy, etc. I like to dominate with love.

Hope this helps.

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RE: How far would you go - 3/7/2010 1:31:06 PM   
MzStripes


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Status: offline 		Awesome point! I'd probably do just the opposite as what the submissive was TELLING me to do. Isn't that the whole point? It's what I want. I'm not going to sit back and have a sub underhanded or otherwise control the situation. Nope. No way. NADA....


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RE: How far would you go - 3/7/2010 2:51:34 PM   
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ORIGINAL: thepillowdreamer

quote:

ORIGINAL: LittleSlaveone
How much damage would a Mistress iflict on a slave that wanted to be bashed and abused by his or a Mistress, how far would you go??


this reeks of "i'm horny and want fap fodder."



Glad somebody said it. Although, I will have to look up "fap" - I don't unnastan dis new-fangled slang (that's probably years old!)

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RE: How far would you go - 3/7/2010 4:31:10 PM   
Dilseachd


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Status: offline 		Ive been asked this in the past...in the context of...have you ever been pushed to far? My answer has always been the same. Im still breathing!

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RE: How far would you go - 3/7/2010 4:40:50 PM   
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ORIGINAL: KITTYLECTRO

If I was feeling particularly cruel I would inflict Forced Billy Ray Cyrus.


Are you kidding, have you seen what he looks like now? No force would be required *drools*


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RE: How far would you go - 3/7/2010 4:47:00 PM   
came4U


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Status: offline 		If I were Domme, I'd consider playing the Barney themesong until a guy washed my dishes, while I waterboarded him and he sang the Croatian national anthem.

but I am kind, I'd later take him for a ride in the .25 cent kiddie size boat outside the grocery store while I smacked him over the head like the Skipper did to Gilligan.

*I would make a really, really mean Domme.

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